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neighbors gettin on my nerves
So my next door neighbors moved in less than a year ago, and its been hell. They're forever in my house, and they take things only to not return them or give them back in poor conditions. Its not only clothes, but shoes, chairs, butter, spices, irons, etc. They're perfect freeloaders. I was FED UP, so this morning I argued with the mom (they're 3 girls) and completely cursed her and her 18 year old out. I did apologize over the phone, but when the lady told me to do it in person, I cursed her out some more and clicked on her. I certainly don't regret it, but I feel bad for my mom. We're the completely opposites, she's the soft, loving type who feels bad about hurting people's feelings. I know it sounds pretty mean, but does anyone have any techniques to get stuff off your mind? Also its gonna be awkward seeing my neighbors, and I hate feeling like I have enemies, but I will fight her if she even looks at me wrong. Can anyone give their opinions? What would you have done?
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you went a little overboard there. you had every right to be pissed and completely get where you're comming from. i dont think i would have been able to restrain myself in that situation either. maybe it would be a good idea if you attempt an apology again but this time with your mom with you. that will probably keep you from bitching them out again and your peaceful mom can clear the air. thats what moms are for, cleaning up our messess:). and if that doesnt end up working... avoid, avoid AVOID! hope i helped.
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i kno your probably exaggerating when you say you will fight her because whenever i got really mad at a girl im like omg im gonna slap the frickin brat!! but ya my only advice is dont actually fight her and just try to lay low. if anything just say you do not feel comfortable lending them your stuff if they ask and try to avoid them as much as possible. im not saying back down...just dont instigate more fights. try and calm down and not get carried away
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