ergh well my name is amanda, but everyone calls me mandy...im known to laugh alot, at almost any situation. i almost always have a smile on my face.Basically i rele like to have fun, and stuff. people think im a quiet chick, wel most of the time i am, but i can be rele crazy if ur a good friend of mine.im very perverted so ya, lol thats about it, and i love to read
E-mail: mandy_moo_moo_rocks@hotmail.com
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Location: missouri
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Age: 13
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Ok heres the deal my bf has been in a relationship before me with another girl and he was very serious with her and while they were going out he treated me like crap. Then, they broke up and he was all upset bc he said she was the love of his life, blah blah blah. So then me and him start to flirting and stuff and we both like each other and he asks me out well I said I need to think about this and the next day I find out he's back with her. Well he dumped her and then we some how end up together. But now he says he loves me and a part of his always has and was thinking of me when he was going out with her, but how do I know this it feels like he's using lines on me that he used on her and idk if their genuine or not or if he's just saying this and is going to end up changing his mind, P.S. this boy said he had liked me since fourth grade and it's been a while since then and we've dated before, THANKS SORRY ITS SOO LONG!!!! (link)
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well, i dont know blake as good as you, but i think he seems like a pretty understanding person. And wehn i was going out with him I felt the same way as you do. Cus I knew that he had liked you, and stuff. But I didnt talk to him about how i felt, so i think thats one of the reasons our relationship failed. So i definetley think you should talk to him and work this out, because I know you really love him and it seems as though he really loves you too. And theres really no way to tell if they are genuine unless you ask him, but stll then he could be lying to you to about it. So I suggest talk to him in person and see what his facial expressions, movements, if he seems like hes nervous. But you know how blake is you really cant tell how he feels, cus the so many times hes done this to both of us.Remember im here for you, and i wont tell him, you can trust me. tell me how everything works out.. Good luck to you! lylas much!!
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I have a great girlfriend, one I've been going out for nearly three years now. We have never really fought or argued or been mad at each other or anything. We both have problems here and there with school and home, but small ones with each other. I do need advice on that though...See, my teacher once told me two years ago that most if not all guys will hear a girl tell her problem and then go to try and solve it, when really the girl just wanted him to listen and hear her out. Is that true? Sometimes I find myself doing that, even after thinking about what my teacher said. So my question is...does being a listener and just talking about a problem count just as much as trying to come up with a solution. For these kinds of problems I mean things like: yeah my friends did this to me; I'm not sure what to do about this sport; I feel a certain way when ___; etc. It does seem that half the time she tells me something, I right away try to come up with a solution or tell her what to do about it. It usually ends up falling right back in my face, or making her feel upset. Would you (girls) appreciate it more if the guy that was there...helped out with a solution, just listened to you about it and talked to you about it, or a little of each. Thanks, I would really appreciate it. (link)
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well personally as a girl, i like it when the guy just listens to me,because i may not tell the whole situation and then something bad could happen...but its also nice when the guy does try to help out the situation, but just make sure you know what you are doing before you try to help and make sure you know the whole story.. hope i helped
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alright i didnt know what to put this under. But im going back to school tomorrow and vacations over :-(....for the past week i have been staying up late and sleeping in late like...like id go to bed at 1:30 and than wake up at 12..well now that schools starting i need to go to bed early but im not going to be tired...what are some good tips to fall asleep earilier?
ILL RATEE ! (link)
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umm exercise a lil bit, read a book when your in bed, listen to music, think about random things, and pretend your sleeping and eventually you will fall asleep
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For Christmas my bf got me this necklace. I can't say I am dissapointed, don't get me wrong, I am so happy he got me something! And it is beautiful. The only thing is that it is a little formal. It has dimaonds all over the chain and stuff (I don't think they are real though). But my question is, should I wear it everytime I see him? It is a little formal to wear with a normal outfit like jeans and a tanktop. I wore it to a New Years party and he noticed that I was wearing it cause he said, "oh you are wearing it!" and was playing with it. Should I wear it to school? It just seems a little formal. Do you think he would care if I didn't? I sorta wish he would have gotten me something a little casual.
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you shouldnt wear it everyday but like two or three times out of the week
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why does everyone look at a teen having a baby like the end of the world for them. i mean i know its hard but I've seen tons of people work through it,and live successful lives. so its a challenge. but worse can happen. i mean if the person can be a good monther and somehow support herself and her child isnt that enough? (link)
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ya that is enough i think...but other people think that its a disgrace because the person is soo young and probably doesnt know what they are getting themselves in too.
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13/f
is this werid?
i take off my clothes and look at myself in the mirror and want to do stuff but i dont kno what? it feels good being naked what should i do. i like my boobs and others ppl's boobs. i want to have sex or something what is hapening
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your going thru that stage in your life where your becoming more intrested in sexual stuff. its natural to do that stuff
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All right.....My friend went out with this guy for like 2-3 months and he broke up with her and she was not ready for it and she was heart broken!! Now she still wants to go out with him! And that is all she ever talks about!! She wont stop so what i am basically asking is...What is some advice i can give her to stop talking about the guy!!?? (link)
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well you guys should have an all girls day and take her out to like the mall or something so she can check out guys. show her that there are better guys out there then her ex..she will eventually get over him
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i know the how the saying goes " don't judge a book by its cover ", but i'm still wondering what is it about 'reality' shows that make them so popular. i don't really see anything so special about them whatsoever. im a guy, and i even hear other guys talking about tv shows like its the latest gossip or something. i really don't have time to watch any tv though... ive asked around and everyone always says " because of the drama ", shows like laguna beach, the oc, etc. is that all there is too it or is there more? thanks, will rate. (link)
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well mostly it is because of the drama, i think otehr people like to watch reality shows to see what other people have to put up with. there really is nothing more to it.well some people just watch it because they think that person is hot or stuff like that. but other than that its not a big deal
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So i spent the night at my friends house.
Her brother and I were watching a movie.
He got up to get something to drink.
I put my feet on the sofa,then he came back he didnt move my feet instead he grabed a pillow and layed on me.
Then later on her grabed my hands.
Awhile after that,i was on him.
As in he was siting down,and my legs were over his.
He out his face on mine.
As if,he wanted me to kiss him.
But i just huged him.
Later after everyone fell alseep,he kissed my on my forehead.
We talked a bit,then he stole my pillow.
So i was forced to get up and sit on the floor and take my pillow back.
He didnt let me have it back,so instead i layed down with him.
He held my hand,kissed are hands.
And kissed me couple more times on my forehead.
Then fell alseep.
Next day,It was like nothing happened.
Im confused,i mean did he just want someone to lay on and hold hands?
Please,dont delete.
Im not sure,what to think.
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maybe he did just want someone to lay with and hold hands with. you should talk to him and see what he thinks. and ask him why he was doing that stuff with you. maybe he does like you and doesnt want it to show so other people know about it
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okay well i know this guy Christian and hes so hot..funny..and nice...and i think im inlove?!!....but the problem is I used to be able to hang out with him but then my mom said i couldn't see him anymore because she thought he was a bad infuence..and that really made me mad...but like on the weekends usually ill go to a friends house and then we will go to the movies and he will go to...but like he gets really frustrated beacuse he can't see me or call my house..so he misses me..but i dont no what to do....should i just keep seeing him behind my moms back....HELP!
i rate! (link)
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you should talk to your mom and tell her that hes not a bad influence and taht you really like him. and if that doesnt work i would keep hanging out with him because your mother shouldnt tell you who to hang out wiht
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ok my boyfriend wants to record me sayin somethin on his cellphone so when i call him it says what i say. so can someone tell me something sweet so say? thanks.. i will rate.. (link)
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maybe like "hey its me, just calling to say i love you" or somethng like that
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okk so this guy i like asked me out yesterday :-D yea exciting! soo anyways..today at school i felt like i was shy around him..i dont know why cuz im usually soo loud! i want to act like i usually do around him..cuz we were really good friends so he knows how i am...and i also want to be a good gf by talking to him and acting like a gf!
welllll any advice for anyy of this stuff!
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well im shy around my b/f too.. and well i think its because your just shocked that your his g/f and your thinking that you should act a different way around him now since your going out. cause when you guys were friends you just felt like "oh ill do what ever and he'll still be my friend" but now since your going out your probably thinking "ok now hes my b/f i cant be all flirty around other guys and act like i used too" so maybe you should just talk to him and tell him that your still the same you and that your jsut getting comfortable with being his g/f
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Is it possible for girls to have wet dreams? because i wake up and theres always clearish gooey stuff in my underwear. Oh, and in school i get it to. what is it? Thank you, i rate high :) (link)
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yes its possible for girls to have wet dreams, its called cum. its a liquish thing that comes out of you when your horny..
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Well, ok, here's the deal. I'm fourteen and i have a group of really close friends. I don't get crushes on girls, but my one friend has really nice, larger breasts and I like to touch them. This is because I am on the smaller side. Occasionally she lets me feel her, but sometimes she laughs it off. I enjoy it when I'm able to touch her. But, I just get turned on by things like this and horny.. Does this happen to anyone else? Also, there's this girl that touches me alot in those areas and it gets me really horny. I jsut like experimenting. Can someone please help me out? Thank you; I'll rate all fives. (link)
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well since your fourteen your probably going thru the stage in your life where your confused if you like girls or not. and theres nothing wrong with doing that, just try not to make it look like you are a lesbian because then your friends will believe you are,and may not feel as comfortable around you. so its normal that your experimenting and your jsut being curious, its perfectly normal.
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so ive been thinking... how do you know when ure friends are actually there i mean really there... I use to be hecka good friends with this girl well call her Mary well we were best friends then mary got mad and stopped talking to me for like 3 months i mean it was like forever. she got mad and just started ignoring me yea i know stupid(it was so stupid she doesnt even know why she was mad!) anyways now were friends again and were starting to be close again but i dunno if i still trust her... i mean it takes alot for someone to make me super sad and then want to be friends again. I was telling someone else about it and i told him that i went a long time not trusting her and he told me since they just meant that he thought she was super fake! he told me that hes the type of person that remembers stuff and wont forget if someone got mad at him and stopped talking but it keeps me thinking is she really there for me or is she just a bunch of lies that sits there acting like my friend. I mean u can only give someone so much in life. Anways i know you will probbaly not be able to help me. But i just want to know do you think she seems fake just by the way i described her. also she did the same thing to my friend before me she got mad at her and stopped talking to her then when she was mad at me she became friends with her again. I dunno its hard to explain.. ive just been thinking maybe i shouldn't put that much trust in her anymore and see what happens... i dont think i can trust her as much as i use to what do you think???? well sorry this is so long! i know its like an essay! (link)
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well if you dont think shes really there for you, you should do something really stupid, and if she was a good a friend she would stick by you no matter what.. (it works ive done something stupid and i found out who my friends were)but yes she does sound fake from your description. so screw up and see if shes stll there and if you think shes not truly your friend. you should talk to the other people she hangs out with and see if she talks about you.. hope i helped...mandy
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month,tomorrow.We have been planning on going to the movies, but neither one of us thought about it being our anniversary. I just now remembered.So, I'm just wondering if I should get him anything for it? or what?
any help would be appreciated!
I rate 5's!
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well if he doesnt know its your anniversary maybe you should like remind him about it and then see what happens. and maybe you should get him something. but nothing too serious, because its only been a month
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what are sum programs to download any type of music? (link)
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itunes, limewire..uhh thats all i got
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I have kind of an odd question. My friend told me that if you listen to Stairway to Heaven backwards, its satanic messages. I was skeptical and my parents told me it wasnt true. I had so many nightmares that night, thinking about what it sounded like, that when I woke up this morning, I turned on my computer and tried to find any and every piece of info I could about "backmasking" or listening to songs in reverse to hear satanic messages. I was really scared, but interested. It was all I thought about the WHOLE day, and Im not even kidding. Im afraid because I cant get the song Stairway to Heaven backwards which is "Oh My sweet Satan" and things like that out of my head! what do i do?! And also, is it REAL? Please somebody give me more information about backmasking. Ive looked up every google site on it. But, I want someone to give it to me in their own words. I will give everyone a 5 who has a good answer! (link)
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yes it is real, if you go to
http://jeffmilner.com/backmasking.htm
there are other songs that have satanic messages in them and this website has some of them and it plays the song forward and then backwards and it tells you what to listen for, its pretty interesting...and you shouldnt be afraid, nothng wil happen to you. ive been lookin up stuff about backmasking for a while its totally harmless. and if you dont want to think about it anymore you should just listen to soothing music that makes you forget all your worries, preferablly smooth jazz. or something soft. hope i helped.!
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so for the past month or so i just havent been feeling right. im always tired, but i can never sleep. i dont ever feel like doing anything, and i end up eating cuz im so bored. im always sad, and people get angry cuz i dont smile much anymore... so then i have to pretend to be happy. ive also thought about cutting. should i see a doctor about this? (link)
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yes, you should go to a doctor, maybe somethings been bothering you. anything that would cause you to think about cutting.
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okay i feel realli depressed right now i guess you can put it. well i was on my myspace and i was looking at my friends pictures and came to my ex's picture and i dont no its just i think i still like him but i have a bf now and i dont realli love him but he says he loves me all the time and i just say it back not to hurt him but im not sure what to do anymore i no 4 a fact my ex doesnt like me anymore and never will angain we went out like 3 times already idk i just dont no what to do anymore ive been trying to deal with it but i cant :( can anyone help?
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you seem confused about what you want. maybe you should take a break from having b/fs for a while. until your sure of what you want.
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