I may seem like just a little kid compared to ohter people on here, but everyone I know says that I give advise that I could publish and sell to the public. Some of my closer friends even said that I should seriously become a shrink when I get older. I always daydream about any random thing that comes to mind, and I actually love the idea of publishing an advise book now that I think about it. I know almost all there is to know about guys, and I'm willing to help anyone that needs it.
Gender: Female
Age: 13
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13/f 7th grade
all my friends are starting to "date". they go downtown or to the strip mall or to each others houses and have these group "dates" with their "boyfriends" but my mom doesnt let me go because she doesnt think im old enough. I just like the boys as friends even though i have been on 1 "date" myself I like the kid I went with as a good friend. but people are starting to ditch friends for boys and go out all the time and tell each other they love each other and thinking about kissing so I was wondering what age ae kids supposed to date? is my school ahead of other people? and my mom wont let me go anywhere with boys so how can i convince her most boys are never going to be more than friends to me even when im older and certianly not now? (link)
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Ok you are not alone!!! My mom is the same freakin way and I hate it! I like guys, but I have never been on an actual 'date' before. I think it has something to with scientific stuff that I heard about on the news. It said that kids are growing up faster because there is this chemical or something in the plastic that they make water bottles with. This compound supposably ages hormones faster than the normal ageing process thing. It would make sense to me, because all my friends are like that too.
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15/f
me and my bf have been goin out for 5months and 1week. and he lives 30 mins away so i only see him on the weekends for a day or 2. and last week i told him i loved him and he didnt say it back. that night on aim he explained he wasnt ready to say it. we have been to 3rd base and we go to 3rd base everytime i see him like twice everytime i see him. and everytime we do that i really just wanna do "it" but i know im to young and were both not ready but i dont know how to fight these urges. and i dont kno if i should tell my boyfriend that i've been wanting to or not. i just dont know how to handle this and get these urges away and if i should tell him about these "urges"....any suggestions....THANK YOU! (link)
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First off: DO NOT TELL HIM ABOUT IT
If he's not even ready to say that he loves you then you would seriously freak him out if you told him that. there's nothing that you can really do to get rid of the "urges", but you can fight it. Once he gets really serious like you, then you MIGHT be able to tell him.
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Okay so i was on the computer with my boyfriend and his friend and they were on some girls profile on facebook... i know the girl really likes my boyfriend and has since she met him. last september i was really jealous of her because they saw each other a lot more then me and my boyfriend do. But i got over it. Anyways they were looking at her profile and my boyfriend says to his friend yeah if she adds you im sure you could get pictures out of her i mean she sent me ones of her in her bra. So I didnt want to jump to conclusions i didnt want to accuse him of asking for them so i tried to keep myself from getting angry at him so i asked him if i could talk to her about it ( ive always been nice to her even though after we met in person she told all her friends i was an ugly slut... i told her i understood what it was like to really like someone that is taken and that i didnt hate her for saying that) anyways when i asked him he said no because im not supposed to know .SO, my question is do you think he asked for them or she just sent them cause they were flirting or whatver (ive caught him flirtig with her this december) do you think that they both agreed not to tell me about it and it slipped when he was there talking to his friend. he really seemed to shrug it off like it was nothing i dotn know what to do. do i bring it up with him even though he has a really bad temper and we have been fighting alot lately i really love him and i dont want to start a fight i just want to know whats happening, i know a picture in your bra isnt the end of the world but she still sent it to him and he still looked at it. hes like dont worry i dont have it anymore. BUT still im kind of confused. anywyas i was just wondering if anyone understood maybe whats going on in his head im not really sure what to make of this or how big of a deal it is. Thanks(:
16 f
ps: weve been dating almost a year (link)
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You aren't the slut in this deal..the other girl is. I've seen this a lot before with my friends, and that girl is just trying to turn him on. If you and your bf are fighting about it, then drop the subject because (like all guys) they always want to be right and have the last say in everything. If you love him to death then you should be able to trust him. Every good relationship is built by trusting and understanding each other. Ignore the slut and let your bf know how you feel about everything.
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