YOU DONT NEED ADVICE, ITS IN YOUR OWN HEART, ALWAYS HAS, ALWAYS WILL BE.
I quit this shit. Have a *fabulous* day!
E-mail: jane_254@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Valdosta, Georgia
Age: 16
AIM: jane3240
MSN: same as email
Member Since: July 11, 2004
Answers: 314
Last Update: February 25, 2005
Visitors: 16773
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Yes I do have emotional feelings for girls, but I have both feelings for boys. So am I gay????? Or bi?????????
--WaDe-- (link)
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*Hmm well then you are bisexual.*
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Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided? (link)
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*When you're at a fancy restaurant NEVER and I mean never use your hands for chicken wings! Ususally they wouldn't sell them... but, if you are going to eat chicken wings use a fork and knife to eat it.*
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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers... (link)
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*To settle this confusion of yours, here is something to think about. Do you have emotional and physical feelings for a boy or girl? If you have both for only one sex then you're gay. If you feel both for both sexes then you are bisexual.*
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please can you help, how can I get more flowers on my wisteria next spring, I have a purple sinesis variety, very long plumes thanks. (link)
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*OMG, I love Wysteria. You can't make it grow flowers, only the tree can, but you can water the tree to make it more nourished so it can produce the flowers.*
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okay i have a big problem! i was all excited because i just got my cartlidge done! but i came home and told my best friend! and she asked what ear i got done and i told her my right one! and she said that if a girl gets just her right cartlidge done...that means shes a lesbian?! omg i'm all upset now! is that realli what rumors say?! because i'm definitly NOT one!
i'll rate you a 5! (link)
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*That's bullshit. A lot of my friends have their right ones done and they are definately not gay. Don't worry about what she says, she don't know what she's talking about*
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I really need to find out whats wrong with me. Im almost 17 and ive never had a bf or my first kiss. Not to sound conceited, but TONS of people talk about how "gorgeous" and "nice" I am. Some people WONT even beleive me when i tell them ive never had a bf. I always see these nasty, uglier, RUDE girls get ALL these guys. But ive never even had one. I guess maybe its cuz im shy around people i dont know, but if you talk to me im NOT. Ive became more outgoing and flirted with guys.. but i cant seem to find anyone im actually interested in. I just wanna know what it feels like to have a bf. (I dont just want one to have one.) I feel almost like im missing out on my teen years. Sometimes i even get depressed thinking im doing something wrong. Any advice? (link)
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*Ah, sounds like what happened to me. The guys are intimidated by you. And they already think you have a boyfriend so they don't even bother. This is the time where you have to make a move on a guy you like by asking him to hang out or telling him you like him. It's a sigh of relief once you get it over with because you have nothing to lose! Good luck =]*
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Hey im going to my first football game wut should i wear got any ideas or how i should do my hair? (link)
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*Look cute! =] Where a nice top and jeans and wear your hair straight.*
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I'm getting mysterious love notes.
On Monday I found one in my locker that says that "this boy" lovesme sosososososososo much. He also said that he's in two of my classes.
Then today (Thursday)I found another one in my locker. It said I was the most special, cutest, and sweetest person in the world. He said his love burns for me like the white hot embers of the sun.
What should I do about this?
I know all the boys that are in two of my classes, and I know none of them are guys that I'll never want to go out with. How do I handle this? (link)
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*Ignore the notes. The guy will get over you if you just ignore them. But those notes seem pretty flattering..aww =]*
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OK.. I shave "downstairs" (if u know what i mean) I only do it cause most guys HATE pubic hair.. I use a schic (sp?) intuition razor.. and then i still use moisturizing shaving cream too..(sometimes) and either way.. it hurts to shave.
Is it supposed to hurt when u shave down there.. or what can i do to make it hurt less.. preferably not at all .. I've tried using a brand new blade.. an older duller blade.. and even a brand new razor..
Could someone please help me!! (link)
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*Buy Skintimate Underarm *&* Bikini Line so you can shave with that down there. Use a men's razor, because it's a closer shave. If it hurts afterwards use aloe, or try moisturizing lotion.*
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May 17, 2004, ((st. patricks day)) one of my best friends committed suicide. She was 13 years old. She was born on September 11, 1990. Her name was Alyssa, and she was walking to school late and she was walking on the tracks. She heard the train coming and she turned around, put her hood up, and gave the thumbs up sign to the conductor. He couldn't stop the train. Alyssa got hit and died. A month later the investigators claimed it to be suicide, which everyone already knew. She had tried committing suicide a couple weeks before that, but I had to drag her off the tracks by her hair. I had made her go see the school counselor before that and I guess she still wanted to committ suicide. The night before she was hit, she wrote R.I.P Alyssa on her and her boyfriend's bedroom wall. She killed herself for many reasons, but I only know of how her boyfriend was cheating on her and she was in a gang and family problems. She told me there was more though. I tried so hard to convince her that death wasn't the soulution, but she didn't listen. I did everything I could to help her. Anyway, I know it's long but I thought you needed to know the whole story.
So my problem is, I still haven't been able to cope with it. I cry all the time and nobody seems to understand me. I miss her so much. I've already seen numerous counselors but they haven't helped me much. I just want to know if there's any way that I could start the "healing process" or if it'll just take time. I would appreciate all the help. Thank you so much!
Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))
R.I.P Alyssa Gonzalez.. I miss you so much.
9/11/90 - 3/17/04 (link)
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*Oh man I am really sorry!!! Death is a part of life and everyone goes through it. For you, it will take time, to me, suicide is worse than just dying because the person meant to do it. But look to the bright side, if you weren't there for her all those times, she would have been dead way earlier. You were a good friend to her and I hope you realize that. Time will heal and so will your heart...*
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okay theres this boy i like and i asked him out and its been like a week and he hasnt answered wat should i do ?!?
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*Forget about him. He may not like you and he doesn't want to hurt you by saying no.*
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Well this guy i like won't talk to me. He wont return my calls or anything. He liked me 3 days ago and now he wont talk to me. I dont know what i did to make him so upset. He is at his friends houses all weekend, would this effect him not talkin to me cause all his friends are older guys and im younger than him? What should i do on Monday at school, go up and be like whats up why arent you talkin to me, or just give him space and smile at him in the halls? PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I really miss talkin to him (link)
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*I think he was busy this weekend and wanted a guys weekend thing. Just smile at him in the hallway, let him talk to you. Don't talk to him first, it makes you look desperate..you want to be playing hard to get.*
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If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant? (link)
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*You can get sperm from the sperm bank and still remain a virgin*
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I am confused can you get pregant by precum (link)
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*Yes mam you sure can*
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14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. I had this dream about this guy at school that I kind of like. I dreamt that I was pregnant with his baby and we were a couple. I'm only 14, but in my dream I was entirely happy about this. What does this dream mean? (link)
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*That means you like him a lot and you've thought about a future with him. You should start talking to this guy ;)*
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Hi. My name is Toni and i'm a girl. My friend has been putting things about me on her profile and they are really mean things. I saw them and they made me feel bad and when i was alone, i cried for hours. I can be a dramaqueen, but who isn't one at one time or another?
Also people in her guestbook were calling me a bitch and saying that i was immature and they dont even know me! Should i tell my friend? Thanks in advance!
Toni
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*Friend? That does not look like a friend to me. Of course you need to tell her. She's obviously jealous of you or something to write that mean stuff, talk to her ASAP.*
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i have a Sony Psyche walkman. it's about a year old and it worked great. well just recently the music only started coming out of the left ear. i thought the batteries could be going, so i put new ones in and it's still the same. so whats wrong or how do i fix it? im pissed off cause it was a $50 walkman. (link)
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*It's your headphones hun. Buy new ones.*
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Hey, this guy told me how much he really liked me the other day and I turned him down because I wanted to be single but now he is goin out with my best friend and I changed my mind I think I'm jealous, but what should I do (link)
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*He's just trying to make you jealous! Once he finds out you like him, he will dump you bff for you. But if I were you I'd wait a couple weeks to go back out with him and ask permission from your friend!*
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SORRY IT'S LONG
It it normal to get vaginal discharge even before you have your period?
Like I'm gunna be 14 in a few months, and I've been having discharge, and I've NEVER had my period.
So my questions are, is it normal that I don't have my period?
and is it normal that I'm getting discharge?
What should I do, we don't have any pads around the house, and I'm not a fan of tampons, also I find it really akward to talk to my mom about that kind of thing, so I don't want to like go out and get pads or anything until I actually have my period
What should I do? (link)
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*That means you will be getting your period some time soon. Well if you start, take your moms pads like 1 or 2. Then if she notices she'll confront you but if she doesn't you need to tell her then.*
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One day me and my friends were hangin out and this gurl came up to me and smiled. WEll that day she hung out with us. The next day at lunch she sat by me and we talked. the next few weeks we got closer. And we started to kiss and go out. Well one of my friends likes her and i dont want to hurt him. To make matters worse i over heard him and her talking and she really seemed to like him.
Im confused should i bring my game up and not be friends or should i let him have her and still be friends. I dont want to give her up (link)
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*Does he know ya'll go out? Make sure he knows and he'll back off. But remember friends last forever, girlfriends don't.*
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