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Q: me and my boyfriend just started dating like a week ago and he calls me everynight and i dont know what to talk about anymore...any ideas?

Talk to him about things he likes, such as sports. Or try to ask him questions, get to know him better. And lastly you can try to do fun things together where you don't really get personal.

Q: i need ome really good kinky sex ideas. Any ides would help. Thanks:-)

There are a lot of ideas, like for one you can role play, if your a girl, dress up in something sexy like a dirty cop, or a love doctor,stuff like that. Stuff that will turn him on. You can tie him to the bed, and use a crop to spank him. Ice is always kinky in a pinch. Hope this Helped

Q: I need to ask, is the world going to end in 2012?

The Earth is not going to end in 2012, but scientific studies have said that the only way the world can end, is when the sun explodes. Which is about 5 billon years from now. The reason for this is because the sun will have to much hydrogen fuel, that in that due time, the core of the sun will not be able to hold it's weight, this means it will collapse and will expand. Since I didn't believe at first, i went online and did some research, it's 100% true.

Q: Why does my boyfriend not want to kiss me?

Well if he is at a young age, maybe he is shy, and afraid he might not do correctly. Or maybe it has something to do with you, like you might have bad breath when you want to kiss, or maybe you pick the wrong times to wan to kiss him. Or he might be one of those guys who don't like to kiss in public. But, the top answer is probably because he is afraid he might not do correctly.

Q: if i went to a girl wat shud i bring her plzz i need to no

If you mean gift wise, It all depends on the type of girl. But, something that probably works for every girl is getting a dozen of her favorite flowers, a necklace with a matching ring, or something more simple like a romantic poem about her. Or just a poem about her. Hope this Helped :)

Q: how old do you need to be to get a tragus piercing and a cartdialge piercing? ps dont tell me to google it just tell me. thanks

To get a piercing without parental consent, it depends on state and the piercer, most piercing people won't pierce you unless your of age, but where I live you can be 16 and not have parental consent to get a piercing. So it varies.

Q: Okay I'm 15/F and am an inspiring writer. I have wanted to become a writer since I was 11. I have writen several stories so far and have a few questions on publishing and stuff.

1. How old do you have to be to publish something?

2. Where can I find a publisher willing publish a book from me? I specialize in horror romance and fantasy so if you have a name of a place. I live in Alberta canada so.

3. Is an editor the same as a publisher?

4. Is there anything else pI really need to know about being a writer? Any advice from writers or publishers is helpful thank you!!!

1.You can be any age to publish a book.

2. You may want to find yourself a literary agent. It's easier, then finding a publisher yourself.

3. No, a editor deals with the content, and the publisher deals with the printing and financing.

4. Some advice is start young, begin taking classes in high school, then make journalism your major in college. And finally, don't get to stressed, because then you lose focus.

Q: I need help on getting ideas for a young girl I am baby sitting. She is 5 years old, very energetic, and loves the outdoors. So when it rains it's hard for me to find something to do with her. And that's my problem, I need your help getting ideas, on what activities we can do indoors, inside of outdoors. I would like to keep my JOB, NEED HELPPPP

Well, since you say she is energetic, bring the fun indoors. Like, get a coloring book, with pictures of bugs,flowers, etc. Stuff that reminds her of the outdoors. Another thing is playing twister it might not remind her of the outdoors but she will have a lot of fun with the colors :) Lastly you can try playing computer games such as barbie or other games that she finds to enjoy. Hope this Helped

~~~EunicE

Q: So im 14, 5' 3, 98 lbs and i have never had a period. I have been masterbating since i was about 7 would this interfere? Is there any way to speed up getting my first period? I have had discharge for about 2 years and am an A bra. Am i close? I also found some blood about 6 months ago am i normal is something wrong?

The reason why you have probably not gotten your period is because you are underweight for your height. To speed up the process you may need to gain weight. To be 5'3 your normal weight should be 113. And because you have masterbated at a young age, that could be a problem. So my advice is stop masterbating, until you get your period. P.S it's normal for girls to get their periods at an older age.

Q: Well today my school went on a field trip and well like first off it was 6th 7th and 8th went and im in 8th but the bus was full so we had to go on the 7th grade one, and well on the way back I had to pee really bad and we were and hour and a half away from home. I got so sick because I had to go so bad, I finally had to get my friend get a treacher to ask if the bus could stop and i could use the bathroom, and my friend had to go and ask because I couldnt get up it hurt so bad. Well the bus pulled over at a gas station to let me pee and it was really embarrasing because when I got off the bus to go, this loud mouth girl heard my friend tell her and screamed to the whole bus that I had to go pee. I was so embarrased mainly because the guy I like was on that bus and he likes me too. Do you think me having to do that is embarrasing because i'm so embarrased! and my friend said when I was gone the boy i liked said I hope shes ok and then tried to look for me. I hope she wss telling the truth I asked five times lol (because I was so embarrased) but do you think he still likes me. Because Im so embarrased and people were laughing. Please help thanks(: P.S. my mom said its nothing to be embarrased about and that I couldn't help it.

I know how you feel, I have been there, trust me if he went out asking if you were okay, then he still likes you. And all those assholes who were laughing at you, fart, poop, and pee, so there's nothing to be embarrassed about because what goes around comes around, and they will get their KARMA on day. :) Hope this Helped

Q: I was thinking a road trip to a beach hotel, which is like 3 or 4 hours away....

I guess I can try a 3 night travel, since this will be my first trip alone...I will feel very awckward but I need to overcome this.........

What do you think? traveling 3 or 2 nights then spending the rest at home relaxing?

Thank you for your amazing advice

I think that the 2 night sounds perfect, since this is your first time traveling alone, wish I could take a vacation. LOL But remember over the months or years try to extend your vacation time, so you don't feel as afraid :) Hope this Helped

Q: How do i get this photoshop light effect? Is it a brush? If so, does anyone know where I can download it?
I have Photoshop CS5

http://tinypic.com/r/28ur6fm/7

Thank you! :)

It's really easy to get your answer, since some people here don't know how to deal with photoshop. All you had to do was go on yahooanswers.com, enter your question, and you could've gotten your answer in a hour or 2.

Q: My best friend and i have known eachother for 3 years now. Weve fooled around alot but have not had sex. every time i mention being in a relationship he freaks out. ive had boyfriends since ive been best friends with him. but my heart is definitely with him. he truely is my best friend, we tell eachother everything and do everything together. and we are sexual. so isnt that a relationship? i dont understand why he doesnt want the title. he isnt involved with any other girls and hasnt been since ive known him. thats 3 years that im the only girl hes even kissed or gone out with. i guess i dont have a specific question. i just dont know what to do. my heart is breaking because i cant have him as more than best friends/ friends with benefits.

Think of it this way, you two are best friends, if you two were to become something more than that, and break up it wouldn't be the same for you both, it can ruin your friendship, and I assume you don't want that. Maybe that's why he freaks out. For example, if you watch the Jersey Shore, Vinny and Snooki were friends with benefits, and then Snooki started to develop feelings for Vinny. And their friendship has not been the same since then. But if you want him really bad, you can give signals or hints that you want to have sex with him, and if he freaks out then you know that he doesn't want to lose you as a friend. :) Hope this helped.

Q: I rarely take vacation time off, because I feel like it's going to the waste :( Finally, I feel overwhelmed and decided to take a week off. Now, nobody can travel with me anywhere, and I feel like if to not take that time off afterall.

My question is, should I just get over my fear and travel alone? if so, where?

Or should I just work and wait until a vacation opportunity arises?

HELP, I'm sooo confused and feel bad that I can't enjoy life and travel cause I ain't got anyone to do it with :(

Don't let your fears take over your life, be bold and travel alone. Since this is probably your first time traveling, you don't want to go anywhere to far like Jamaica and tropical islands. You can have a road trip to the states. But if you want some serious time off you can go to Mexico, it's not to far and you can get there by plane easily. Just have a pocket translator just in case.

Q: My dreams aren't literally happening, but it's weird.
One night, I had a dream that I was mowing the lawn. The next day my mom said "why don't you mow the lawn?"
Another night, I dreamt that I saw someone I knew in the park downtown. I NEVER go downtown. The next day my dad called (I NEVER talk to him) and asked if I wanted to see music in the park downtown.
Now I'm scared. I keep having awful dreams about my cat being sick and/or dying. After I had one of those dreams, the next day my cat was sneezing ALL DAY LONG. I'm talking 2-6 sneezes at a time, at least 20 times that day.
When I was younger, like three or four years ago, I had a dream that my mom fell down when I was walking with her. Then a few days later we were walking into church and she fell on the sidewalk and needed stitches. She didn't trip over her shoelaces or a curb, she just fell.
I'm only 15, and I'm a female. I don't know how that would make a difference, but if that helps anybody then that's good.
I told my mom about all my dreams and she told me "ohhh you're a prophet." But I don't know what to think.

Well you truly are a gift from God, to be lucky enough to know what happens the next day from your dreams is extra special. So take that to your advantage, instead of thinking that your weird, make your ability your strength. You said you had a dream that your cat was going to die, you can change that so see what's wrong with him. And maybe that's God telling you that you were put on this Earth to help others or your family with your dreams. P.S this isn't normal for female/male teens or adults to have dreams and know what happens next.

Q: Does anyone have any really Unique sweet 16 ideas? My birthday is early December and my ideas so far are Winter Wonderland *which another girl is doing so thats sort of out..but i kind of still really want to do it.) Candy Land themed, under the sea, marti gras, under the stars, or Royalty. But if anyone has anything else with examples of decorations please help me! Thankyou so much!

It looks like you want something original, fresh, and new. What better way to show that creativity by having a Hollywood themed party. For example, when making your entrance it can be dramatic enough that all eyes will be on you. You can have photographers as "paparazzi", and have a red carpet, so when you walk down it, you will be glamorous. But if you really want an uncommon theme do a carnival theme, since your birthday is in December people will be expecting Winter WOnderland, and stuff like that, so why not do a carnival theme, have fortune tellers, colors that pop such as orange, hot pink, etc. If doing a carnival theme think about what you would want to have fun doing, I mean people will probably get tried dancing the whole night, so have games, and let them win prizes. I bet you would be the party of the year :)

Q: Hi im 14 years old and i need help I'm curently dating my boyfriend and we've been going out for 3 weeks now, and i care about him a lot. and just 2 days ago when i was at my younger brothers baseball practice i was watching my 2 youngers sibs and 2 other kids that were friends with, and I turned around and i saw my ex-boyfriend walking to another basball field. I kind of just looked at him and he looked at me, we didnt smile at eachother or anything b'cuz we broke up a month ago. but after i keep running into him my stomach drops and my heart starts racing. What does that mean? and i do love my BF but i also think about my ex-BF help please.

Don't you think that your current boyfriend is the rebound? I mean if you got out of a relationship a month ago, and started dating your current boyfriend, for about 3 weeks, it looks like you rushed into another relationship, so it's normal to still have feelings for your ex. When it comes down to it, it looks like you love both of them, maybe in different ways.

Q: Hi there! So I just got my braces removed last Saturday, so now I'm wearing retainers.

Wearing them really makes it hard to talk so I tried to do my research online and a lot of websites said that I'll eventually get used to it and it'll go away after 2-3 days.

It's already Thursday and I still have the retainer lisp. As much as possible, I still talk to people, even though my friends keep making fun of me. I only remove my retainers during meals though.

Is it because I'm not talking enough?-___- I even tried reading a book aloud when I first got my retainers.

Any ideas? I'd like to quit being made fun of now.

Mila, 17/F

To get rid of your retainer lisp faster one trick that worked for my cousin will probably work for you to, I told her to read a little passage called the "Rainbow Passage". And she repeated it quite a few times, and as she got used to it, it went away. Tell me if it Works for you :)

Q: Hi im 14/f going to be 15 in 3 months and its going to be my golden b day too. I have a question. Im currently dating by boyfriend right now and i do love him, but two days ago i saw my ex and walked passed by me and everytime i would walk some were he would star at me. and we broke up a month ago but everytime i see his picture or see his name somewere my stomach drops and my heart starts racing what does that mean?? and my boyfriend now all he wants to do is get me things i mean it was nice the first week we were dating by now im starting to get sick of it. but what should i do about my current bf and my ex??? Please help me!

It's seems like your boyfriend is wanting to buy your love or maybe trying to show to much affection. If this is bothering you, you can always talk to him, and tell him in a nice way that the gifts are fine, but he doesn't have to always do that. Now your ex, you might be feeling this way because your thinking about how your boyfriend is annoying you, and probably miss your ex and the good times you spent together. Another reason you might be feeling that way is because you have your ex on your mind, the less you think about him the more you will not have those feelings. And Lastly since you say he is always staring at you then you like that attention from your ex, and in your subconscious mind you probably want your ex back. So tell your boyfriend to lay off the gifts, and if he doesn't then you can always go to your ex. But it's good to be single, so you have more time for fun and friends, it works with ME :) :)

Q: Well, Im female. 13. And slightly over weight. I only have a little extra fat on my thighs and stomach. But i have /major/ stretch marks on my thighs. I don't have alot of elasticity in my skin. How can i get rid of them?

One thing you can try is toning your body with Winsor pilates, but if you want to get rid of your stretch marks for good, you can use celtrixa, which is a cream for reduction of stretch marks for the body, this cream is mostly used after pregnancy, but It can work on your stretch marks too. If you do these to things, then they should be gone. Hope this Helped :)

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My name is Eunice and I made this advice column to help others with the issues, problems, etc. No matter what your problem is, I'm pretty sure I can answer it. This Advice Column is not about Me it's About how I can help you. :) :)