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my mom and i are always fighting
19 year old female
my name is Rachel and my mom and i are not getting along very well right now in fact it seems like we are always getting into verbal fights so to keep from fighting with mom i moved into my 38 year old cousins home and here's the problem i have now even though i moved out of my mom's house we still end up getting into fights over the phone so here's what we are fighting about now. Iam learning disabled and i have some physical disablities that disable me from working i was in special edecation when i was in highschool i have graduated last may. i will give you a small description of what some of my disabilities are.
1.I have attention deficience disorder and i also have attention deficeience hyperactive disorder.
2.I also have bipolar which cause me to get angry and upset over very little situations.
3. I also have a disorder that is called an essential trimmer which causes me to shake when i get upset.
4.I also have poor motor skills and i have a hard time handling small objiects.
5. I am very disorganized.
6 I also cannot multitask very well.
7 It's also very hard for me to put what i want to say down on paper i can do it better verbally.
8.I also have a hard time maninging money.
I get a social security check becouse iam not able to work becouse of those physice and mental disabilities and my mom is responsible as my payee over my social security check.
I have to have a payee becouse of the fact that i can't manage money very well if i were the one over my money i would blow it all on stupid stuff and wouldn't buy any of the important stuff i needed to survive so anyways my mom is over my check and i asked her for the $300.00 rent and she fussed becouse she said that was too much money even though i explained to her that it was for bills, rent, food and everything that i would need so i told my cousin that my mom wouldn't give me my money for the rent so she said i wouldn't have to pay rent if i helped her with her autistic son whenever she needed a sitter even though he is 17 he has the mind of a 2 year and can't be left alone at all and if i also helped clean house but i feel bad for leaving in her house for free what should i do?
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You have problems alright, you're mother being you're payee should see to you're financial needs and try all that she can to assist you insted of giving you a hard time, you have enough problems keeping up with you're sickness, seems like you need to contect someone of you're family to put you're mother straight with you and help you in time of need, if you keep having problems go in to the, Social Security office and you have thr right to appoint another payee, being that the new payee be honest and reliable, try to take care of you're money and do good for you're self, hope this helps you.
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well you should get your payee signed over to your cousin if that is possible so she can mange your money and you could pay her rent.
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