i give up... you ppl asking quesitons.... its stupid... yur questions r so simple.... and just not needed... sex.... does she/he like me?.... shold i do this?.... its up to you! its yur life! live it and make up yur mind, u sholdn't have others living it for you... i dont think i'll back back soon... not at least to answer a question.....
To see you when I wake up
Is a gift I didn't think could be real.
To know that you feel the same as I do
Is a three-fold, Utopian dream.
You do something to me that I can't explain.
So would I be out of line if I said,
"I miss you"?
I see your picture,
I smell your skin on
The empty pillow next to mine.
You have only been gone ten days,
But already I'm wasting away.
I know I'll see you again
Whether far or soon.
But I need you to know that I care,
And I miss you.
i miss you shelby..... i made that last one for you.... i wanna come back..... cherish the times we had cause you neva no if we'll be lucky enough to re-live them.... i love you.....
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well there is this girl that ive liked for a while and she told me at the beginning that she liked me and we flirt alot but now she is starting to like some 1 else and she told me that she likes me a little so what should i do? (link)
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u shold take advantage of the fact she still likes you. if you think she still likes you enough for you to go out wit her. ask her out ASAP. if not, just try to be really good friends and maybe if she breaks up wit the guy she likes you can go out wit her then. hope i helped
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About a year ago, my nephew started to steal things. He stopped doing it after he stole a hundred dollar bill from my brother-in-law. We called a police man in to ... "threaten" him. His real mother is an ex-convict, and she called him around easter. All of the sudden, he is theiving again. We think she triggered his rebellious side. I think that he thinks he'll impress his mother by acting like her. She says she's coming over this summer, and our family is worried. My family is baffled on what we should do now. We've grounded him to his room yet somehow, he manages to still theive. We know it's him, because we've caught him in the act several times. We're sending him to church now, to see if it will shape him up a bit. But he's taking it as a punishment.If we don't do something soon I'm afraid that he'll turn out like his mom. And that's nothing an aunt wants for her nephew. I need help, I don't want him to end up in jail by the time he's eighteen. (link)
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well if he's that old and steals, i think punishment is the only thing you can do to straighten him up. you need to be very strit and you need strong punishments. if he ever asks why, yell him oyu love him and care. i also think the reason this happens is because of his mom and her influence. it's also 'in her blood or personality' to steal or wateva she did. so it might have naturally gone to him. if you cant stop him, tell his mom. i hope everythin goes well.
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Why do guys get angry when you have only been dating two months and they tell you they love, but if you don't feel comfortable saying it back they all the sudden don't love you? Especially the only reason you don't want to say it is because that is when people start getting hurt! (link)
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i'm a guy, and i've neva had this happen to me b4 but i think it's cause the guy might feel offened or he only likes you cause you hott. sumthin like that. and i dont no if it would help but you might wanna tell him y you said you dont truely love him. hope it works out!
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Ok so there's these to guys i like but the thing is they're brothers. The other day i kissed one and he told his bro so now his bro feels differently about me. And i hate it if i would have known they would have done this to me i woudlnt have kissed him. But then they r going to tell this kid at their skool that likes me and he might get mad at me. I dont want anyone to be mad at me. Plus it was just a goodbye kiss nothing special. I dont know what to do! (link)
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well you can tell them the fact that it was a goodbye kiss. second, if you like 2 guys, even if they bros, yur gonna have to pick one, even if its not the one you kissed. now if you want this to all 'go away' i guess yur gonna have to tell them that you like them so they dont feel so bad and that the kiss was nothin special. if they like you at all they should undastand. and usually these kinda things are forgotten realitively quickly as people get bored wit it. hope it all works out
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well, there is this guy at school and he is really nice and such and i like him but i dont know if he likes me. sometimes when we are talkin he will just randomly sign off or if i say hi then he signs off...but other times he says hi to me and makes jokes about stuff and acts really nice. i dont get it and i dont know if he likes me or not. should i ask him or not? please help! (link)
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well the whole randomly signing off thing gives it away. he likes you more or less like a friend. i dont think he likes you. so i guessin you sholdn't ask him out. at least not until you become betta friends. i hope it all works out
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ok well theres this kid whos graduating supposeably this year and well i reaally like him like love him and well im not aloud to date him because well lets say the my dad is presidist and well the worat part is that hes a ladys man and he flirts but i dont know if he likes me so what should i do because im thise people who are afraid to get hurt but no matter how hard i deny im afrisd that hell have my heart when he leaves and it kills me so go against my family or what plus my brother are the same way and they both go to the same school helppppppppppppppppppppppp (link)
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well yur parents cant stop you from lovin him. so make the last free times you gots wit him and make them the best! even if you not sure he likes you, find out! and since yur bros goin to the same skoo as he is, you can get to see him and have like mini reunions. of course it will hurt to leave him, but think how lucky you is to beable to see him at afta he leaves cause i moved ova de ocean and i cant see da girl i love and its da worst pain i've eva felt. so i say make the most of yur time left. hope i helped
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Hi,
I'm a kind of story-editor online. People write stories, look through an 'editor directiory', a site I'm part of, and choose the editor best suited to their story. If I'm chosen, they email me and I will work on this story. The thing is, this is a very full-time job and I'm editing for around 7 people at a time, constantly. They usually have anything up to 50 chapters, at an average length of 3000 words per chapter. I can't do this much work, especially with exams coming up...plus I spend all my free time on Advicenators now. I want to quit my editing because it's just not fun for me any more and it's too much work, but I dunno....I feel like I'll have failed if I quit. And I also feel like quitting that is a step towards quitting other things, like this website. I'm scared that if I let myself quit one thing, I'll end up eventually getting bored of this place and quitting here too, and I really don't want to do that. What do I do?
Plus, how do I tell the owner of the editor directory that I want to quit? She's become a great friend of mine and I don't want to disappoint her. If anyone can think of any good excuses, or a better way to phrase mine...please give them.
Thanks! xxx (link)
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well first, if you dont like the job, than quit. it usually means its not yur true calling and that yur dream job is out there. and chances are that just cause you quit that doesnt mean you all of a sudden gonna wanna quit adivenators. if you like it here u'll stay here, and if you dont like it here lata fo sum reason, you can leave here too, even if you dont want to now. nobody can predict the futa, and opinions of things will change. so dont be afraid to quit. now when it comes to you tellin yur boss. tell her that you dont think that being and editor is yur true calling and that its begining to inturupt yur studies. and since she seems like a good friend, she should undastand. hope it all goes well
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my mother and father have band me from talking to a guy i really like and he likes me. and i dont see why because my sisters have been making up all of this crap. and thats why i cant see him anymore and i got to go to this place last weekend and slow dance with him and i really want to go out with him but im not even allwoed to talk to him on the phone. amd my x boyfriend is his cousin and he still likes me so he is makeing up all of this crap to please help me
love x0x0 confused p.s i have tryed to talk with them about it but it didnt work
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find out why those people makin crap up and wat they sayin. try to prove that you never did ne of those things. you're gonna have to talk to yr parents again... you gotta ask them why you not aloud to go out wit him and tell them that his cousin is yur X so that way they can understand why he sayin those lies. hope i helped
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Hi. I always think it's important for me to look prettier and do better than all women I know. Whether they are in my family or not. It's not so much friends, but especially people I hate. Is this normal? What should I do to ween myself off of acting this way?
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that is very normal. this happens naturally and can be a very good thing now and lata in life. if you dont wanna be like this, yur gonna have to work to stop doin betta than others. like letting them 'win' or do betta sumtimes. ova time you will fit into letting the women around to have sum of the joys of winning. hope i helped
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Theres this guy that I have been friends with forever and he has always liked me. The other night we were in his room and we kissed but it was just a peck. I didn't even like him and now after that I am starting to like him. Theres only one problem. He's a really mature and great guy and hes my type exactly and I think he'd make a terrific boyfriend except for my mom thinks hes too young for me. I'm 14 and he's 12. I promise you, I think he's more mature than me, hes definatly more experienced he already lost his virginity. I'd have to keep this relationship from my parents. I really want to date him because personality wise, he's great. Looks wise, he needs to have a growth spurt. He will soon. Should I wait a few years till he does? And then my parents might let me, or should I sneak it and date him now and take the risk of humiliation? I really am liking him and I don't want to wait! But I think it might be best...I need opinions!
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i think you shold date him cause if you dont you might miss out and then regret it foreva. and he's most likely gonna have his sprut very soon. so go out wit him, but keep it on the down low so you dont get caught.
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ok.. so my mom got a boyfriend and shes 48 hes 38 and i am 15 he also has a son who is 7 years old.
well my mom was a single mom ever since i was 3 and as a couple of boyfriends all that she has broken up with .
She basically raised me to hate guys .. i guess
so now that she has a new boyfriend they are all touchy and feely and its is doo discusting. i mean they like do it right infront of me .. i mean i guess they think i should be used to if because im 15..
Or sometimes she will stay out till like in the morning .
I dont knowif this is a question more like i need advice cause im just so fustrated..
ill rate
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ok, first i'm a guy if that matters, but i think its cause yur not used to seein yur mom like this. so its a new experience kinda thing. i personally think it will stop seeming so horrible. idk but i think ur just gonna have to be patient.
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Hey I need some help.. I am getting sent away soon and I am like in love with my boyfriend.. he is in a boys homeand I'm afraid I am never gonna get to see him again. I am afraid to tell him how I feel.. then there is this new girl coming to our school and she wants to hook up with him and he likes her too... i dont want to leave.. because I don't want to lose him.. please help.. i dont want to lose my baby boi (link)
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well you cant stop the moving or the fact that yur that he likes her. but you can make the most of yur last days there. make the last of yur days wit him the best. and all you can do is try yur hardest to keep in touch ova the internet. i srry bout all this
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15/f-i've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we were best friends for nearly a year prior to ever dating, we're very serious about each other and he means a lot to me. lately however, i've been thinking about other guys, such as two of my best friends, who i had crushes on in the past, i know that i care about my current boyfriend more than them, and that i don't want to give up what i have with him, but that doesn't stop me from wondering about these other guys that i wanted a relationship with at one time. What should i do? thanks! (link)
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well if u love yur bf. stay wit him. its not bad to like or admire others a little while wit sumone. its perfectly normal. and besides, if you go out wit neone else, u will ruin yur current relationship and if the new one doesn't work yur all alone. so just stay wit yur bf and dont risk it. hope my opinion is of use
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i went to the beach last weekend and got VERY sunburned. my right leg and foot are swollen and hurt very badly, and i have to drive for 2 hours tomorrow. Any way to take down the swelling from my burn on saturday, or to help the burn heal faster? (i've already used aloe multiple times) thanks! (link)
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you put tons and tons of ice on it. nothing warm or nething else like aloe. it wont help. ice is the only way to go for that.
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ok i hate showering and bathing, cd players never help, rubberdickies annoy the living hell out of me and scents give me headaches? i never feel good in the bath/shower, please help me! (link)
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use sentless soap and shampoo. and only clear warm water...
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I think there should be a requirement on this website saying "PEOPLE SHOULD BE FAMILIAR WITH A TOPIC BEFORE SUBMITTING THEIR PERSONAL OPINIONS". Frankly, I feel this is a helpful and useful site. But far to often, people are excercising their "freedom of speech" rights, and disguising their opinions as bonifide advice.
What set me off was a question asked by a friend of a gay male teen. A large majority of the answers were hateful diatribes delivered by self-righteous homophobes. From the advice you would of thought that her friend had leaprosy. Life is too short to HATE.
I had a good friend in high school that was the son of a youth pastor. The son, my friend, was gay. He chose to kill himself rather than live a life hating himself because he was gay. I did not know he was gay until after he died. I have so many woulda-coulda-shoulda's. Much of my advice on this website is given to those that are gay or know someone who is gay. To me, this is common sense. How can someone who is not gay, does not associate with anyone who is gay, has never associated with anyone who is gay, HOW CAN THEY give advice on a subject dealing with being GAY. I cannot give advice to someone about what it is like to give birth to a baby!! I cannot even attempt anything as such for I do not understand what mothers go through. Its silly. Now imagine if I was trained by others to believe that giving birth to a baby is disgusting and I hated mothers. This analogy is outlandish, but this is how I feel about the "advice" many people give.
Now throughout this "STATEMENT" I do have a question. What do you think? Help me to understand. Am I judging the judgemental, making me just as bad? Or do I have a point? This is the one time that I'd like to hear the opinions. (link)
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i'm a guy, 14 m, and i no one gay that i hardly talk to cause i moved and stuff, but the thing is even tho i'm a young man and dont exacty have much interaction, as in talking, to gays, or girls on there periods, and other kids and there problems. like i no a lot bout how stuff works in people and i no wat to say and wat to do. but personally, i've had no true experience in those kind of situations or problems. i might in sum, but i use my current knowledge to answer the needs of those who need help. of course i'm against the idea of bein mean to people fo there sexuality and disabled and stuff. im not against wat you sayin but i do agree wit sum of yur ideas. a lot of the ppl here are just tryin to make fun of the people askin questions, serious or not. if you look threw my column you see that i'm knowledge able in many many areas, even tho i havent exprieneced them all. i hope you understood my view, cause i todally undastand yours.
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Im 17 and i know ill be losing my virginity this summer. But apart of me still thinks HE is too good for me. And that im not that beautiful and skinny enough to have sex. Has anyone ever felt this way? How should i get over these feelings? (link)
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think of it this way. even tho you personaly dont think your drop dead gorgeous. it doesn't mean he thinks that. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. so let your bf think of how you look and oyu think how you look. so dont worry about how you look cause your bf obviously loves you enough already and your body sholdn't change a thing. hope i helped.
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hey i wanna do special things for my boyfriend to show him i care , ne suggestions? (link)
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well think of all the things he likes. and look threw them all and chose the one that would be most effective yet possible. like, for example, i personaly just love spendin time wit my gf. so take him on like a day on the town or at the mall and you two buy stuff for eachother. if theirs sumthin he's always wanted, thats budget, see if you can get it for him. usually if you ask him he might get the idea of you gettin it, but still, its the thought that counts. even tho i like the idea of a day on the town, i think that givin sumthin hes always wanted would show him he cares. hope i helped ya
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What do I do when I am trying to get over a guy that I am not sure ever loved me but dated another girl across the country while dating me and I try to ignore and try to not show that I still have feelings for him but I know I still do and he has been in all my dreams lately? What does it mean? How could I get him back and keep him from lieing and cheating on me if I did want him? Do my dreams mean anything?
(I am 13 female)
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you still love him and miss him. or at least like him. and dreams, dreams are at complete random based around your mental thoughts. so that means you've been thinkin about him, a lot. and the thing is, if he would rather go out wit a girl across the country instead of you, i dont think it would be worth it to rebuild that relationship. hope i helped
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My best friend and I got in fight like a month ago and it awas the stupidest fight ever I cant even remember what it was... well we kinda lost communication cause she just started ignoring me(and what sucks is we hang out with the same ppl so I will be standing next to her but we wont talk) and then like last week i was aim and we started apoligizing and got everything worked out... but at school its like we still arent friends cause i will be standing right next to her and we wont say one word... it feels really awkard... but i miss her so much and I dont know what to do I mean Ive told her how much I miss talking to her... I feel like Ive been replaced... I just want my best friend back and I dont know how to do it? I have cried so much just because of the fact that i cant talk to her and tell her everything anymore... it hurts me so much at school to be standing next to her and not talk... i cant really tell anyone how im feeling cause I just want to cry... I am trying to make my self realize that were just not bestfriends anymore but its way too hard... i need advice do I need to make myself realize were just not the same or do i gotta do something and get My BF back and if so HOW???
PLEASE HELP!!!
SIGNED:I WANT MY BF BACK! (link)
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it seems that over the the month you two seperated, a lot. and if you want her back as a best friend, both of you need to make an effort of talkin to eachotha. ifyou dont want her as a friend ne more, i say you need to find a new best friend and just spend all yo time wit them. you'll slowly forget yur otha friend and it wont seem like you missed her so muhc. hope i helped.
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