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Jazzy**

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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and just here lately i've been real tired and hungry all the time and I havn't been doing anything to cause me being tired all the time like yesterday I was asleep all day from 12:00 untill 10:00pm what could be causing this and how can I stop it?
Iam really worried is this anything I should be worried about?

hey this canbe from only two reason i can think of and thats a sleeping problem which i know a few people who has one or it can be the weather
( the heat makes me tired) so that can be an option also go to the doctor

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16/f
you can use a condom and be on birth control right? because im on birth control but trust me in nowhere near having sex people wanted to with me but i said no :D im not ready for that or the consequences yet! well i was just wondering. because i am on birth control for my period not because im being sexual. well yeah i was just checkin sorry if that was a dumb question! just wanted to be sure.

YESSSSS YOUUUUUU CANNNNNN and you dont have to really worrry about the consquencence with both if you use them right. BUT ONLY WHEN YOU READY

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I (13) share a master bedroom with my sister(17). I want to decorate the room. It's diffcult for us to agree on ant thing since we're so diffrent. How should I decorate if she can't agree on any thing?

since the age is so diffrent and personality i would say have it gurly colors (pink, lime green ,purple) with the chair and the pillows it's so cute(my room looks like that)and both of ou will enjoy it

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What can a 13 year old do to get money? I'm almost desperate. I seriously have no money, neither does my family. I just need some ideas to earn some extra money.
Thanks!

only thing i can think of at your age is babysit
it's easy and fast cash that's what i do for god fast cash

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15.f
Hey, Well for some time now I've been having problems, i have been extremely "out of it" and everything. And I have talked to 2 of my friends about it (one is my bf) and both think i have this thing called dissociation or something. I am really concerned that if i tell anyone or ask about it. They will think i'm crazy. I mean i think i'm crazy myself, but Still. i don't want them to think that. My bf espeshally (sorry about the spelling). He told me to talk to my parents about it. I really Don't want to. I don't have a good relationship with my parents at all. They will judge me, or something. Well i really just don't want to. Please help. What can i do? :(

hey you can also tell an counselor there someone over your parents maybe there is another realtive that you can tell. or you can also call a doctor yourself and tell them your symptons and maybe they can tell you whats going on.


Hoped I helped, hope you feel better :)


Jazzy

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Hello, I'm 13 and I really like this guy and I've liked him 4 about three years... and I told him i really like him and he sed he likes me to. And I want him 2 be my boyfriend so bad and I know he will say yes. But we go 2 different schools and I barely ever see him. And I'm going crazy trying 2 decide what to do... And I also want 2 kiss him.. But I'm not sure what he would do.

your only 13 take a chance you have so many more years ahead of you try it. make him your boyfriend and if dosent work it's just one of those lessons that you have to learn. YOU LIVE AND YOU LEARN. go ahead kiss him if he likes you to i dont think it would be a problem.

Jazzy**

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hey, i really like this one guy he's a year younger than me he's 12 and i'm 13.. i really love him thowe he's the nicest guy i've ever met. he talks about how i give him hard ons and it turns me on and we tell eachother alot of personal stuff like that. i'm gonna go to were he lives in like a month and i really want to do some things with him. i'm only 13 but i really really wnat to have sex with him.. my question is.. should i?

please dont your so young and i know you feel like your ready but when you guys talk about ll that personal stuff it dosent meams it's time your just curious PLEASE WAIT. if you dont you probably regret it in the future dont do it dont do it


p.s maybe wait to atleast 16,17 or 18 like me

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone who you have only met once? :)

i do think so

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16/f

I have horrible cramps. They are so bad I can't stand up straight and I'm almost in tears. How can I lessen the pain? I tried ibuprofen but it's not helping and a heating pad doesn't work either.

try midol but for future refrences let your mom take you to the doctor and they will give you a prescriptions IT WORKS thats what i got

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(im 14)Well my boyfriend and i have madeout many times and he puts his hand up my shirt and thats all we've done. i really love him alot and whenever im with him i kinda feel lustful...and i often find myself wanting to do much more than what we do but NOT sex..well one time i was jokin around and took my shorts off jokingly and asked him if he wanted me to keep them off and he looked SHOCKED. he was like ur so innocent and i like that..i cant see u doing anything..but what if i get so horny that i WANNA do something? would my boyfriend break up with me because im not the innocent sweetheart i seem to be?

i dont think that he's ready and that might break up the relationship because some of the things you said he said makes me think maybe it's not the best time for him just wait

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Well, you see, I'm really scared about IT. You know, the category. I mean, I don't know why?

who hasnt been scared it wouldnt be natural if u was scared EVERYONE IS DONT WORRY it's normal we all through the stage.

Jazzy**

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Which do you prefer, iPod or MP3 Players?

Ipod is wayyyyy bettttterrrr

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I have this girl i met in darwin when i went for a holiday there and she likes me and i like her. But she dont wanna do long distance...
What do i do?

you can try to convince her to do it. or you have to be a man and grant her wishes but still be her friend

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Hello, my name is Racquel and i am 14 years old. Ever since i was little i was always bugged by girls in every single grade of school. And now, since im in grade 9 now, it has been really affecting my emotions.. can anyone help me find a way to help me with this or give any advice as to dealing with this. I dont want to cry anymore, and get angry all the time.

Thanks,
Racquel

you know what you do. when ii was in high school and i use to feel that i was getting mad i use to go in the bathroom look in the mirror and say im better than this i have confidennce i am stron keep telling your self that and you will be strong and able to handle every situation.

Strength is the key

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My girlfriend and I had sex for about 30 seconds, i had not been masturbating previously, and i did not ejaculate inside her. we were both virgins and we did not use protection, but she is worried that she may be pregnant, her discharge is a darker shade than usual.
Is she pregnant?

NO she just parnoid if you did not cum inside her than she's not pregnant. and the discharge dont matter

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Okay my friend is 14, soon to be 10th grader and her boyfriend is a senior. So she's having sex. Her parents don't know.. but she has NO problem flaunting it around everywhere.
She's doing it because she thinks she's in love and she doesn't want to be alone. Being alone is her biggest fear so she latches onto any good guy, you know? I've known her for 5 years and I've seen it over and over.
And a couple of people think her boyfriend is only in on the sex.
They have only been going out for about 6 months.

Should I try to talk to her? Or talk to her parents?
Because she keeps hurting herself.
And I've seen her cry in her sleep and it bothers me..
She's going way too far and I don't want her to get hurt.

I know your trying to look out for her but if you talk to her parents you will LOSE HER FOREVE (trust me) try talking to her and tell her stop moving so fast her life hasnt started yet. and if things start to get deeper than you go to the parents


Jazzy**


Than in that case do what you got to do. in the end you will be a better than she could have been.

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I'm 17 and my boyfriend will be turning 19 soon. We have been together for several months, but this is the first birthday that has come during our relationship. I have no idea what to get him! I know whatever I get him should come from the heart & be sentimental but I was thinking things along the line of a few tshirts he likes, gift cards, a new wallet, cologne, things like that. Any ideas/suggestions would be great appreciated!

boys are hard to buy for no matter what age so when my b/f turned 19 i took him to a store of his choice and let him got anything he wanted. so just give a gift card (atleast you know he will like it because he picked it)

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so ive been dating a guy for a couple months and he just recently said something really mean to my friend while she was working causing her to run of work bawling. i dont want a guy that talks shit to my friends. is it wrong to break up with him for it? please answer..

i feel you But i dont think that you have to break up with him just let him know that he bet not do it again because you or your friend isnt havin that shit

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Last night my boyfriend and I were laying on the couch and he was fingering me and we were having a lot of fun. We've been dating about 3 months now. Last night, he told me he wanted to have sex with me, but I explained to him that he should lose his virginity to someone he loves and to someone who is very special to him. Then he told me he loved me and that was the first time he's ever said it to me. After about 20 minutes of thinking and talking, I said I loved him back but I wasnt ready for sex. I know hes the one i've fell for the hardest and I do care about him and he's wonderful, but I'm scared im not really in love with him. I know he's serious about things and he'd never lie and he always says whats on his mind, so i know he does love me. How do I tell him that i dont know if we're in love or not?

NO If your not ready honey love isnt a three letter word just because yall are in love dosent mean yall have to have sex and if you know your not ready than dont do it. be like him and just say whats on your mind and if he really love he will understand.

HOPE EVERYTHING WORK OUT FOR TH BEST
Jazzy**

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I was looking up birth control, for a friend. & I left it on there. & she saw it. Now, I don't know what to say. Because she doesn't believe me, & thinks I'm sexually active. Which I'm not. I'm only 13 for heavensake. What do I say to make her believe me???
Please help me.
Thanks!

the only thing you could say that it's not you mom have to have trust in you. you cant force it on her.

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