Hi there. I'm Emily Elizabeth and I'm 2O. I live in Idaho and work at a Cheese Factory. I've not had this much fun at work in a long time. I want to be either a Criminal Profiler or a Cop before I'm 25. I graduated in 2OO3 ('O3 REPRESENT!) In High School, I ran the Advice Colum and had a blast with it!!
I've been in about every situation imaginable and I'm still alive and kicking. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, it's just a matter of finding it before it's to late. I will answer any question about anything, so don't be afraid to ask.
I'm currently single and I'm OK with that. I don't like being tied down, but I do have 3 Mexican lovers (inside joke) I love all types of music and am a crazy person who will do anything to make you smile, including breaking my shoulder to help my friend get a date. She got a date and I spent Friday night in the ER, that's friendship, right there LOL. I've got brown & pink hair at the moment and 9 piercings (6 in my lobes, 1 cartlidge, right nostril and navel) I drive a 2OO5 Ford Focus (so that means, yes, I've got a kick ass car, but I just signed the next 6 years of my life over to Ford haha)
Have an STUNNiNG day!!
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Gender: Female
Location: Idaho
Occupation: McDonald's
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MSN: americanpie_20@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 29, 2004
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Last Update: December 26, 2004
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Im trying to find a site that has SCROLL BARS! That match my ADVICE COLUMN thingy its PINK! And i tryed every code to fit into my site. If you have a scroll bar thing in your Advice Column let me know. I need to find a WEBSITE :( Please help me... If you do ill give you ratings!!! and a great comments!!! and thank you soo much... (link)
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http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect#premadesbs
Good luck =)
Em
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Thanks for the advice Emily - I know what you're saying is right but I'm finding it hard to get out of this relationship. By the way, a CCJ in the UK stands for a County Court Judgement. It's basically a court order sent to someone who is in arrears i.e. may owe from a few hundred to a few thousand pounds to a lending company, catalogue etc. etc. Failure to attend or pay what is owed results in a black mark against that persons credit rating so they are unable to obtain credit easily in the future (5 years to be exact!).My boyfriend has a way of making me feel guilty if I leave him and it's wearing me down. I think the best thing for me to do is ignore his phone calls but even that's difficult because I miss not speaking to him. Anyway, I'll keep you posted with any other developments regarding him. (link)
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Hi hun. No problem, I'm glad I was able to help. I know what you mean about getting out of the relationship, like I told you, it took him stealing money from me to realize what a slime he was and even then it still took time. Thanks for telling me what a CCJ was, in America it's a stock trading company LOL. I'm hoping that your name isn't anywhere associated with his credit, since it sounds like his is less than perfect. I can't believe he makes you feel like that, not cool AT ALL!! You need to tell him exactally what you are feeling and thinking and if he is any sort of man at all, he will understand. I certainlly hope so. Do you have any other friends that you can talk to or go out with? That may help you take your mind off of him. For me, I found another guy friend to hang out with, it took away from my lonleyness. I know what you mean about speaking to him. One of the hardest things I did was deleating all of his emails/voice mails and taking down all of his pictures and gifts. Yes, please do keep me informed. If you'd like to chat, I can be found on AIM at: aflscrmommxpxgrl. Take care!!
Emily =)
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This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy
thanks! (link)
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Hey. I prefer Durex over Trjoan and I haven't used Lifestyles. Don't get the ribbed ones, they hurt like hell!! The ones with spermacide on them can really irriate also, so I'd reccomend the "ultra thin" ones, but deffiantly a lubed one, because the ones without it, hurt like hell as well. I think it's great that you are trying to prevent STD's and pregancy, so don't listen to the people who call you a whore. I get mine at Wal-Mart, they range anywhere from $2.OO on up. If you can't do that, try to find a Planned Parenthood in your area, they will give out free condoms and generally they will give out birth control based on an income. Good luck and have fun =)
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i have a really good guy friend and i waz wondering wat to get him for christmas. He likes skating and hackie sac. i'll rate! (link)
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Hey =)
Since he likes skating and he is a really good friend, I'd suggest something from Journeys, like DC shoes, but they are really expensive, so he'd have to be a really good friend LOL Or maybe a skating hoodie from Pac-Sun. Hot Topic is always a good choice also.
Good Luck!
Em
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You said something before about flavored lube, what kind is it and where do you get it? Can I get it online? (link)
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heehee. The kind I had was called "Doc Johnson." I think you can buy it online (try docjohnson.com or type it in Yahoo) It was ciniamon and it didn't taste like ciniamon to me haha. But, if you blow on it, it gets really warm, which is awesome! I also have some, can't remember what they are called, but they are Strawberry flavored and Coffee flavored, they smell SO good! Have fun!!
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Hi Emily! I went to Blurty and didn't find the icons.. how do I do it? (link)
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Whoops, sorry about that =) Go to the top of the page where it says "find user" and then type in a criteria. I normally do "Updated within the last 24 hours"
Em
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What program do you use to make your little collages on your picture page? Also, how do you make the stars appear when I leave your page? (link)
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Photoshop. I've got version 7.O, but I'd love to have 7.5 =) www.photoshop.com
Em
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Hi
I'm very confused about my boyfriend as he is causing chaos in my life and I'm not sure what to do. I've been going out with him for 3 years and the first year was great, although we both had partners when we got together. He has a history of cheating on his girlfriends and treating them badly but I was prepared to give him the benefit of the doubt as he treated me so well. He was sweet, funny, attentive but the more I got to know him I realised that he wasn't the same person I thought I knew. He was also an amphetamine addict who eventually gave up and then was diagnosed with depression.
When I moved in with him last year I found him to be lying constantly, playing mind games, criticising me, being moody, shouting and blaming me for things that go wrong in his life. He has called me names, told me lies that are so obvious yet protests he's telling the truth. I also suspected he was having an affair with a woman around the corner from us which all the evidence pointed to. At the same time he was Mr Charming to everyone else as he manipulated people into thinking that he was a victim, and seemed to have this double personality.
I became so miserable and insecure that I moved out and 55 miles away to live with my parents, which he didn't seem to be bothered about. However within a few days he was ringing me, cying that he couldn't live without me, so I agreed to see him at weekends to help him through his depression. I was seeing him every weekend since May this year but he has only visited me 3 time in all that time, making excuses that he has no money (more lies). Then he hires cars for the weekend occasionally out of spite to prove that he indeed has money but still pretends he can't afford it! When I'm there he acts aloof and doesn't appreciate how much effort and money I spend to see him and doesn't make me feel special or loved. Yet when I'm away and refuse to answer his telephone calls he bombards me with phone calls making false promises of moving to be with me. He goes out with his friends drinking but when I visit he never seems to have any money to do anything and constantly complains about how worse off he is. I feel like I'm going mad as he acts like a different person, depending who he is with at the time. He even lies about when he sees his family and withholds conversation from me about their lives so I never know what he really does from one day to the next except what he wants to tell me.
Recently he sold his house at auction and made £60,000 but has nowhere to live and claims that he sold the house for my benefit!! He says he still can't afford to see me. The only thing he is interested in is me buying a house with him, but I don't even feel like he is my boyfriend who loves me. He has a history of bad credit and a CCJ. Should I trust him or is he using me? Why does he play these mind games with me and expect me to see him with promises he never keeps? Should I just dump him?
Thanks
Nicky (link)
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Hi Nicky,
If it was me, I'd run, but I've been in a situation like that and it's not that easy... I had an ex much like yours, he lied, cheated and stole and is now in prison because of it. It took him taking advantage and robbing me to realize what kind of person he really was.
If you suspect he's having an affair, I'd question him & the woman and go from there. If you have even the slightest thought, then I'm sure something is up, intuition is always right. I know what you mean about benifit of the doubt, how it started out so perfect and now it's not. Imagine yourself in 5 years, with him. From the sounds of things now, I can't foresee a good future with him, espically is his credit is bad. I'm not sure what a CCJ is, but if it's associated with credit and is bad, then I'm sure you don't want to be with him. He says that he loves you, but how can he love you and treat you this way?
I think it was a good idea for you to move away from him. For as hard it is and will continue to be, you really should cut your losses with him. Please feel free to send me another message if you even want to talk. Hang in there and good luck.
Emily
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i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:
1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?! (link)
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Hi!
Lucky you, no school. heehee. If you guys are ready to do it and are certain, then go for it. Get out some candles (not to many though, you don't want to go overboard) and some pillows and a nice blanket and just enjoy yourselves. I'm guessing that it'll be the first time for both of you, because you said you're both ready to lose it. If that's the case, then it may end up hurting, but it's soo worth it in the long run!! It only hurts for a little while.
If you are worried about getting pregant then use condoms and spermicide if you want to. Condoms at least though. If you are on any kind of birth control, then the condoms can be used as a backup method. Just be careful when it comes to the condoms.
About not knowing what to do, just do what you feel is right at the time. It sounds funny, but trust me, it makes things so much better!! You'll both end up enjoying it so much more if you just do something and don't really put much thought into it.
If you are still bleeding a little bit, then deffenatly use condoms. About smelling, just make sure you take a nice long shower (not only will it relax you, but it'll make sure you're clean)
I hope this helped somewhat. Good luck! If you have any more questions, leave one in my inbox =)
Emily
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Me and my boyfriend are trying to get me pregnant but it seems to be not working. I just got out of collage and im living in an apartment with him and we have sex every other day .. it isnt working.. is there something I shouldnt be doing?
Thank you.
Victoria (link)
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Hi Victoria,
It maybe the every other day that's messing things up. Sometimes, it has to be everyday for it to work and even then, it's not guarenteed. I've noticed people who want to get pregant can't and those who don't want to, do. Crazy. I've read that one way to possiably help things is to have him be on top and after sex, arch your hips for about 15 minutes, it apparently makes it easier for sperm to find eggs. Also, there is a program FEMTA that you can use to help predict your ovulation & best days to have sex to get pregant. The link for that is... http://www.femta.com/ Good luck!!
Em =)
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how do you get rid of back cramps when your in your period??? (link)
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I use Advil and those air activated heat patches. They are the best things ever!! Either those, or the patches that are menthol, they numb your back. You can get them at Wal*Mart. Good luck!!
Emily =)
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what is a good black eyeliner? im useing mac right now and in school im in swim class and even when im not wet it seems 2 run down my face.. Does ne one know a good black eyeliner that does not run when i get wet or ne thing.. THANKS (link)
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Hey =) I personally use Mary Kay, it's a big pricey, but it's worth it and lasts forever. Good luck!!!
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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :) (link)
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Hi Hun =)
I didn't bleed my first time, but OMG, it hurt!! It is normal, not everyone bleeds, it depends on the person. As long as you enjoyed youself (pain aside of course) then you have nothing to worry about. Don't listen to the people who call you a slut, it's YOUR life, not theres! Have a good day!
Em =)
Me again =) Thanks for the comments in my feeback, it was sweet of you! Drop me a line in my inbox if you ever want to talk, I'm ALWAYS online LOL Have a good night =) And, just remember this... the more times, the easier & better it is ;)
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I just got my belly button pierced today and when i went to clean it out i was going to use safegaurd soap... but it was a deoderant soap to or something, and has a little scent, do you think that its going ot hurty my belly button n all because it has a scent?
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Hi =) Congrats on your piercing, my belly button is one of my favorites. What I did and would suggest is to use sea salt. I'm assuming you got it pierced at a professional place, so the piercer should of given you sea salt. However, if they didn't, never fear. Take 1/8 of a teaspoon to 8 oz. water and mix it up, put it on a cotton ball & soak it. That'll clean it and prevent it from getting infections. If you want to use the soap however, use Provon or Dial. Either will work just as well, I just prefer the sea salt because it's easier LOL. If you don't have sea salt (don't use normal table salt, it's to strong, you can get sea salt at Wal*Mart), then contact lense cleaner will work well also. Good luck & enjoy your piercing! If you have more questions, drop me a line in my inbox.
Em =D
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Im thinking about getting my labret pierced. My question is to all of you that has it pierced. Does it hurt? Is there any important vains in your lip to be worried about? Do you keep feeling? And are you happy about it now? (link)
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Hey =)
I don't have my labret pierced, but for as many others as I have, I've considered it. I asked my piercer about a side lip ring and he said that all lip percings are safe, just don't touch them and be sure to clean them properly. A friend of mine had his done and he liked it, but he said the little post was kind of annoying, so he changed it to a hoop. I guess that's a personal preference though. Good luck!
Em
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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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Hey =)
I was like you, you couldn't PAY me to do a blow job. However, my guy was really patient and nice about it and bought some of the flavored lube stuff and it made it SO much easier!! The going down on you part is awesome as well, just make sure to shower before, for obvious reasons LOL =)
If you guys have been together for that long (congrats also) then I don't forsee it as being a problem to do oral, espically since you've had sex already. Just do not do anything until you feel comfortable with it. The last thing you want to do it have oral sex and regret it.
Good luck!!
Em =)
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Hey does anyone wear the eyeliner by Jane? If so, does it work good? I bought it but havent tried it yet. Also, does anyone know good eyeliners that stay on for long periods of time? Oh and if you have any eyeliner tips can you please give me some!
_I love eyeliner!_:D! (link)
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I've worn Jane and didn't have a problem with it. I prefer the twisty kind to the pencil kind tho, only because if you have to sharpen, you end up wasting SO much of it =(
I generally use Mary Kay eyeliners though. I've had it stay on for over 16 hours, even in humidity. It's a little bit pricey, but works really well.
Eyeliner tips.. hmm.. I like to outline my lower lid and then part of my top lid in black. It makes people look at you kinda funny, but I personally love how it looks. Good luck!
Em =)
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How do you keep your eyeliner straight when you do the "eyeliner tears"? (ex. Benji from Good Charlotte)
Thanks
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Hi Britt,
I'd try using liquid eyeliner, that seems to work better than normal eyeliner for anything. Good luck!
Em
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My period is very heavy on the first few days. I usually use pads and slender tampons. I was wondering is there any way for me to make me period less heavy? I tried using a 'super' tampon but it hurts because I'm not big enough down there. Is there anything I can do? I'm sick and tired of feeling like I'm wearing a diaper but my period's too heavy for the small tampons. (link)
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Hi =)
I'd try using the Regular tampons, since the little ones don't work that well. Or you chould change them more often, but thats a pain at times. I am on birth control and it's made them SO much lighter!! I get them for about 2 1/2 days and it's super light. I don't know if that's an option for you or not thought. I hope that helps a little bit! Good luck!
Em =)
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Hello, everybody. I'm sorry if this is a bit long. Just for info, I'm 24 and female, so I'm not a slut or anything for having sex. Anyway, my husband recently told me he used to pay prostitutes to have sex with him a few years back (he's five years older then me.) I was disgusted. Mu husband, who has pleasured me with oral sex and beyong NUMEROUS times, has had sex with several women who he barely knew. I need some advice on how to handle this. Is he going to still be fertile? Because I DO want to have kids. - Marcia (link)
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Hi Marcia,
Wow. What I would do is have him take an STD test and if you guys have had unprotected sex, I'd get one as well. I wouldn't worry about him being infertile, unless he has an STD that could cause that. I was reading some of the other answers.. the trust one was interesting. What brought this on and made him tell you?
I would think that since he told you, he's feeling bad about what he's done and is wanting your trust again. I hope that things go well for you. Please let me know what happens.
Good luck!
Emily
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