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> Full name: Katlin Nicole Starr Mitchell
> Height: 5'3-5'4
> Eyes: BroWn
> Hair: BRowN w/ Red StreiKeS
> Location: Mauldin, South Carolina
> Sexual Orientation: Straight
> Ethnicity: WhiTe but w/ A Tan*
> Pets: 1 Dog and A Cat! RIP Robbie, Died Aug 1 2004
> Siblings: 1 Brother
> Movie:13 going on 30...The Notebook..A Walk To Remember...Grease...Dirty Dancing
> Book: The NoteBook
> Actress: Sandra Bullock...and Uhh...
> Actor: Shane West...and...uhh
> Singer/Band:Ryan Cabrera...and Sara Evans
> Song: On The Way Down and She Will Be Loved
> Quote: "...Our Love Is Like The Wind, I Can't See It...but I Can Feel It..."
> Food: PastA*
> Sport: VolleyBall, SurfinG...BASKETBALL*
> TV show: Dawsons Creek, Newlyweds*
> Drink: Sprite w/ LemonS
> Number: 10 and 11
> Accessory:PurSe
> Color: Pank and Blue*
> Lipgloss: Watermellon, or whatever my Fiance lovEs! *
> Ice Cream: Cookie Dough*
> Mag: Umm...counTrY Weekly?
> Cartoon Character: DINO!
> Animal: DogS*
> Chocolate or Vanilla? Verrnilla*
> Book or its Movie? Both
> Gold or silver? Silver
> Boxers or Briefs?: It Don'T MattER
> Black or White? Black
> Hug or Kiss? Both at one time!
> Computer or TV? Both
> Morning or Night? Night*OOO*
> White Chocolate or Milk Chocolate?White ChocolaTe!
> Serious or Giggly? Giggly
> Drive or Fly? Fly
> Dog or Cat? Dog
> Inside or Outside? Depends on the weather
> Fantasy or Reality? Reality
> Dance or Sing? SiNG!! LALAL*
> Write or Read? Write
> Social or..Not? Social...verY*
> Draw or Paint? DRaW
> Watch or do? Do...HEHEHE
> Eat or Drink? UmmS???
> Write or Talk? Talk!
> Summer or Winter? WinTer*
> Joel or Justin? Justin
> TV or Movie? Movie
> Cholcolate or Caramel? Chocolate
> Tall or short? On A guy...Tall...
> Pepsi or Coke? Pepsi
> Innie or outtie? InnIe
> Have you dyed your hair? Ya :(
> Have you ever fit your entire body into a relatively small compartment? Yupperss...A Drier! hahaha!
> Hobbies:Shopping...sports..and my Babie
> Interests:Music...and my babie!
> What do you like Most about yourself? My personalitY!
> What do you like least? My Temper*
> Whats in your CD player right now? Sara EvanS..Niagra :(
> Ever left the country? Yes!!!
> Where to? Europe, Mexico, Australia, Canada, Japan...and Jamaica
> Whats the worst feeling? Heart Broken..and guilt.
> Whats the best feeling? Being in LovE* Being HappY!
> Whats your sign baby? Capricorn*
> Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes
> Whats your best friends name? Nathan and BJ
> How long have you been friends? ForeVeR* haha..I Dk!
> Who, really, let the dogs out? HaHa..Me DUH!
> If you're life could be a book, which book would it be? Umms...I have no idea. Harry PotteR? Haha!
> Who stole the cookies from the cookie jar? Hahaha? What kinda Question...
> Is oscar, really, a grouch? He was mean to the kiDs...so was big BIRD!
> Have you ever caught a Leprechaun? Oh Yes..Hehe *WINK* Great times w/ Him as Well!
> Who do you admire? My brother and my fiancE*
> Whats your most embarrasing moment? Not going THERE!








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Okay my question is about halloween...im going to be a thug and i was wondering if anyone knew where i could get silver or gold covers for my teeth...you know how you see all the rappers and stuff with the gold n silver teeth....well does anybody know where to get them?? thnkx sooo much!! (link)
I know for a fact that Wal-Mart, and Target have them. I've been told that Spencer's gifts has them too. I don't really know what kind of stores are located by you, but everywhere usually has a Wal-Mart.
...Welp, have fun at Halloween! Get the good Candy! Have a great night!


ok lets make this as simple as possible.
i have a b/f..who i love with all my heart. i was at a afootball game with him tonight at the high school. he went to get food. my ex came over to me, who is now my best friend i gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. my boyfriend saw and is all upset. is that wrong of me? i don't see that as a problem! he is my BEST FRIEND! i hug every1 & it was just a kiss on the cheek..like i love him, hes my ex, yeah, but hes also a friend! does my b/f have a right to be so mad?! when he knows i only love and want him .. =/ thanx (link)
I don't think he has a right to be mad, but guys are protective. That's just a trait that comes with guys. You need to talk to him, and tell him that you didn't know it was going to bother him this much. Tell him your sorry, and if you love him as much as you say. You won't do it again. Well..Have a wonderful day babe!


Does anybody know how to put your picture on your advicenators column? I dont know how to do it. If anyone can give me the 'steps' maybe this would work for me. ima little slow. Thnx! (link)
Alrighty girly!
...Go to where it says Welcome, Whatever your name is on the left hand side of the main page. Go to profile settings. Scroll down a little ways, and you'll see where it says Upload picture. Click browse, and it will give you a little pop up of your computer pictures and such. Pick on, then click okay. That should do it! :) Have a slammin day!


Well...everybody...
I gots bad news. I know a lot of people on here know who I am..so..they'll know about this...but this is KateStar1011...and Rance and I are no longer engaged. I'm really really depressed..and I think I've learned the simple fact of not being right for eachother, but I'm moving out soon of the apt we owned...and I was just wondering if anybody had any tips for me to just stop crying. I know it's pathetic almost, but...I just can't stop.
Thanks a lot everybody...
Have a wonderful daY!
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i can't stop crying either babie, i honestly don't know what to do, i feel like the most lost person in the world w/out you by my side, you never leave my mind, but it's so hard because you never left my mind before because of me being so in love with you, and well i'm still so in love with you, but it's teh fact that you don't leave my mind because i miss you so much, i love you so much sweetheart and always will, i hope somehow in the future we can get through all of this and get back together because that's the only thing that's going to make my life complete, you by my side


i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
i rate good (link)
If you are totally sure. I mean, you need to be in love. Don't let the curiousness that you have spoil it. It's hard to make up this descion for you. All of us can't ya know. All we can tell you is...are you totally positive you are in love, and you want to lose it to this one guy.
I hope we all helped!


i like 2 guys...nathan and michael. I think i would have a better chance asking michael out, but i barely see him at school, and i like nathan more. i eat lunch with nathan and whatever other guys we decide to go talk to. we always have so much fun and we're always laughing. i've liked him longer than michael...and every time i think about him i get all tingly inside. i thought about him alot in 3rd period today, and i did it so much that the tingling began to hurt :). but....anyway...should i ask out michael or nathan?


sorry that was so confusing.

if you need more info, let me know and i'll put it up. (link)
Well...
If you have likes Nathan more, than pick Nathan. If a man can make you smile and laugh. That's the best thing. and he makes you tingly! you could be in love! *wink* Good luck sweetie!


HEY! Ok here is my PrObLeM!!! Im 17 almost 18 now but when i was like in 15 a really rude kid picked on me told me i was ugly n fat and stuff, and to most people its like Fuck him whatever! haha But to me it really HURT! Like to this day i have ZEROOOO self confidence! And last night i went out and met some of my boyfriends friends and their girlfriends! and i was just really DEPRESSED! they were these tan, skinny, BEAUTIful girls that had low cute shirts on, that showed all theie stomach, and low jeans and stuff and i just wanted to cry! like i dont think im UGLY, but i cant feel good about myself around people...like idont wanna be around people who in my eyes are perfect because then i concentrate on all my flaws, and see how perfet they are....My boyfriend reassures me all the time how pretty and stuff i am but i just cant feel or see it and i dont know what to do....do you have any advice, it would be great! xoxo
Here are some sites with my pictures....

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=sTyLiNbArBiEGuRl

www.picturetrail.com/tommiegurlie23

(those are old though haha)
xoxo thanks so much for your time!
*~M~* (link)
Hello Lovely!
Well..I've just spent and hour looking through all of your wonderful photogenic pictures. You're absolutely beautiful, I don't know what you are talking about. Ya know...I'm sized the same way you are. Your body looks exactly like mine. We aren't anywhere near being fat, but we aren't those skin tight girls. I know how that feels sweetheart. When I'm around people like that, I lose it sometimes. I just have to break away and leave. Ya know?

Well...recently, I've been in your shoes. I wanted to look like that, so I got the Winsor Palaties (Or whatever) I love doing them, they are fun and also relaxing. I've also started eating right. Not the fat junk food. I run and walk every single day. Run in the morning and walk at night. I've been doing this for about a month, and I've seen some changes, such as my stomach and legs. But no hips, I think I'm naturally big boned, ya know? I have to except my self either way. That's how god made me, and I'm gonna have to stick with that. Now, if you wanna talk to me away from here that's great (like you did today, but I was busy, I'm sorry) We'll stick together and do work out logs together if you want. I've found if I have somebody that does it with me, that is in my same shoes, I feel better about myself and doing the activities. Well...babe...I know this is getting long, so I'll let you go. If you need anything, get in touch with me ASAP! :) Aim: KateSTar1011, same on Yahoooooo! Have a wonderful day beautiful! Love Yas!


what are some really cool and cute screen names for me? right now my sn is playgirl3478 but i dont like the numbers but i like things that are like playgirl and pimpette and things like that and im also blonde 5 3 105lbs cheerleader, track, smart, hot, etc! help me with some ideas thanx! (link)
PlaYGurl74
RuNInPimpEtTe10
HoTPlaYGIrL45
ChEERInGuRl1111
SmArTPlAyAGrL15
PimPINRuNNER15

I don't know waht else, I guess just get creative! :) Have fun! :)


okay, i am a naturally pale person but all this summer i have been tanning so i look normal with a tan now, but its not like reeaally insanely dark like i want, like when ppl see me i want them to be like omg your tan im so jealous! so anyways now that summer is almost over, i jus pretty much am gonna go to the tanning bed but does anyone have any tips to get like black with a tanning bed by at least the middle of october! thanx! and also, i have a hard time tanning my face, feet, and chest, any ideas on how i can get these to tan like my legs??! (link)
Well...you can't really get "black" *Wink* But cha can get pretty dark. When you go to the tanning bed the next time, usually they have samples of different tanning lotions. Try a lot of them, and which ever one you like the best stick with it,and go to the bed like every other day. Or, if you don't want to go every other day. get some sunless tanner. I have used that, and I loved it, and it gets me pretty dark. I hope ya get dark, and Have a wonderful day lovely!


I'm having a really big problem with a certain advicenator that gives horrible advice, puts people down, and makes fun of the questions that people can't answer... I know it's not my place to say something but this person is VERY rude and makes people feel like crud, I would know. I really want to say something.. This one girl said "Im 150 lbs and I need help losing weight" and the advicenator said "Who cares you're the f**king fat a** not me im only 112 and taller than u, fat a**" thats just rude so help me please... thanks alot (link)
Give his name out to warn everybody. That's not why we sign up for this website, that is absolutely horrible. Tell all of us, and a Moderator 2 will probably suspend him, if not somebody will ban him. I'm sorry that this has happened, we'll all get it taken care of ASAP! :)
Have a wonderful day!


I've been friends with this girl heather for about a year or so now...she's a good friend, dont get me wrong, but all summer she has been ditching me and my other friends for her family..i know she's busy with diving and everything but whenever we ask her to hang out she usually says sure and then blows us off to go hang out with her family. she was rude to her boyfriend and drug him out to visit her relatives whenever they were supposed to have alone time and it interfered with their relationship and they are now just "friends" I really don't know how to tell her she needs to come out with us instead of the family without hurting her feelings... what should i do? (link)
Well...sometime...she has to spend time with her family. I don't think you really understand that. I think it's really really cute how she let him go with her to see her relatives..but I mean if it did interfere with their relationship, because one time they didn't get alone time. They weren't meant to be. Maybe there is something go on in her family..that you guys don't know. You need to let her spend that time with her family, because It's Family. Maybe...if you feel really really strongly about it, you need to tell her, hey...can we just have like a day together. Try that, and see if you can figure out something that might be going on. Either way, be there for her as much as you can, and respect what she does...because she probably respects what actions you make.

I hope I helped...Have a great night sweetie!


Hey

I was wondering - do you think eyeliner looks better if you put it directly under your eye or where your eyelash like is? (link)
Depends on the kinda of eyes you have. If you have more inclosed eyes then they look better in the eye...but more of an out, then under. It all depends on it...sometimes it looks better both ways on people!


what do they do when you get a sports physical? anything with your privates?
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Not usually. They will do your weight, height..and your joints and things. It's nothing with your privates. At least, my doctor didn't. It's usually just the main things. It doesn't take that long or anything. I hope I helped...Have a great night hun!


ok hi my name is Anik I was talking to my boyfriends friend and well he was getting all jealous about us and now he broke me and my boyfriend up cuz he kept saying I was his girl friend and told my boyfriend I was breaking up with him which is a big lie and well I want him back but I don't know what I can do cuz his friend Nathan is always there blowing kisses my way and stuff...help me plz
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Well...you need to tell Nathan to GROW UP! And you need to tell your boyfriend that all of the thing Nathan said wasn't true, and that you didn't say any of that stuff...and if your boyfriend really likes you then he'll take you back. I'm sorry about all of this, but boys...especially immature ones will be buttholes! Good luck sweetie! :) Have a wonderful night!


What are some ways of getting rid of just a lil fat and like getting toned? Like just dieting tips and workouts n such. My problem areas are my thighs (inner mostly) and stomach. Thanks (link)
Welp...the question right before you I answer asked the same thing. Wow...all of us are the same in our own little ways! :) *Wink* Well..considering I don't believe in DIETs really...what you need to do is still all of the food you like to eat everyday...but cut down on how much you eat. Such as...no 3 snacks a day, ya know? And at dinner and lunch, cut the portions down. As for workouts...maybe do some sit ups every morning...and a big thing. RUN and walk, that always works. I hope I helped, good luck!! :)


ok im 13 and schools about to start, im 4ft11in and 80 pounds, nd evrone tells me that thats fine for my hight, but i wanna loose some wieght before school start im pretty skinny but the top of my legs and my stomache have some excess fat, that i want to get rid of, schools about 2.5 weeks away! please help me and tell me any excersices or diets tht u would suggest to loose weight in the areas i mentioned! i want to look good for schhol! please help me asap! i will rate high! thnx! (link)
Alrighty!!
School is about to start! :) Well...what you need to do, is get active in your own diet. Eat foods you still like, but minimize the portions. I don't believe in the Atkins or anything like that, because that makes you just as more unhealthy. Ya know what I mean. Do some sit ups every morning, get active...start running or riding your bike every single day. Till you can't take any more. Then, each day you do it...you mark it on your calender..how many you did. So...each day you get more and more...and when school starts, you'll still want to do more and more and you'll keep staying in shape and loosing all of that "excess BEAUTY faT"! Have a great day, and stay pumpEd!


My name is Christine and I'm a 13 year old girl. I don't know what to do, I can't trust most of my friends anymore and everyone is pissed at me, I don't know what i did! One of my friends, Chantal, doesn't keep any of the secrets I tell her amd now she's mad at me cause she said I talked behind her back, but I didn't...what can I do??? (link)
Hey Christine!
Your friend Chantal isn't a very good friend considering she can't keep your secrets. What has probably happened...is lately you've told somebody something, and the word has gotten around to all of your friends, but since us girls are stubborn and like to do stupid things...we change the story as it travels. We add onto things, especially around your age. You need to tell Chantal and all of your other friends that you dont know what is going on. That you have no idea what you did....and if they say something you didn't do...then they aren't very good friends.
I hope I helped! Have a wonderful day, and good luck!


My friends aren't acting like friends to me lately. We all used to be one group and now its breaking off in smaller groups. One of the smaller groups went to the mall. I don't mind them going to the mall together, but when they go 20 minutes after i ask them if they are doing anything. And when they go with 2 other people and dont bother inviteing me, Then puting it all in there away messages, profiles, and talking about what happened in front of me. Then i get pissed. I am trying to seperate myself from them, but i tried that and it creates more of a problem. I want to explode. But i cant, I just started highschool and i am trying to make new friends. ( not working out well) so if i break myslef completly off then i will be a outcast and be alone. I don't know what to do. Please help.

*i know this is long, Ill rate high* (link)
Hey sweetheart!
Don't worry if it is long or not, we are all here to help. The reason is very simple why everybody is going in all different directions...you said it yourself. You just started high school. All of your close middle school friends, will not move onto more high school related people. Such as SO, JR and SR. There is one thing that you don't want to worry about though. Being an outcast or all alone. That doesn't happen in high school. Everybody knows somebody, and everybody is friends with somebody. You're friends are going through changes..just like you. You have to start meeting new people, just like they are a little bit. It'll be hard, trust me...but only hang out with those a little bit, since they are treating you so badly. Hang out at football games, get active in the school. You'll have friends, and you'll be loved by many. I hope I helped, good luck through High school, and stay strong. Have a wonderful day lovely!


How do I put eye liner on the top? I don't want it thick, but enough to be noticable. (link)
Take your time with it. It's hard, trust me..I used to do it, but I only do it when I get dressed up. You have to hold your eye lid down, and gently and lightly go across with it. I hope I helped...Good luck!


What do you guys look for in a girl as far as looks and personality? (link)
It depends on the guy sweetheart.
Most guys like a clean cut looking girl. Nice hair, stuff like that. Personality, guys like a girl that is into sports...that is into doing things fun. They also like a real girl. Somebody that doesn't act fake. They like every girl to be themselves. I hope I helped, but remember...every guy is different, no matter what. Have a great day lovely!




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