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Strange Boyfriend
Thanks for the advice Emily - I know what you're saying is right but I'm finding it hard to get out of this relationship. By the way, a CCJ in the UK stands for a County Court Judgement. It's basically a court order sent to someone who is in arrears i.e. may owe from a few hundred to a few thousand pounds to a lending company, catalogue etc. etc. Failure to attend or pay what is owed results in a black mark against that persons credit rating so they are unable to obtain credit easily in the future (5 years to be exact!).My boyfriend has a way of making me feel guilty if I leave him and it's wearing me down. I think the best thing for me to do is ignore his phone calls but even that's difficult because I miss not speaking to him. Anyway, I'll keep you posted with any other developments regarding him.
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Hi hun. No problem, I'm glad I was able to help. I know what you mean about getting out of the relationship, like I told you, it took him stealing money from me to realize what a slime he was and even then it still took time. Thanks for telling me what a CCJ was, in America it's a stock trading company LOL. I'm hoping that your name isn't anywhere associated with his credit, since it sounds like his is less than perfect. I can't believe he makes you feel like that, not cool AT ALL!! You need to tell him exactally what you are feeling and thinking and if he is any sort of man at all, he will understand. I certainlly hope so. Do you have any other friends that you can talk to or go out with? That may help you take your mind off of him. For me, I found another guy friend to hang out with, it took away from my lonleyness. I know what you mean about speaking to him. One of the hardest things I did was deleating all of his emails/voice mails and taking down all of his pictures and gifts. Yes, please do keep me informed. If you'd like to chat, I can be found on AIM at: aflscrmommxpxgrl. Take care!!
Emily =)
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