is thinking about cheating or looking at other guys considered actually cheating because my friends told me it basically was but i cant help it like i still look and check out guys even though im not single but its not like im doing anything with them..
Shelly_x answered Tuesday May 6 2008, 3:42 pm: No it isn't cheating
Girls can't help but look at other guys lol, same as guys will look at other girls when they are dating.
Razhie answered Sunday May 4 2008, 1:49 pm: Sesh, the next thing you know your friends will be telling you that you are cheating on your boyfriend when you snuggle with your favorite teddy bear! Where does the madness end?!
No. That isn’t cheating. Any guy who tells you it is, is trying to control you. Those with eyes will look. Unless you are willing to pluck out your eyes, and his, you will both still look at other people who you find visually appealing. If you did both pluck out your eyes you would both find yourself attracted to pleasant voices in the opposite sex. We are all only human.
Your friends likely don’t have the maturity or experience in relationships to realize this yet. Either that or they are kidding themselves.
It is polite however, for someone who is in a relationship not to give off the wrong impression by either constantly staring or flirting with others. If that is the kind of behavior your friends are seeing, you should cut down on it. If they are getting after you because you think Brad Pitt and that guy at the mall are cute, ignore them. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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