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My friend is screwing up.
How do I stop my friend from having sex with the same guy over and over?
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whats wrong with it if she loves him let her but if you want her or him to stop tell her why exactly but really its hard to stop them from doing what they want.
AgonyK
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Well sweetie, hate to break it to ya, but you can't control what your friend does. And think of it this way. She is only have sex with one guy alot of times. It's not like she goes around having sex with every guy once. So the only thing you could do is just tell her how you feel and if she accepts it, then good goal accomplished! But if she doesn't just ignore it and move on. it'll pass.
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You can't stop her from doing what she wants to do. Just let her know how you feel, and tell her of the risks. If you think about it, it's better her having sex with the same guy over and over, than her having sex with twenty different guys. Tell her that you're worried about pregnancy and if the guys even clean. Tell her that you want her to be careful and you're just watching out for her. You can't control her life, all you can do is show that you care and hope that she listens to your advice. <3
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In short....you can't.
I know that it is hard to watch someone you care about make mistakes, and even harder to watch them make the same ones over and over again, but sometimes you just need to sit back and let your friends make their own mistakes, and learn their own lessons. It's tough, but when its all over resist the urge to say "I told you so!" and be there for her when she needs you the most.
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Well, having sex with the same guy over and over is by far better than having sex with several different guys.
Be sure that she knows the risks, and that is all you can do.
You can't stop her- it is her life to live. Just because you don't like her doing it, doesn't mean she doesn't. There is nothing you can do about it but accept it.
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You need to be more specific about the situation. Like, is the guy bad? Or are you just worried about her getting pregnant, STDs, etc?
Either way, just talk to her and tell her how you feel. If you've already talked to her about it before or if she doesn't listen, you might as well stop trying to convince her. Because it is her body and her decisions, and her sexual life is actually nothing you should be poking your nose in. You can't really do anything about it =/ Sorry, you'll eventually have to respect her decision. But if she's a real friend, she should be more then glad to listen to you.
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um i don't really get this question but ok you should talk to her about it just think of it this way would you rather her have sex with a bunch of different guys
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If you have already talked to her about it,then just let it happen. There is not much you can do about it.You may not like it,but it is her choice. You cannot control her and she will do it behind your back even if she says she'll stop.
So the best you can do is just be there for here. When it all goes wrong just be there for her,letting her cry on your shoulder. It's kind of a silent, "I told you so."
~Hitsugaya~
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well if you dont like your friend havin sex then telll her how it makes you feel. like what could happen if she has sex. or if she got caught. stuff liek that.
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tell her that he had sex with you.
however, you will lose your friend and probably get beat up..
you can also say he has syphilis.
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well you cant stop her from doing it,
but you can show her some of the risks of having sex, like getting an std. aids. or getting pregnant. dont seem too pushy tho, if she wants to have sex, shes gonna have it, no matter what you say.
i would maybe say..
"im really worried about you, and i think your making a mistake, do you realise what could happen to you from having sex?"
im sure you already know this already, but try avoiding words like hoe, whore, or slut. they'll just make her mad and then she'll totally ignore your advice.
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