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Okay over the weekend our school had this caraval, and me and my friends all met there & hung out. But while we were having fun a classmate of mine wasn't. You see me and her arn't really friends or anything but she's Bff's with my best friend Josh. So after the carnavil. She & Josh were talking, while the rest of us piged out on leftovers. But when josh got back he pulled me aside and said this:
"meg i HAVE to tell you something but i can't. ...Okay if you promise not to tell ANYONE I'll tell you" so I promised" And he said "okay well You know how I was talking to Chelsea (aka classmate) well she told me during the carnivall She got RAPED! She was crying and everything she said it was by some eight grader and he ripper her shirt off an started teasing her boobs, but her dad stoped him. BUT her dad won't beleive her and now she's in BIG trouble. BUT she made me SWEAR not to tell anyone so what do I do?" he told me all that. Should I tell someone or what?

okk he only touched her. not trying to be mean but that is NOT rape and is not in any way nearly as devastating as if she was raped. it is however extremely difficult for her to deal with right now. tell your school counselor but ask her not to tell chelsea your name. you are too young to try and help this girl she needs an adult to help her deal and overcome this. btw the correct term for that is being molested not raped
hope i helped and i wish you all good luck
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Everything was great on Monday. My boyfriend was really sweet, as usual. He hugged me, kissed me, told me nice stuff..and i felt really nice around him. It's not love, but it could be.
Anyway, i knew stuff at home wasn't great for him...his mom and him fight a LOT soo..i never bothered asking him cause he'd get REALLY ticked off when i gave him advice or inquired about it. So Tuesday comes and he begins to ignore me. Like as if i'm not there. Just completely changed. I thought about it...and decided that maybe he needed some space or something...perhaps his mother made him really upset...so i ignored him too.
It was then that he suddenly spoke up, claiming that he was really confused and everything was a blur in his head. I noticed how depressed and upset he got in just two days. His face was all..bitter...and he didn't smile or anything.
It was as if he lost interest in me. He then asked me if i would be completely devastated if we broke up. Of course, i said yes..we've been together for four months and it's a pretty big deal...and it just makes me SO SAD that there could be a chance that he's suddenly losing interest in me.
However, i don't know whether he's confused about EVERYTHING right now. It's all unclear and he still claims to be confused and feeling depressed and crappy and horrible.
I don't know what my next step should be. I haven't dealt with this before. Has this happened to anyone? Why would he be confused all of a sudden just out of the blue like that?
=(

he may just need to get things in his life dealt with and taken care of. if he needs that space let him have it. as long as hes not rude or mean you can still be there for him and if you guys are meant to be he will come back to you when hes ready. but dont sit around waiting for him. talk to other guys. i dont mean get a knew bf in a week but talk to other guys and hang with your girl and guy friends and stuff. dont sit around waiting for him but let him know your there for him and really want to help him. tell him if theres any way for you to help him you will-as a girlfriend or a friend. he will like that you care that much and it will make him happy.
good luck and i hope i helped :)
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i head that you can get your drivers permit 6 months before your 16th birthday, and then get your liscense on your birthday.i was wondering if this was true because i always thought that you needed to be 16 to get your permit. can anyone help me out? i live in easton, pennsylvania. thankssss!

i live in PA and you get your permit when your 16 and your liscense after 6 moths of having your permit.
good luck and have fun driving :)
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3 weekends ago I smoke weed it was only like 3-4 hits and I didnt inhale all the way. Since those 3 weeks I have drank a few times and I have a drug test tomorrow will I pass?

probably not. it will still be in your body
good luck [LOL]

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ok, well, i have had all the symptoms that I will start my period soon.
Like, cramps, headaches, and i have been emotional and like having mood swings
well, i have had my discharge for like 1 month
and I STILL haven't started my period yet....
is this normal..?

yep. completely normal. girls can have the symptoms for months before they actually get there period. you can see the doctor if your still worried but im pretty sure they will tell you the same thing. just don't stress over it and make sure you have pads and are ready. stress can delay your period so if you keep worrying about not getting it that could actually cause it to cme later.
If you have anymore questions im always here-just ask :)
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15/f
me and my bf have been goin out for 5months and 1week. and he lives 30 mins away so i only see him on the weekends for a day or 2. and last week i told him i loved him and he didnt say it back. that night on aim he explained he wasnt ready to say it. we have been to 3rd base and we go to 3rd base everytime i see him like twice everytime i see him. and everytime we do that i really just wanna do "it" but i know im to young and were both not ready but i dont know how to fight these urges. and i dont kno if i should tell my boyfriend that i've been wanting to or not. i just dont know how to handle this and get these urges away and if i should tell him about these "urges"....any suggestions....THANK YOU!

DONT TELL HIM!! it would ruin your first if you have sex with a guy who doesnt even love you! not saying when he says it have sex with him but you guys are young and have so much to learn about love!! and if you have ANY doubt at all your not ready
hope i helped
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is thinking about cheating or looking at other guys considered actually cheating because my friends told me it basically was but i cant help it like i still look and check out guys even though im not single but its not like im doing anything with them..

If its cheating then everyone is a cheater! lol but seriously NO it isnt cheating and [sorry!!] but guys think/look at other women all the time! probably more than most women. we just do because we are human. guys think about sex all the time but we girls arent supposed to get mad because everyong thinks about those things and its just how we are.
hope i helped
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Okay, so i'm Jewish but like I don't go to the temple or like anything. so my friends were talking about religion and had the Jewish religion all wrong so i cleared it up and they were like whats the Jewish bible called and i said i didn't know. and this other girl whos not Jewish goes oh..its called a Torah spellin..so anyway they go well your not a Jew your a fake Jew your no Jew JUNO get it like Jew NO. yeah, well i was just gonna shrug it off but my other friend blew up at them and told them to knock it of and i was like guys just stop but they won't. I'm not that affended but a lot of my family died in consintration camps and there making fun of me for being something that i can't help.

am i right to be a little mad over this?

ok it sounds like they were teasing you because you didnt know one of the most important things in your religion. which is kinda pathetic. i dont like it when people claim to be something but never attend mass/temple/service or don't really have a relationship with their god/gods because then it is fake. if they were teasing you because of your ignorance then no you shouldnt be offended but maybe embarrassed. go learn about your religion! lol

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i know this may sound disturbing but my bf said that i gave him a boner and next time i should something about it..what does he mean and how? lol

ummm HELLO! he wants a handjob or possible blowjob or could even be fantisizing sex but DO NOT go farther than you want. start sloooow dont rush straight into sex! if your comfortable just give him a handjob
good luck
HiChick

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this guy i realy like i know his spot its his ear or behind his ear one of those but i dont know what to do to it
list somethings i could do with his ear to turn him on
thanx in advance ill rate you

ears r a common hot spot. you can like him behind the ear and run your tongue around his ear and kiss and lightly nibble his ear those will turn him on so much trust me. also whisper things softly in his ear or playfully blow into his ear. like my ex bf knew my ears were really sensitive to touch so he would always come behind me and playfully (like in public or w/e) poke my ear and he was always blwing my ear or my face or my hair so you would do that just to be playful like even in publis. but ya kiss his neck and move up to his ear-he will die!! and run your tongue on his ear and rub your tongue gently behind in like a line or shape like try a figure 8
good luck hope i helped

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So my next door neighbors moved in less than a year ago, and its been hell. They're forever in my house, and they take things only to not return them or give them back in poor conditions. Its not only clothes, but shoes, chairs, butter, spices, irons, etc. They're perfect freeloaders. I was FED UP, so this morning I argued with the mom (they're 3 girls) and completely cursed her and her 18 year old out. I did apologize over the phone, but when the lady told me to do it in person, I cursed her out some more and clicked on her. I certainly don't regret it, but I feel bad for my mom. We're the completely opposites, she's the soft, loving type who feels bad about hurting people's feelings. I know it sounds pretty mean, but does anyone have any techniques to get stuff off your mind? Also its gonna be awkward seeing my neighbors, and I hate feeling like I have enemies, but I will fight her if she even looks at me wrong. Can anyone give their opinions? What would you have done?

i kno your probably exaggerating when you say you will fight her because whenever i got really mad at a girl im like omg im gonna slap the frickin brat!! but ya my only advice is dont actually fight her and just try to lay low. if anything just say you do not feel comfortable lending them your stuff if they ask and try to avoid them as much as possible. im not saying back down...just dont instigate more fights. try and calm down and not get carried away

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are these reasonable prices for a 14 year old girl trying to raise some money for a cause? and if you have any other ideas to raise money (dont say walking dogs.. never really had an experience with pets like that) SHARE! also include how much i should charge. and dont say something like shoveling snow.. cuz its a bit too late for that. and no washing cars either. LASTLY: DONT JUST GIVE ME A WEBSITE, UNLESS IT SHOWS THE PRICES OF SERVICES A 14 YEAR OLD COULD DO IN HER NEIGHBORHOOD AS WELL. NO BAKE SALES..STUFF LIKE THAT.

$3 per day: watering your plants (when you are away, or have no time.)

$10 per hour: helping with other gardening needs (excluding mowing your lawn.)

$10 per pet, per day: taking care of your pet during vacation (pets that stay in cages or tanks.)

$10 per hour: tutoring kids in math (any grade, up to grade 7. I have been in Advanced Math since the 3rd grade, and have always been getting A and B grades with the subject. I am particularly good at teaching Algebra to kids who could use some tutoring. Must at least be 6 years old to be eligible)


(thanks btw for answering =])

sounds good except the one for animals is much too high. i would do $5 per animal per day
good luck :)
HiChick

also what about babysitting/ being a mothers helper/ helping with chores and cleaning/ walking animals/ making and selling bracelets, jewelry, etc./ or help planning/running a kid's bday party or something

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I'm really in a huge trouble.

A week ago I just found myself falling in love with an 11 or 12 year-old boy(he won't tell me his age)

I'm 14.

I've been against having younger bf.

I donno what I should do.

How to deal with the situation.

We are quite close. his class is right next to mine.

And I really wanna know if he likes me too.

How do I do that?

I would really appreciate all your advises.

there isnt anything wrong with it but 1) you will be teased and 2) ok he is still a kid! i mean maybe hes really mature but that is pretty young! if you were 17 and he was 15 that would be ok but hes still a kid. well idk i just dont really think dating a younger guy is good because guys are already soo much more immature than girls the same age as them. my ex is a yr and a half older than me and he is way more immature than me. anyway good luck. oh ya and just ask him! im sure he will think its so cool to have an older babe like him. LOL
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how can I turn on my boyfriend and tease him all at the same time?? I want to make him want me to do things to him like give him oral sex but I want him to want to do the same to me.

18/f

be all flirty and cute and suggective and touch him a lot and show him your excited-trust me he will pick up on it and follow. and you can always just tell him! be like "baby, i want you to love me with your tongue---it'll be so good" or something. i kno that sounds slutty but something like that might be the best way to get him too

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14/f okay so i've been depressed and cutting myself for like almost a year now, and about a month or so ago my parents found out, so they put me in therapy and stuff. so now my whole family knows about me (mom, dad, sister, 3 brothers, and step-mom). plus my 2 best friends no. every second of the day my family stares at me and comes in my room like every five minutes to 'check up' and its so annoying! i have no where i can go to be alone and it's like i'm trapped. everywhere i turn someone is trying to get inside my head and asking how i feel and its just so annoying. a couple months ago i tried to commit suicide and obviuosly failed and no one knows i'm suicidal accept for my 2 best friends, my parents think im fine. i lie to my therapist every time i go saying i didnt cut and that im fine but i'm not! all i can think about is going home and cutting and i always fantisize about dieing. its sickining and i hate how all i want to do is die and im afraid that i'll get really mad and actually do it and succeed this time. i have no where to turn and i just need answers. please help.

stop lying and start talking about everything. you'll feel better and they probably dont trust you right now because of what you doing but if your honest with them they will see your being truthful and start giving you more room-if they think that if you need them you will come to them and not go cut yourself or something. i will be honest-its going to be a little while before they start trusting you and it will be hard but it will take soooooo much more time and be SO much harder if you dont just start being honest and open. and if you do that eventually you will start feeling better and be able to cope with what your doing now.
hope i helped and good luck :)
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My boyfriend's birthday is tomorrow, April 30th!
So we have been dating for over a month, but we met about two months ago (we instaaantly clicked and he asked me out two weeks later).
What should I put on his card? I want to make it longish and meaningful. Turning 17.

i would write him a sweet little poem and maybe on one side a little collage of pics and then on the other side the poem and on the front happy birthday and you kno decorate it and stuff. he will love it!! :)

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okay so I've been with my boyfriend for two years and we've been messing around for about 2 months or so. The only thing he does is eat me out and finger me and its good, but he won't let me do anything to him. I ask him why and he says because I have to want it & I don't even know what he means by that. I'm pretty sure we'll mess aroung this weekend. Any suggestions to what I should do to tease him and to get him to want me to do things to him??

18/f

well i strongly suggest just talking about it. when your together and before you even makeout sit and talk and ask him why he doesnt want you too. he may be embarassed by what he looks like or his size or something but its important that you guys are on the same page. tell him you think that in an intimate relationship its important for the intimacy to go both ways. it sounds like he is trying to make sure you dont do anything you dont want to do but if your ready tell him your ready and that you WANT to. that you dont feel like you HAVE to but you WANT to because you love him and you want an intimate relationship with him. best of luck
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Has anyone had experience with this software?

Does it run well and all that good stuff?

ya its good-i like it a lot

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Hi.

14/m

I've been going out with this girl. Its been almost a week. We've each gone out before but it was like 4th grade with other people and it wasnt "real". Now we're 14, its the real deal lol.
So weve talked alot and hung out alot (not sure whether to consider them dates or not) and I'm wondering, should I kiss her on the cheek in the near future? I HAVE HUGGED HER BEFORE.

Any advice on cheek kissing/making out is very appreciated.

Thank you.

hug her and kiss her on the cheek before you leave and then kiss her on the lips next time and then start doing in a little more frequently and talk to her about it too!! because if shes happy with the whole kissing thing maybe another time you guys hang out you can have a little makeout haha :)
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i am fifteen and want to have a few monologues prepared for impromptu auditions.
can anyone suggest any for 15 year old females?
thanks!

shakespeare or anything like that-do it from a book you like

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