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Im in love with my best friend. :(
My best friend and i have known eachother for 3 years now. Weve fooled around alot but have not had sex. every time i mention being in a relationship he freaks out. ive had boyfriends since ive been best friends with him. but my heart is definitely with him. he truely is my best friend, we tell eachother everything and do everything together. and we are sexual. so isnt that a relationship? i dont understand why he doesnt want the title. he isnt involved with any other girls and hasnt been since ive known him. thats 3 years that im the only girl hes even kissed or gone out with. i guess i dont have a specific question. i just dont know what to do. my heart is breaking because i cant have him as more than best friends/ friends with benefits.
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there is no correct answer iT IS BEST TO SToP every thing that is beyond being "just friends " kissing,haveing sex ,etc. You are best friends you should talk about this more. But you want more to me he's just enjoying this and not lookin for anything more just leave him as a friend cut the benifits! I wish u well :))))))))))
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Think of it this way, you two are best friends, if you two were to become something more than that, and break up it wouldn't be the same for you both, it can ruin your friendship, and I assume you don't want that. Maybe that's why he freaks out. For example, if you watch the Jersey Shore, Vinny and Snooki were friends with benefits, and then Snooki started to develop feelings for Vinny. And their friendship has not been the same since then. But if you want him really bad, you can give signals or hints that you want to have sex with him, and if he freaks out then you know that he doesn't want to lose you as a friend. :) Hope this helped.
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