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Drinking problem
ok so last night was the first time i drank w/ my friends and we did a few shots. But nothing happen and we didnt get drunk or n e thing but then my other friend found out and got really mad...what should i do?
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This happened to two of my friends too. My friend got drunk for the first time, and her friend was so mad at her. Also, my other friend started to hook up with some guys, not even like she was a slut, and her friend never made out with a guy and she always got so mad at her. I personally think it's kind of stupid. It is good that she's looking after you .. but she can't control your life. If you weren't drinking to the point where you were absolutely hammered and having sex with 5 different guys in the same night, she shouldn't be mad. You were experimenting, and it's absolutely normal as a teen. She probably just feels you did something that she never thought would happen, and she's still clinging on to her childhood, and it's FINE. Just let her cool off, and she'll get over it. You can't really even say anything either. She'll just have to cool off on her own.
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just tell your friend that you were only trying it and that you didnt get drunk. you are growing up and a lot of teens your age drink so its no different if you do. why dont you ask your friend axactly why she got mad and find out the reason and then you can sort it out with her...
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Well, first of all, I'm hoping you're at least older than 13. >_< Sorry, but when KIDS start doing that shit.. No, just no.
There are two sides to this. One, you're growing up. No matter if you're not the actual legal age limit to drink, you're going to do it anyways. That's how teenagers are. Oh well, it's life and curiousity. And your friend's has to realize that it's your life and your decisions and if YOU really want to do it, she can't stop you. At the same time, listen to her. Maybe she just doesn't want you turning into some party-animal-all-the-time-alchoholic and is just trying to protect you. At the same time, she shoulnd't have gotten angry O_o It's ok for her to try to tell you how she feels about it, but it's still YOUR LIFE.
There's nothing you can do but talk to her and when she tells you how she feels about the drinking, you can tell her how you feel about it too. I mean, it just sounds like you and friends having stupid fun. Big deal. Now, if you got wasted and had a 1-night-stand.. that's more of a concern.
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... Well first think, why is your friend mad? If he/she doesn't have a good reason, tell he/she to get over it. Because you are your own person, you can do what you wan't to. As long as you didn't get drunk and do stupid things, its okay I think. Explain to your friend, that it was innocent. Enough said.
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just promise not to do it again tell them that it was a one time thing and mean it-well anyways if your underage and you dont get drunk you're just killing you brain cell
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