Hey My name's gen. :] My goal in life is not to have an average of a 5 rating all the time.
I'm an overrall nice person, but when it comes to advice, I will be blunt if necessary. I will be harsh if necessary. Just because I can't stand being mean to someone but the fact that I don't know who you are, I can be mean with the answer if I want to. :)
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in peoples myspace surveys like 3 ppl whos ive looked thorought have had this:
7. Do you believe in love at first sight? lust
anyone know the significance to love at first sight and lust? (link)
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Basically, they don't think you could possibly be in love with someone when you first see them.
But are just lusting for them, you know, wanting them the sexual way ;D Bahahah. But yeah.
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im really confused about those pictures of tyra banks on how she's fat, is that true? because when i see her on TV she's skinny. thanks (link)
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Uhh, I read the "TYRA BANKS:GAIN 20 POUNDS?" shit around late April/early May. In America's Next Top Model, she commented a lot on how the contestents have to watch what they eat, but since Tyra's actual modeling career is over, she can eat whatever she wants now. She's already through with that industry/business.. And the media still expect her to be a stick-thin Victoria's Secret Angel or whateverthehell they're called. F that>_> Anyways, during the summer, there were new pictures released of her losing pounds too. So maybe, you're just thinking back a little too far..
Either way, Tyra's freaking gorgeous no matter what! I'm totally jealous, I wonder why she's not married yet! But she's an independent woman, which I admire :] And a fantastic role model, I love her!
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i know this is really stupied but how do you make out? (link)
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There's no real explanation to it.. You just have to practice and you'll get better eventually >_< As long as you don't stick your tongue down his throat, you should be fine. =] Put your arms around him or gently on his face too. It'd be weird to just let them hang there.
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ok so last night was the first time i drank w/ my friends and we did a few shots. But nothing happen and we didnt get drunk or n e thing but then my other friend found out and got really mad...what should i do? (link)
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Well, first of all, I'm hoping you're at least older than 13. >_< Sorry, but when KIDS start doing that shit.. No, just no.
There are two sides to this. One, you're growing up. No matter if you're not the actual legal age limit to drink, you're going to do it anyways. That's how teenagers are. Oh well, it's life and curiousity. And your friend's has to realize that it's your life and your decisions and if YOU really want to do it, she can't stop you. At the same time, listen to her. Maybe she just doesn't want you turning into some party-animal-all-the-time-alchoholic and is just trying to protect you. At the same time, she shoulnd't have gotten angry O_o It's ok for her to try to tell you how she feels about it, but it's still YOUR LIFE.
There's nothing you can do but talk to her and when she tells you how she feels about the drinking, you can tell her how you feel about it too. I mean, it just sounds like you and friends having stupid fun. Big deal. Now, if you got wasted and had a 1-night-stand.. that's more of a concern.
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in youtube there are tons of comments on girls that love emo boys because of their side parted hair,makeup,tight girl jeans and stuff.I was wondering why is that so? i mean i understand the hair maybe,but why do girls go for guys that look like.....girls? with their makeup and tight jeans? don't girls like macho man who wear boyish stuff? please clear my confusion thanks.
p.s:besides the above,comment on what else you like about emo kids. (link)
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Hey, everyone has different tastes. Just as all boys do. Freshmen year, I used to like an "emo" boy[when I was originally into the gangstas],and he was actually a really cool/nice guy! And he wasn't a pussy either. Stereotypes are stereotypes. It's different when you actually, oh I don't know, GET TO KNOW THE PERSON. Just a thought..
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does smooching causes pregnancy? (link)
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No, hun. Kissing dun give you a baby.
Penis and vagina without a rubber/birthcontrol does =]
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okay.
my friend recently had sex
for the first time.
without a condom. .
but he claims he didnt cum in her?
idk.
shes freaked as hell
and is worried she might be pregnant.
is there a chance she could be?
i think so, but i figured i'd get a second opinion.
thank you (: (link)
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Yeah, there is. Tell her not to worry, just try to wait it out for her next period. Stress delays it, apparently. And if she's 2 weeks late, get a preggy test!
And tell your girl to buy some rubbers next time, please.
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IS it possible for someone to fall in love in over 4 months of dating???
P>S we knew each other for a year in school (link)
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Babe, anything's possible.
&Like said plenty of times before, you KNOW when you're in love. You'll feel it. It's good that you have a background of knowing each other for awhile, but still, 4 months.. Don't try rushing it, the more you love, the more you can get hurt. So be careful.
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like what is frist base second base third base.
and of course home
like in your personal opinion?? (link)
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1st base- kissing//making out
2nd base- dealing with the hands. fingering//handjobs//feelingup
3rd base- Oral. eatingout//blowjob
4th base- Sexual intercourse.
In my opinion.
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I'm wondering when you guys think it's appropiate to give & receive gifts or anything for anniversarys. (link)
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It all varies on the couple. Some people do it every month, some wait until the actual 1 year. As for me, I like 6 month[half a year!], 10 month[first 2digit lmao but not to give gifts.], and 1 year.
It's all up to you =]
I don't think you should do anything for 4 months though.. Iuno, there's nothing really special about it to me, but its your choice.
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when u give a guy a bj can u use your tongue? or would that be weird..? (link)
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Babe, I think you're supposed to use your tongue sometimes..
Yep.
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Omg..I cannot stand it when people use your instead or you're or their instead of there or they're.
OH MY GOSH. Example : Your so stupid. & Their retartarded. & Their you are! & You're shirt. And...would you look at that...another error! : Are princess. -_- (meant to be "OUR princess")
GRR. This happens a lot to me. Like I see people doing it over and over and over again. It annoys the hell out of me! Would it be too rude to correct them? They should know by now, right!?
Ugh.
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Lol girl, I do it all the time online. It's not so much the fact that I'm annoyed by it, but its just a habit. They won't take it offensively unless they're overdramatic. Plus, you're the one helping them with something that should've been learned in Elementary School =]
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hii [:
me and my boyfriend have been
going out for just over 5 months.
but ive known him for a lot longer.
we have not said that we love each other.
but i really feel that i do.
but ive never been in love before so
i dont know what it feels like.
and plus.
im afraid that if i say i love him
and catch him off guard or whatever
that he'll like freak out or somethin.
...idk. i guess im a little paranoid.
any advice??
[[we're both 16 -- gonna be 17 in like a month]]
sorry it was kinda long.
any advice would help greatly.
thanx. [: (link)
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Aww :] Girl, thas cute!
But you KNOW when you're in love, and if you feel it, I think you might be too :]
And who knows, maybe he's waiting for that "I love you" as well! When you hangout with him, just pick that "perfect moment" [maybe while saying bye?] and just say it. It's ok to be paranoid, 'specially since yous gunna be the first one to say it, but if you feel it, say it before it's too late!! Don't fret if he's not ready to say it yet though. I'm sure he loves you, it's just the matter of fact wether he's IN love with you, just say it the next time you see him, I don't know if you plan for it to be anything special, it's not like you're proposing or anything. But yeah, just see what he says :]
How cute girrl!
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my friend and i were at his house with all my other friends but then he told them to go away so that he could dye my hair. i was really wet when i first got there so he lent me a t shirt and boxers to wear. so when they got out of the house we were alond in his room and he kinda started feeling me and put his hands on my waist. he was all over me and even tried to finger me. he was lifting up my shirt but then i was like what are you doing?? you have a girlfriend!!!! so it kinda ended there but i dont know what to do because i really like him. the thing is maybe he doesnt like me but just wants to do stuff with me. ugh what do i do??
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Girl, stop right there.
Sorry but if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend for you, what makes you think that he isn't going to do the same thing to you, anyways?
First, you have to tell him that if he's taken, he shouldn't be doing that! He crazy, what if your bestfriend found out?! That would awful, so I think first thing you have to do is tell your bestfriend, come clean, so she knows what her man has been doing.
As for you, I'd start looking for another guy to like because no one likes cheaters. Lol. I'm not saying cheaters can't change, but when it was with your bestfriend, it's just.. No. Just look for another crush. Lol. Good luck.
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Okay one night I was hanging with my best friends
Val and Kristen, We were making fun of the boys that we've dated and you know having fun and yeahh drinking a little..:) Then Rae came over and started hanging and was like omgosh you guys dont know do you! And then told us about Eric&Alisha... two people that have been going out sence the beginging of the 7th grade and now there going into ninth. So that's a longg while. They broke up because Eric was being mean to Gene little brother.. dumb I know and how heart-broken Eric is.. And ive liked him for soo long I wanted to call him. Rachel gave me the number and when he finally picked up the phone he was like if I needed your pitty I would ask for and how if he wanted me to have his number he would've given it too me. Which I can understand i have random people calling me all the time. So I just basicly hung up on him.. and we've been friends for a long time and i knew that the only reason he said that was becuase his mother has a porblem with my WHOLE family (longg story) and thats why he never gave me his number. So all that happened like 5 maybe 6 days ago, and yesturday his mom called me crying saying that she needs me help to get him up and outa bed cuz he only gets out've his room for food and bathroom so because I love him I went over and his mom was cool with me, I talked to Eric like a normal person saying he can't be sorry for himself because he deserves SO much better,, and he got all upset saying no ones gunna like him the same and I said that I love him and he was like but thats you. your Katie... and I got so pissed because he said more i dont think I can say on this website and i was like you know what here take it. And i gave him the little peice of paper rae gave me with him number on it and i said I hope I forget your number and make sure to forget mine, you just lost someone that thought the World of you and when you relise you made a mistake, its too late. Alishas a B****! and you do deserve better, but until you relise how great you are dont even think of me. And left. And ofcoarse through all of that I was crying and right now im over Kristens and he's ben calling my cell, so I shut it off and I dont know how he got Kristens home number and cell but he wont stop calling her either.
I'm not ready to talk to him..
What Do I Do?
ASAP Please........ (link)
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Okay, so Eric made a big mistake saying that stuff to you. Even though he had NO RIGHT to say that to you, not even considering your feeings, you have to see it from his point of view. His girlfriend of almost 2 years just broke up with him, he's broken-hearted and angry right now. I think he just wanted to vent and said mean things to you to make him feel better.
But hey, he called back, right? It must mean he has something to say, and you should defently hear what he has to say. I mean, you can't get rid of someone who meant so much to you, the WORLD, as you even put it. I know it's going to be hard, but you're gunna have to face him sooner or later. Good luck babe!
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I'm in love.
My boyfriend is 18, I'm 16.
We've been going steady for a few months now, no problems and no fights.
We practically live together- he either sleeps over at my house, or I sleep over at his.
No matter what, we cant get enough of each other's company.
A friend of mine told me, that if things are going the way they have been for at least a couple more months, that my boyfriend was thinking about proposing to me.
What should I think of this?
Or really, what should I do if this occurs?
I could see myself with him forever, but I am only 16, raging with hormones. (link)
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Woah, woah, WOAH babygirl. O_O; It's great that you and your boyfriend have such a close and tight relationship with one another :] Especially with no fights, getting sick of each other, etc. And I believe if you say you're in love, then you are. But marriage is a BIG commitment. And at 16? Fuck that. Most people older than you are still trying to figure out who they are, what they're going to do in life, etc etc. Yeah, it's great you have someone who cares and loves you SO much and wants to be your 'partner in life.' and so on. But would you really be ready for it?? Most marriages make couples settle down, raise a family, give up the partying life, etc. I'm sure you'd like to live a little before you reach 20. I don't care what you want to hear, you are defently rushing the relationship and should slow the F down. Try going a couple days without seeing each other O_o Because if you honestly spend THAT much time together, you're going to get sick of him at some point, sorry to say.
Just slow down, you even said yourself you have raging hormones, lol.
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whats the best love song you know?
Not a crummy old one but one that kids would listen to today (link)
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I love;
Differenes-Ginuwine
Stickwitu- Pussycat Dolls
the best. :))
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i have a small thingy and i was wondering if girls even care (link)
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If the girl really likes you, she won't care. If you piss her off enough, she can use it against you though, but those are only the extreme bitches =]
As long as you can pleasure yo girll, it should all be good ;D bahhahahaa!
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my boyfriend and i were thinking that we should have a song that's "our song". i've been thinking about what it could be, but i keep drawing a blank. do you have any suggestions? it should be a love song and it would be nice if it's r&b. if you think a song could be a song to remind us about each other, i would love it.
thanks. (link)
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An AMAZING R&B song:
Differences-Ginuwine.
It's one of my favorites :)
Others:
Stickwitu- Pussycat Dolls
Here In Your Arms- Hellogoodbye
Only Hope- Mandy Moore
Love- Nat King Cole
My Boo- Usher ft. Alicia Keys
Thoughts Of You- BarlowGirl
Dont Matter- Akon
Walk Through Hell- Say Anything
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How do I stop my friend from having sex with the same guy over and over? (link)
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You need to be more specific about the situation. Like, is the guy bad? Or are you just worried about her getting pregnant, STDs, etc?
Either way, just talk to her and tell her how you feel. If you've already talked to her about it before or if she doesn't listen, you might as well stop trying to convince her. Because it is her body and her decisions, and her sexual life is actually nothing you should be poking your nose in. You can't really do anything about it =/ Sorry, you'll eventually have to respect her decision. But if she's a real friend, she should be more then glad to listen to you.
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