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okay so I've been with my boyfriend for two years and we've been messing around for about 2 months or so. The only thing he does is eat me out and finger me and its good, but he won't let me do anything to him. I ask him why and he says because I have to want it & I don't even know what he means by that. I'm pretty sure we'll mess aroung this weekend. Any suggestions to what I should do to tease him and to get him to want me to do things to him??
18/f
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For some reason I don't think those were the answers you were looking for haha. Basically, when he says that he wants you to "want it", just be more into it. Even if you have to fake it haha. If you're making out, grab him or try to grab him a lot down there. Make it intense. If you're kissing his neck or anything, whisper in his ear that you want his dick or that you're really horny or whatever. Haha. It sounds slutty, but it'll definitely work. Good luck!
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well i strongly suggest just talking about it. when your together and before you even makeout sit and talk and ask him why he doesnt want you too. he may be embarassed by what he looks like or his size or something but its important that you guys are on the same page. tell him you think that in an intimate relationship its important for the intimacy to go both ways. it sounds like he is trying to make sure you dont do anything you dont want to do but if your ready tell him your ready and that you WANT to. that you dont feel like you HAVE to but you WANT to because you love him and you want an intimate relationship with him. best of luck
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You need to put the brakes on. Tell him you have decided to wait until you find the right guy before giving to him what you will only have one time. No more messing around! Sex is special. It bonds two people together in a way that can't be described. I am 55 and I live with many regrets. There are times when I am with my wife other memories come into my mind and I wish they weren't there. Don't let that happen to you. Remember you can be like the others anytime you want to but they can never be like you!
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