I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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i am on my third day of periods but the flow is very low.. on the first day it was high on the second day it was less. i took regestrone sandoz 5mg to postone my periods as i was going out on a vaction. i took it for 8 days.are these the ill effects of regestrone or am i pregnant. also on the second day i felt like vomiting but didnt. before going on vacation i and my boyfriend went to his home there i gave him a handjob but he was not wet. then he fingered me. i asked him whether he touched his penis before fingering me so he said no i didnt. but im still scared. also it pains when im in washroom and the flow comes out. please help. can the vomiting feeling be because of the weather change or am i pregnant? (link)
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It seems like the effects of regestrone but just to validate that I would take a drugstore pregnancy test to just make sure your not pregnant.
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Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
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You need to contact the authorities this kind of stuff happens all the time when people decide to send inappropriate pics of themselves to strangers. I wont go on about how your decision of sending nudes in the first place was a bad idea because thats pretty obvious. I will say that its best to come clean to your parents because eventually they will find out and then contact your local police for help because very soon this whole matter could get out of hand. As scared as you might be to tell anyone you need to do it because this needs to be taken care of immediately.
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My friend found a baby kitten at her work and I ended up taking it because she couldn't. It looks about no more than 2 weeks. It can bearly hold its head up and shakes when it walks, its eyes are fully open and it fits in the palm of your hand. I have a bottle for it and it takes a few drinks then pushes away. How do you know how much to feed it? Do you know exactly how old it i? Do you know what I need to do for a kitten this young? Please help!!! (link)
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The best thing to do is to take it to the vet but if you cant do that then I would call them and ask them for basic information because its pretty much impossible to take care of it without talking to a trained professional.
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i have been confused about what i should be, i am a female that is more comfortable dressing in male clothes, i act more masculine then i do feminine however i do have certain female traits that keeping coming out (maternal - from when i was a step mum). i have been reading up and considering going through with a sex change operation. the only thing that is holding me back is i want kids and want to be able to conceive naturally. (link)
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You dont have to have a sex change. If you feel more comfortable dressing as a male and acting like one then you can still do that being a female there is nothing wrong with that. A gender change will only change your physical appearance. If you feel like your meant to be more masculine you can go ahead and be that way a lot of woman actually dress and look like men without having to go through a sex change and they are very happy.
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Sorry if this gets long, but I REALLY need advice... And yes, I've asked questions about this before but this one is a little different.
Me and my friend, lets call her Amy, have been friends for 5 years now. We have a lot of differences. For example, I'm born and raised small town girl from Wisconsin and she's a more wealthy girly girl from the Chicago suburbs.
I think I should also mention that Amy's father has a drinking problem, and recently has been having a huge effect on her family as he moved out and I think her parents are getting divorced.
Amy had never treated me very well. She used to make me do stuff like eat her spit, make fun of me, rarely took my wants/feelings into account, and all sorts of mean stuff.
I stayed her friend because she was the only one who would hang out with me at the time, and I was to young and naive to realize how mean she was. Though it wasn't all her being mean, we do have quite a few good memories. Which if it weren't for those good memories, the occasional fun times we have now and her home life, I probably wouldn't be talking to her at all.
We've gotten into many fights over the years, but after a while we'd always end up friends again.
But the last few years she's gotten much better in some ways, she doesn't do a lot of the things she used to, but she still calls me dumb a lot and is still, at times, not as nice as a friend should be. She will make me do stuff I don't want and deliberately do things I hate just to make me mad. And because of it I tend to resent her.
I have another friend, lets call her Sophie. We where friends since diapers. We went to the same church and our older brothers where friends. But around middle school, we never hung out really at all, we'd say hi and talk at church activity's, but never much else than that.
But when I started doing stuff with Amy, Sophie became her friend too. And we all three hung out a lot together for like, 2 years. But then Sophie realized how mean Amy was she would stand up for me, but then stopped hanging out with us as much over time before never hanging out with Amy at all because she doesn't like Amy much anymore.
(And yes, me and Sophie did tell her about how mean she was a couple times(I remember one time in particular where she left crying, but we worked it out. But she didn't change much at the time and, as you know, is still mean on occasion.)
A few months ago Amy started this huge thing over something really stupid, I don't even remember what it was about anymore. Just that it involved Sophie(they've had their own fights in the past), and I had started to hang out with Sophie by myself more.
I remained calm and just told her that she was welcome at my house when she wanted and left it at that. For a month she barely contacted me much at all, just a few phone calls here and there to ask what I was doing or tell me about a Youtube video she thought was funny.
(I'm homeschooled and she when to public school with Sophie, so I was used to her calling me first because I never knew if she had plans, and I was never doing anything since they where basically my only friends)
After the month, her mom was having a garage sale and my mom wanted to go so I asked her when it was and told her I was coming to it, and when we went there she asked if I wanted to stay the night and I did. We where friends again after that. But we've never hung out nearly as much as we used too since.
As time has gone on since then, we hung out a few times. But I've noticed she's changed. She even cheated on her boyfriend because he 'didn't talk to her as much and it wasn't as fun anymore', and is basically from what I've seen/heard, is turning into a...sl*t. Not only in that regard, she just a different person almost. Yeah she somewhat acts the same, but she's doing stuff I wouldn't imagine she ever would.
Our interests have also differed over time and between our different personality's and how she used to/still treats me, just being in a room with her for more than a few hours drives me crazy most of the time.
When she asks me to do stuff with her I usually don't say no, but I rarely ask her to go anywhere or do anything because I don't really want to.
But because of what's happening with her family my mom always wants me to hang out with her. Even though I usually hang out with Sophie all the time.
But now to the real question.
I'm now in 4-H Club with Sophie and one of her friends that I've hung out with a few times and we often go to her farm because we are showing her calves at the County Fair in two months. But since the fair's so soon and we just started working with our cows, we have to go there a lot to get them ready for the fair.
And Sophie wants to go there with me this weekend and work with our calves and go Mud Bogging(which I've never done and I really want to). But My mom is all but forcing me to call Amy and make plans with her this weekend, even though I don't know if I even want to hang out with her at all anymore.
(I do like and care for her, but I'm sick of her behavior and attitude to everything. But I don't really mind hanging out with her, but I don't like to too much...)
But I feel like I should because of what is happening with her family and is why my mom wants me too.
But I'd MUCH rather go to my other friends farm with Sophie.
I don't like drama with conflicting plans as that has happened way to many times with Sophie and Amy. I just want to keep it simple.
I tend to hope that one doesn't call when I'm with the other one. As Sophie gets annoyed because she says Amy says she's to good for me at school and tells me about all these bad things she's doing.(Which I don't necessarily believe, but I give her the benefit of the doubt, as I could see Amy saying/doing those things) And Amy just...I don't know... half the time you can tell she's mad even if she doesn't say anything, and sometimes she'll even start things like she did before and others she'll be strangely okay with it.
Basically what I'm asking is, should I go to the farm with Sophie, or should I make plans with Amy instead? Or should I cut contact with Amy all together?
If you can I'd also like some advice on what to do with Amy in the future.... just literally ANY advice would help... (link)
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It seems like you don\'t really want to be friends with Amy in which case you shouldn\'t. Friendship only works when both people are happy with it and your not. If you have to be forced to hang out with someone its probably best you don\'t. The one thing I\'ve learned is to only hang out with people who make you feel good and happy. I think you should go to the farm with Sophie she clearly is someone you like hanging out with and enjoy spending time with so that\'s who you should be with.
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I feel really good when I laugh and I love laughing. The problem is that I find almost nothing funny. A lot of people laugh when other people get hurt which is what most "funny videos" on youtube are about. And I honestly don't think they're funny ._. I also don't like most "funny" movies. Can anyone give me some ideas what I can watch? The only person I can think of that makes me laugh is ellen degeneres ._. (link)
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Try some comedians like Russell peters, George Carlin, Dave Chappelle, Robin Williams. I find them all pretty hilarious.
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Ive had a bad prostate infection for a couple weeks now I'm a 21 male. I've had a cloudy discharge coming out here and there but today when I was peeing I felt a chunkish thing coming through my penis it came out into the toliet and I continued peeing. I Got it out of the toliet it was chunky like a chunk of cum you'd pee out but this chunk was about a inch wide and half inch wide it didn't hurt or burn I just felt it push out then drop into the toliet. I felt it is was kinda softish and a little sticky but not like sperm or cum sticky had no smell to it was dark yellow some weight to it for how little it was I guess the best way to describe it is a hard chunk of cum you pee out after ejaculating but dark yellow. Any ideas? Please help??!! (link)
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That\'s probably a part of the infection or you could have an STD if you\'ve been sexually active at all. You really should get that checked out by a doctor though just to confirm what it is before it gets worse but most likely its because of the infection. If it happens again I would suggest seeing a doctor for sure.
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Hey guys. I would love any and all advice. So my question is if its worth a shot? Here is the situation: so I met a girl I realy like. There is one problem she is a Christian and I am a LaVayan Satanist (no that dose not mean I'm a devil worshiper if you think so I encourage you to reasearch the subject). I know she is a Christian because I whent to her church with a few freinds one time and that's were I met her. The sermon that was given the night that I went was on relationships. The pastor said that Christians shouldn't date people who are not a Christian. I'm not sure if she belivies that or not. I have no problem having a relationship with some one of a diferent religion. I would never try to convert her of go against what she wished. I guess what I want to ask is it worth basicaly asking her to possibly go against what she belivies to have a relationship together or should I just forget about her. Thank you for the help. (link)
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That\'s something the both of you need to decide together. It seems like you really like her and want to give this a chance which is great. Love is unconditional and race or religion should have nothing to do with it, that being said not everyone believes that so its something you should talk to her about. Ask her if she would pursue a relationship with you knowing your not Christian if not then you move on.
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So, I am about to have a baby and someone mentioned that there are a bunch of places that will send you baby stuff in your mailbox if you just ask for it? How do you do this? Is there a list of companies that do this, or do you just have to write everyone and hope they send you something? LOL! (link)
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You could search google for samples but most times you would have to do something in return such as a long survey or join some sort of subscription yourself. Also some times you will have to pay for shipping and handling so technically isn\'t really free.
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my heart has been doing weird stuff so i was looking what can be wrong with the heart and it said "coronary artery disease" but i don't know what that means. can some one please explain so a 16 year old can understand? (link)
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Coronary heart disease is a disease in which plaque builds up inside the coronary arteries. These arteries supply oxygen-rich blood to your heart muscles and when they are blocked you could have a heart attack, stroke etc.
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My gf and I got a new roommate because our apartment has an extra bedroom and it makes rent easier on us. He's a really nice guy that works in the area. He loves to cook. Since he moved in 8 months ago he has made breakfast, lunch, dinner and desserts EVERY day. He said cookings a hobby for him and its great the tastes are really rich. My gf and I both think it would be rude to refuse what he makes for us so we're eating all the time. He always insists that he'll take care of things like cleaning shopping and other errands if we try one of his cakes or pies or something. We both feel lazier and sit around a lot more now. Cant help but feel lethargic and we both agree the foods so good. And we've put on about 30 lbs each and we have to wear stretchy pants now. Even close friends and family have asked if we're alright... (link)
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Just be honest and tell him that you need to eat healthier to lose a little weight so you would appreciate it if he would mind making some healthier meals. Its really your own fault for letting him just because he insisted on taking care of cleaning and shopping and stuff that\'s stuff you need to be doing too as roommates you should be doing half the work just come to an agreement and tell him that you will all take turns making healthy meals on if he continues to insist on making the meals than ask that they be healthy. Also its k to eat whatever as long as your exercising so maybe try working out or go for walks.
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Is there one site that shows only last minute specials you can use to travel? I don't want to have to go to a bunch of sites and try many dates just to find things. Maybe that is why they make it so hard, so you will pay full price anyway? LOL! (link)
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expedia! is the best site for that :)
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First of all,my name is hope(male) im from tukey and im 16 years old. There was a girl i loved for a year,i got rejected,simply friendzoned. Now i still think we would be good couple but i will just wait until she likes me and asks me out or i can do that too but i should get the signal. Now to the topic, i mostly say things like "if i had a gf i would be really happy" or "i really want to know how its like to go out with someone" when people talks about their gf or bf. One day when i said such thing again,she told me (the girl i loved) i was using too much computer and i wont be able to allow time to her (i dont know if i wrote it right,i used google translate,i mean i cannot give my time to her,you know, i cant get my ass out of computer and talk with her or go out with her) and she continued telling me the cons of being in a relationship, i told her that i was playing because i cant find something to do and if i had a girlfriend then it would be something to do for me,like hanging out and talking etc, also i told her all the cons she told me arent big problems for me,i told i accpet them, and then she told me, there are apps and etc for this,you talk and then you go out,meet if you want etc.. Well its been months and she dont know such program. So im asking you guys,it will be my first relationship. which website or app do you suggest to me ? (link)
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Plenty of fish
okcupid
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I'm a 14 year old girl and my nails are disgusting, the white bits are peeling off and it's embarresing too! I cut my nails once a week and I use Avon cream which Is supposed to keep your nails nice but it doesn't seem to work? Is it because I'm not getting enough of something?
Someone please help! I want to have nice nails :) (link)
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Try eating more vegetables and fruits and less junk food. In the mean time if your not happy with the way your nails look try nail polish, nail strengthners that will help and it will look pretty :)
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He always yells at me and bosses me,and any time I get upset he mocks me, and some things he calls me like a gerk or bitch or asshole really hurts my feelings. But he doesn't care, he yells at me so loudly, and charges at me, and sometimes he slaps me, then claims he just taps me, but just now he made my thumb sting numbly, it's hard to explain. But a few times he left red marks. I kind of got used to it, and it's not just me, he screams at the top of his lungs at my 3 year old autistic brother, wich is harsh, don't you think? I've also heard him call my mom a hoar and a hoe and a stupid bitch, and other horrible names, and I'm not even going to share what he does to my sister. Once he took one of our cars (we've got 2) and didn't come back for a couple days. Honestly, I would rather my parents get a divorce. What should I do? (link)
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Talk to your mom about everything going on at home and how you feel unsafe and if that doesnt work talk to a school counsellor or teacher they will help you. What your dad is doing is abuse and its wrong and the only way to stop him is to get help and make him realize that hes wrong.
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A freaky weirdo who hangs around without an ID and tried to abduct two kids after school lives unpunished near my school, and I don't wanna go to school any more, what if he's stalking me, or tries to harm me? I'm only 10 and I don't wanna die or be tortured and raped! We have cops and all parents and teachers have been alerted of this, but I wanna hide and never go to my school again! What should I do? (link)
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Hey its okay to be scared you should talk to your parents about it. They could maybe drop you off at school and pick you up and that will help you feel more comfortable. Just remember to stay with a group of friends never walk alone. If you take the right precautions nothing will happen to you so dont worry :)
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We moved in with my parents about a year ago so we could save some serious money for our future. When we got settled in my mom started cooking A LOT and has been piling up our plates. My GF went along with it and started eating A LOT. She started to put on A LOT of weight. Then about 6 months later I watched her start wearing slippers and stretch pants instead of jeans and heels. By now I've put on weight too. So, I talked to my GF privately last night:
Me: Hey honey, I feel like I'm getting fat. Wanna start dieting with me? GF: I think you're confusing "fat" with "happy" we're living like royalty.
Not sure what's going on, but it's weird. On the other hand, our savings account is not laughable anymore. (link)
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she\'s just a lot happier and is getting comfortable theirs nothing wrong with that however if you have a problem maybe its time to move out? or you can talk to your gf or mom about making healthier meals for you that will probably convince her to eat healthier to.
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I've been cutting lately. I just moved for the quite literal 10th time and the last place I lived I actually made friends and a boyfriend for the first time, so it realllly depresses me to leave (I'm a teenage girl by the way). Also I'm bisexual but can't tell my parents because they don't believe in anything except straight. If I told them my dad would probably yell at me and/or hit me and my mother wouldn't take me seriously and/or say that it's "just a phase" (it's been a while, I know for certain that it's not a phase). Finally, I'm not really excepted here at my new school, so that just adds on the pressure. All of these emotions are putting me on sensory overload and it's causing me to cut. I barely cut deep enough cause anything more than a scratch because I don't want my mom to know but I'm afraid that it will progress into something worse. Finally I have a demented perception of beauty so I think that the scars are beautiful in their own way. What can I do to stop cutting???? Please help! (link)
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Look i know cutting seems like the answer but its not. You feel like you dont belong because you may be different in way but the truth is you belong just as much as the other girls in your school. Its all about doing some soul searching and finding yourself and accepting who you are. Once your comfortable with who you are you\'ll find it easier to make friends. Right now focus on making yourself feel better try a new hairstyle,hair colour, change your look a bit, get involved in an activity (music,sports,social group) whatever it takes to make yourself comfortable in your own skin. Than from there starting talking to people at school or if you take up a sport or any group talk to people in that group and make friends that way. Take baby steps and eventually youll find that you wont need to cut to feel better. If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to message me :)
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I really wanna runaway, I'm not abused or anything, but I don't really get out much, and I wanna have an adventure. I read into it and learned that if I'm caught I could get a police record or have to see a psychologist. I have family members who are cops, and live in New York, so can someone tell me what I need to do? BTW, I'm 10. (link)
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Running away isnt something you should be thinking about at your age. Your still very young and as for going out and having an adventure you have plenty of time to do that. Running away will only get you in trouble and will definietly upset your parents you may be young but you should always think of what your actions will do to those around you. Focus on school and when your older im sure you\'ll be able to go on as many adventures as you would like in the mean time ask your parents to take you somewhere, get involved in an activity, form a group with friends.
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i am from africa… am actually spanish btw…ok… so…this guy… Ricky… umm… he is kinda diffrent from my other brothers friends… whenever he sees me he hugs me… he is totally hot and just yesterday wen i was pissed he hugged me for a very long time to comfort me… i dnt think he likes me tht way… coz earlier wen we were teasd he said she is my best friend's sister i cannot like her. My best friend has a brother in his class as well and he treats her exactly the same… well better… as in he started huggin her first… but she doesnt feel the same way that i do… so here is my question! How am i supposed to get over this guy?? btw i already tried ignorin him but he is ALWAYS with my brother and for some reason he ALWAYS sees me! (link)
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Just ask him to stop hugging you or possibly try not to come in front of him in other words ignore him which I know isnt nice but I dont think you have any other option if he doesnt like you he doesnt you cant change that, therefore the best thing to do is keep yourself busy mayb hang out with other guys and try to get over him.
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