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i want to do it...but i shouldnt....what do i do
15/f
me and my bf have been goin out for 5months and 1week. and he lives 30 mins away so i only see him on the weekends for a day or 2. and last week i told him i loved him and he didnt say it back. that night on aim he explained he wasnt ready to say it. we have been to 3rd base and we go to 3rd base everytime i see him like twice everytime i see him. and everytime we do that i really just wanna do "it" but i know im to young and were both not ready but i dont know how to fight these urges. and i dont kno if i should tell my boyfriend that i've been wanting to or not. i just dont know how to handle this and get these urges away and if i should tell him about these "urges"....any suggestions....THANK YOU!
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i dont think you should tell him.. cuz if he knew, hed probably make you or guilt or even trick you into doing it. i think that you should try maybe pleasuring yourself more often to fight the urges. hope i helpedd =]
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DONT TELL HIM!! it would ruin your first if you have sex with a guy who doesnt even love you! not saying when he says it have sex with him but you guys are young and have so much to learn about love!! and if you have ANY doubt at all your not ready
hope i helped
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Well, I dont think you should tell him.
Guys think with logic, so that means if you add (im willing) to (he`s always willing) and he`ll take the high road ofcourse.
And I think you might want to cut back on the daily vists. If theres a problem then i think you should beable to get a clear picture of whats going on in his mind. Know you cant trust men too much at all. They`ll play along for years! But your young and too much cant be going on like that
And Keep in mind you only get one first whatever
And i know i know im in love blah, heard it a million times this year! But know you dont know what love isnt! to the fullest atleast.
So take things slow and nice, if he cant wait then is he really the guy you want to remember and possibly have a bad memorie too =X it happens
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First off: DO NOT TELL HIM ABOUT IT
If he's not even ready to say that he loves you then you would seriously freak him out if you told him that. there's nothing that you can really do to get rid of the "urges", but you can fight it. Once he gets really serious like you, then you MIGHT be able to tell him.
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