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In love with a younger guy
I'm really in a huge trouble.
A week ago I just found myself falling in love with an 11 or 12 year-old boy(he won't tell me his age)
I'm 14.
I've been against having younger bf.
I donno what I should do.
How to deal with the situation.
We are quite close. his class is right next to mine.
And I really wanna know if he likes me too.
How do I do that?
I would really appreciate all your advises.
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Well, I guess its alright that you like him, nothing wrong with that, but he is a bit young to feel the same thing for you. At that age (and especially because he's a boy) he really has no idea what girls are... yet.
At best he'll have one of those "crushes" on you, which really aren't crushes, it just means he knows you exist or he thinks you're pretty, but there's really no deeper emotional attachment then that.
I would just make friends with him for now, and see if you still like him when he is in 8th grade, where he might actually be capable of returning those feelings back to you.
~Maria, 17
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For one it shuldn't matter the age. If you like him you should go for it no matter what and if i were you i would just tell him you kind of like him and you want to know if he feels the same then see what happens after that.
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Don't think about your age difference. Just think about this: Do you like him? It seems like the answer is yes, so you have to go for it. What's most important is how you feel, not what anybody else feels or thinks. So, if you decide you like him, you should tell him. You don't want to swallow your feelings. If you open up to him, it'll will be a lot easier for him to open up to you. If he does like you, he'll tell you, and that will probably end well. If he doesn't like you, at least you got it out, and you'll be able to get over him. And if anyone makes fun of you, it'll be because they're jealous that you had the courage to bear your soul to another human being. Trust me.
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don't force yourself to not like him just because he is younger. you probably will get teased. i have liked my little brothers friends before (i was 13 they were 11). i didnt tell anyone because i didnt want to get teased. if you go out with him or tell your friends you will probably get teased and you have to decide if you are okay with it. you could ask one of his friends to ask him if he likes you too. or just ask him yourself.
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there isnt anything wrong with it but 1) you will be teased and 2) ok he is still a kid! i mean maybe hes really mature but that is pretty young! if you were 17 and he was 15 that would be ok but hes still a kid. well idk i just dont really think dating a younger guy is good because guys are already soo much more immature than girls the same age as them. my ex is a yr and a half older than me and he is way more immature than me. anyway good luck. oh ya and just ask him! im sure he will think its so cool to have an older babe like him. LOL
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well there is really nothing wrong with dating a younger guy. I mean yes its traditional but its not like its a law. Unless you were 18 and he was younger but not the case.
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Watch his body language..does he look at you in the eyes?
Does he call you beautiful?
Does he seem nicer to you than everyone else?
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Just watch him closer, or you could just ask...
-hayley
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i once had a crush on a guy that was 2 years younger than me...actually it was really bad cuz it was my best friends younger bro!! haha. but yea it can always work out and i know of plenty of older girl-younger guy relationships that work out. i think you should just ask him what he thinks of you because chances are he will not make the first move just for the fact that he is younger and probably intimidated by you. hope that this helps in some way :) good luck!
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There's nothing wrong with dating a younger guy. It might be awkward now, seeing as the difference in maturity, but when you're older a few years is nothing.
-Laura. (15-f)
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