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Question Posted Sunday November 14 2004, 3:38 pm

i have been with this guy for almost 8 months and he still doesnt trust me. i am going to collge next year and everytime we talk about it we get into fights. he thinks that im going to cheat on him or we will never see each other. but there is also this guy who has been my friend forever and i have alwayz watned to be with him.. now i have a chance to be.i really love him and he really loves me we have alwayz just had bad timing with each other. should i break upwith my bf and be with the other guy or what. my bf andi fight constantly and i dont ever do anything cuz he gets mad. he doesnt ever want my friends around and when they are the talks crap where they can hear

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LoLo2454 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 6:51 pm:
You should definetly go for your friend. Lets make a list of your bf...1. he doesnt trust you 2. he hates your friends and 3. he always agrees to disagree. If i were you i would dump him in a second! And if you love your friend and he loves you then go for it ;) Hope I helped! :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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cutebrunette answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:54 pm:
i think you should break up with your boyfriend and date you friend that you love. when you are in a relationship, you should be happy and not fight. I think you will be much happier with your friend. And if you date your friend, you can go to college happily.

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xXAsKmEaNyThInGXx answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:33 pm:
all i can say is follow your heart... i had a guy who liked me at all the wrong timesand i liked him at all the wrong times and i had a boyfriend that i thought was ok but i really wanted to be with him and he liked me...i never broke up with my bf and i look back now and wish i would have went with the friend...hope it works out

good luck

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babiigurl076 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:31 pm:
Definately..if you don`t have trust with your current b/f..you honestly have nothing. You need someone who will trust you while you`re off at college. Yea, every relationship has bumps& all..but if that guy can`t trust you..it`s not worth it. Give your other guy friend a shot--hope things work out! -Amber

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Choccocat answered Sunday November 14 2004, 5:19 pm:
Sounds like you should dump your boyfriend. If he doesn't trust you and you don't trust him then it's not a very stable relationship, and it will collapse eventually. Spend some alone time before hooking up with your friend, because it can hurt someone's feelings if you dump them for another person.
-Cat

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