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Ok, so I just had sex for the first time. And now, a few days later, it hurts to urinate, and when I do there is blood in it. Do you think it's serious? I don't know what to do. I can't go to my doctor, because I don't want my mom to find out. Please respond asap I'm scared.,
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It's normal to bleed for sometime accompanied by pain.
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Well if you pee blood only when you bleed, it's not normal if the pee contains blood, but if the pee is seperated from the blood it come's from the time you lost you're verginity, peeing blood and pee is normal, peeing blood is not normal.
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my side hurts on my right side of my stomach. i dont know what is causing it, but hurts really bad. today all i ate was waffles with peanut butter and carrots and celeri, plus i took my daily 20g fluoxetine pill. then i took an alieve. and im really hot right now, burnin up. i dont know whats wrong but its killing me. please try to help. any guesses, suggestions are appreciated. (link)
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Go to the emergency room, seem's like a bad case of you're appendix, Take what ever medicine you're taking with you.
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When I am on my period I end up having some really bad bathroom problems and I'm trying to figure out why. I'm also curious as to whether or not there are other women that experience the same thing as I do.
I have heard of many women becoming constipated or having diarrhea while on their periods, but this is a whole new bathroom problem (from the same end though). It's pretty extreme.
When I'm on my period, the tiniest bit of stool in me MUST come out right away or I'm in unbearable pain. Sometimes the pain is so much that I honestly think about removing my uterus on the spot, in those painful moments. It's such an immense amount of pain. For reference, my anus nor bowels actually hurt--all of the pain is in my uterus.
I usually GO once a day while I'm not on my period. When I'm on my period I end up going quite a few times--usually AT LEAST 3 times a day, if not more. Like I said, I cannot wait at all, as soon as something is down low enough in my intestines then I'm almost instantly in severe pain. The stool is usually it's normal size, shape, and consistency so there isn't anything that would cause me to believe it was me previously holding too much in or something.
So, my questions are:
Do other women experience this?
Is this healthy?
Do I need to see a doctor about it if it is abnormal?
What in the hell could cause this kind of pain/symptom?!
Is there anything I can do to stop this from happening?
Thank you very much for your time! :) (link)
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Ill answer on of you're question's, you do need to see a doctor, it seem's like there is abnormality in you're inside's, cases like you're do happen often.
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Hello, I'm a male, 17 years old, and from Lebanon (Middle East). I'm really confused about my sexuality. I have a girlfriend and I appear straight to all my friends. But when I masturbate, I imagine that I'm a girl getting violated, or having sex with two guys etc. And when I watch a porn movie, I see myself as the girl in the movie, not as the guy, and imagining that I'm a girl having sex with a guy turns me on more than anything. I always like to be a girl who is having sex with guys not a guy having sex with a guy, nor a girl having sex with a girl, only a girl having sex with a guy. and I have a fake email ID and when I'm using it I pretend to be a girl, I steal girl's photos from the Internet and show them to guys in Chatting Rooms, and tell them that it's me. they believe that it's me and start chatting dirt to me... and I masturbate. I've never had sex by the way. But I was once harrased 2 months ago in a Cab by the driver... at first he started turning me on with a sex talk, then he gave me a handjob.. I don't consider it as a sexual harrasment because I didn't defend myself.. I let him do it. But i didn't let him touch my penis. But I also have a girl friend.. and when we make out I get turned on.. but I never reached orgasim with her.. she once tried to give me ahandjob but it didn't work.. I don't wana be Gay or Bisexual, I want to be straight. I watch porn a lot and i'm addicted to masturbation. HELP (link)
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You do not make sense, you are confused, stick to you're girlfriend, belive me that's with whom you belong.
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this is gonna sound so lame but i've never been the the movies with a guy before and im going with one that i really like. he really likes me too. what should i expect to happen? and what should i do? like if he puts his arm around he do i lay on his shoulder ? please don't tell me whatever feels right cause i know that but like if we start kissing where do i put my hands and stuff? thats my main question. thank youu! (link)
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Put you're hands up, this is a holdup, give me you're stuff.
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Hey i'm 13 years of age, and im five foot seven, and i weigh 140. thats alot. and the thing is i'm not fat, i'm actually pretty skinny, its just i really need too drop about 20 pounds brfore december. Becuase of cheer tryout's. and they have a weight limit. so any idea's??? i'd like too start dropping fast! Thanks is advance!! (link)
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Try long walks, a small spoon of apple cider mixed in a 8 oz of water before breakfast, ever other day, not recomended for more then three week's.
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So I'm not sure this is in the right category but what ever.
14/f
So ever since I was in 5th grade weird things have happened. I fell like in a way I am what you could call "phycic" (how ever you spell it)
For example: In 5th grade one day, I was in school. During class I was thinking about there being a school fire or bomb threat or something and the cops would come etc. About 10 minutes after that class, there was a bomb threat in the 5th grade girls bathroom. The whole school was evacuated and the cops came etc.
When I was in 6th grade I was in the car with my mom and my brother, I was think about car accidents. About 5 minutes later we got into the biggest car accident in the history of the town. I got hurt and almost had to go to the hospital. I was the only one who was injured.
About 2 weeks ago, I was in the kitchen, but was busy doing something so never looked up. It was my cousins wedding day and she was having the wedding at my house. I was thinking about something tragic happening. When I looked up I started coughing because my kitchen was covered with black smoke. My mother came out and forgot there was pizza boxes in the oven and earlier turned it on. When we opened the over the boxes were on fire and our kitchen went up in flames.
There isn't really any more of the story needed.
I am really freaked out because weirder things and scarier things have happpend to me.
I don't know what to do.
Is there something wrong with me or is it all just in my head? (link)
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Do not be afraid, or belive there is something wrong with you, what happen's to you knowing something's before they happen is something that some people have, I have experience that myself and i was worried and afraid that there was something wrong with me, this is something that happen's to some people in life, i have problem's with my family seem's like they turn against me in a way of envying me falsefaying accusation's about, they have even attampted to kill me several times, they even sold me to a Hospital for body parts with out me knowing, i barely got out of it alive,we seem to be in two different world's belive me some warning's ahead of time have saved my life, and it come's to me like a voice with out sound inbeded in my brain, if this make's any sense, but this is the best way i can describe it, knowing thing's ahead of time has almost all the time been there for me like a warning, so use this as best as you can because it come's from you and not from a book, you can say you have a special gift in you're life, this could develope more knoweledgable in time, like i have develope the (DON) of healing and i know it is a gift in my life from our Savior Jesus Christ. If you feel you wan't to converse more just ask for me e-mail address, I give my approval, I would very mush would like to talk to you on this and try to guide you in the Spirit and faith of anoinment through our Loard The Savior.
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I have been in 3 plays in a row at my college. They have all been bit roles with no speaking parts, yet I have put my entire heart and soul into each of them, showing up at every practice, helping in any way I can, and trying to learn what I can under the circumstances, and yet, I just cannot seem to get a big role. I'm not mad at the director, just insanely frustrated with myself. I know a lot of people will say "It has nothing to do with you" or "It's just the directors vision", but after all these plays, I'm doubting that there's more to my getting small roles than the director's "vision"
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You're one of the thousands that have the same problem, maybe it could help if you ask the director to look into seeing if he could try you for a big role, if he don't try you out just wait you're turn that's the way this you're in is.
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19 year old female
my name is Rachel and my mom and i are not getting along very well right now in fact it seems like we are always getting into verbal fights so to keep from fighting with mom i moved into my 38 year old cousins home and here's the problem i have now even though i moved out of my mom's house we still end up getting into fights over the phone so here's what we are fighting about now. Iam learning disabled and i have some physical disablities that disable me from working i was in special edecation when i was in highschool i have graduated last may. i will give you a small description of what some of my disabilities are.
1.I have attention deficience disorder and i also have attention deficeience hyperactive disorder.
2.I also have bipolar which cause me to get angry and upset over very little situations.
3. I also have a disorder that is called an essential trimmer which causes me to shake when i get upset.
4.I also have poor motor skills and i have a hard time handling small objiects.
5. I am very disorganized.
6 I also cannot multitask very well.
7 It's also very hard for me to put what i want to say down on paper i can do it better verbally.
8.I also have a hard time maninging money.
I get a social security check becouse iam not able to work becouse of those physice and mental disabilities and my mom is responsible as my payee over my social security check.
I have to have a payee becouse of the fact that i can't manage money very well if i were the one over my money i would blow it all on stupid stuff and wouldn't buy any of the important stuff i needed to survive so anyways my mom is over my check and i asked her for the $300.00 rent and she fussed becouse she said that was too much money even though i explained to her that it was for bills, rent, food and everything that i would need so i told my cousin that my mom wouldn't give me my money for the rent so she said i wouldn't have to pay rent if i helped her with her autistic son whenever she needed a sitter even though he is 17 he has the mind of a 2 year and can't be left alone at all and if i also helped clean house but i feel bad for leaving in her house for free what should i do? (link)
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You have problems alright, you're mother being you're payee should see to you're financial needs and try all that she can to assist you insted of giving you a hard time, you have enough problems keeping up with you're sickness, seems like you need to contect someone of you're family to put you're mother straight with you and help you in time of need, if you keep having problems go in to the, Social Security office and you have thr right to appoint another payee, being that the new payee be honest and reliable, try to take care of you're money and do good for you're self, hope this helps you.
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Hey! Well, I'm 15 and I'm a girl. And I'm getting my first car so I can drive to school. Well, here's the thing, I really have this sorta phobia, about driving in small cars. I just really don't feel safe in them. So my parents and I have been looking for a smaller SUV type car. One's that I've been looking for and that I like are Rav4's, Jeep Liberty, and Saturn Vue. Well, so far I haven't had a ton of luck finding one of those within our price range, year, and type of car. Basically I would like some advice (if you wanna call it that) of other cute small SUV's. I don't need places that sell them, I would just like to know some other styles of SUV's. I would really like the years from 2002-2005. I just want a cute, small SUV, so if anyone knows of some other styles, please help me out! Thanks a ton!!!!! (link)
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A small SUV is about as good a car that you will get that are somewhat small, take you're time on driving a car, the fear that you have on driving a small car , tell's me try to practice driving enough for you to feel confortable on the road, also there have been alot of complains about first time drivers putting the mettle to the peddle,Don't speed it's not safe, be a safe and cautious driver. GOOD Luck
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my bf and i have only had sex twice, but we havent ever really gotten to finish. A) it takes him forever to get it in, and B) his family always calls him down to do chores and stuff even if im over there.
but thats not really the point...i lost my virginity on the 26th of last month and then we did it again today and both times he didnt seem to be getting any pleasure at ALL. i dont expect me to get any considering it just NOW got to where it doesnt hurt as much, but is there something wrong with me "down there"?? like, am i doing something wrong? i have no experience and neither does he, really but all im doing is laying there and i dont think he minds doing all the work. but i dont do oral sex or handjobs.
but like is there something i could do (besides the above) that would make the experience a little more pleasurable for him? is there some medication i can take or something?
or is it because we're kinda young? (we're both 15) or does it have something to do with your "soulmate" or whatever?
im confused and i need answers, so any advice is appreciated!! :) (link)
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Sometimes what you're going through is what happens soon after loosing you're verginity, one thing that sometime helps is taking you're time before you have sex, like kissing every where you can think of, what i am trying to get to you is get in a hot state before having sex,
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can anyone help me..i have a 1976 chevrolet monte carlo...when i put my key into the trunk lock it wont turn..i think the tumblers are messed up..can anyone please tell me how i can open the trunk with out drilling out the lock....can i take out the backseat and get in it?? (link)
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Thats one of the way's you can try to open the trunk, if not you will have to drill a hole where you put the key, you will mostlikely have to change the whole lock it seems to be shot, so have one new one ready.
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i need help with it could you give me an example of one. i have an outline of it but i want more help.
can you also tell me what words would be good to describe me? (link)
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OK, you're age, height, weight, fisacle apperance, you're color, of skin and eyes, if you're pretty or ugly, this are some of the things that describe you're self,
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my boyfriend and i have TRIED to have sex 3 times.
see, the first time was about a month ago. he got it in, but we were interrupted. then we tried again about a week ago, and he didnt even get it in before got interrupted. and today we tried again and it went well for a while. and THEN we got interrupted. AGAIN.
any suggestions on where we might be able to go where we WONT be interrupted by his friends or his family or my family? (link)
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Yes on you're honeymoon. Just kidding but there are alot of very good hotels and motels out there.
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ok this might sound kinda odd, but im a little confused about my orientation.
like. im homophobic, and my friends are always kidding around and saying that im just "scared of what i really am" but i know they are just kidding around.
but the other day i started thinking and my boyfriend and i have sex and stuff but we always keep the covers over us, and i dont really wanna see his penis. ive never seen one and it just gives me a weird gut feeling if i see one. like, you know the feeling you get when you're nervous? well, a little like that, with a side of nausea.
i hate being like this because i really dont wanna be gay and lesbians scare me and i love my boyfriend to death but im just so confused!!
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What you have has nothing to do with being a lesbian, you most likely have a fobia on the manhood of a man, start by not using the covers when making whoopie, and look at his male part, the sooner you do that you will be over you're none serious problem, don't make a mountain out of a mold, if you're problem was very serious you woldn't be having sex with him,There are women who experience the same thing you have, it's better to get over nothing.
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whats a good site to see if you have any personality disorders or mental illnesses??
because i want to see if i have bipolar disorder or something like that or schizophrenia(sp) because both of those illnesses run in my family. and im just wondering.
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See if you have the same symtems you're family that has the sickness, start by that, if you do you need to be examined by the doctor that treats you're family,and see what the examenation reveals.
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i dated this guy for about 3 months, and then we took a weeklong break, and now we've been together for about 3-4 weeks.
but i really broke down after he said he wanted a break, and i bawled right in front of him and everything. so im starting to think this is a pity deal.
we have sex and he says he loves me and invites me over a lot but sometimes he acts like he really doesnt want to see me. like we had plans to hang out yesterday and he ended up going to a movie with some friends. and we had these plans for a week in advance because i was on vacation.i tried to act like it didnt bother me that much, but it did. a lot.
and then today he said he wanted to hang out tomorrow and now hes saying that he has MORE plans tomorrow and might not be able to.
am i just being obsessive/paranoid? or is he actually going out with me because he doesnt wanna see me cry/hurt my feelings? (link)
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He most likely have another girl and most likely using you both or more then two, how old are you, can't you see he is playing games with you. sorry but it's very noticeble.
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do guys approach easy looking girls more? cos i know im very pretty because i've been asked to model once
but the thing is that guys never approach me or talk to me randomly. like everytime i catch a guy looking at me and i wanna smile they look away and turn red. its so weird because eery guy is so shy around me. also they never shout stuff at me on the street. a friend of mine said its because i look 'too' good for that or smth. like they have respect!?
so is this true? do guys have respect for these kinda girls who DONT look like you can just get a piece.
i get noticed a lot but not like others do. they just look at me but dont talk to me.
i also really like this one guy but i cant get him to talk to me because he always turns red and looks away all shyish.
its weird because all my friends get honked at. i only get looked/smiled at. they never dare to get closer lol it DOES seem like respect but i mean what could it be about me that makes them like this? even the guys who look like complete idiots, who'd talk to every girl get shy around ME?!!!
and i've been told that I'm the beautiful type. and i guess i look cute as well? [what i've been told :P] (link)
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That's it you're probably very pretty and some guye's think you're going to turn them down if the try to talk to you, in you're case there is nothing wrong if you try to make the first move, being very easy and don't over do it. That will help.
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I want to do something called oil pulling, which apparently is common in India. It is suppose to help pull toxins out of the body and tends to improve tooth/gum health.
Anyway, I know that you're suppose to use either sunflower or sesame oil only for this, but I have encountered a small problem in finding one of these oils.
My question is:
Do I use cooking oil (like sunflower cooking oil or sesame cooking oil) for this or is there a specific "grade" of sesame or sunflower oil that I am suppose to be looking for?
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Can you describe the procidure, or how it is done step by step. Thank You.
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my boyfriend (17) and I(15) have been together for a little over 4 months, and we are sexually active.. we were both of our firsts. well, whenever we have sex, he never well, cums. and I asked him about it, and he said for him to cum, he has to tense up his body and I guess he doesn't do that while we're having sex? but whenever I give him oral, he cums, like, right on the spot, so I don't know.. does it really take alot of tensing up to cum, or am I just bad or something? from the first day we had sex, he never came? is that normal? (link)
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Someone lying.
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