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When he comes over, we just watch TV or do something else just as boring. Well.. I'm sure he gets bored of it. He's coming over again Thursday.

And I want to do something else. But I'm not sure. He really seems to want to play a game with me.

But I don't have any playstation/gameboy/xbox games he likes.

So any other games? Card? Board? ...Something?

And after that, I'd like to go out somewhere. To the mall, out to dinner, ice skating?

Something like that. But I don't really have any money. D:

Help please..? Any ideas?

okay well I've always wated to play like a truth game with my boyfriend like they do in that sarah dessen book, I believe its "the truth about forever" its really cute. But anyway you could totaly pick up one of those mario party games that everoyne loves or borrow from a friend. If you dont have money I'm sure a chill night in having an intense conversation with him would be good. I mean is there anything you guys havent covered or something that he/you are up tight about? If all else fails call a few friends to join you guys maybe even double date! Hope I helped have food, good luck

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is kissing a guy with a lip ring more of a turn on then kissing one without....

Personally I don't think so. But he can always take it out if the person is like that. On the other hand it depends because different people like different things. Maybe he could even ask someone he cares about and see what they say. But no matter what its not as permanent as it seems so if you want to take a risk, i say go for it. Hope I helped.

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I have found myself in a really bad situation.

One of my best boy mates (lets call him P) really, really fancies me. I don't feel the same way about him, but I know that he's liked me the whole three years I've known him.

I'm in love with G, who unfortunately, happens to be P's best mate. G is the most amazing person I've ever met and he's what I look forward to first thing in the morning. He means more to me than anyone and if anyone ever tries to hurt him, I will never forgive them.

P, who is bisexual, also slightly fancies G, but G doesn't know this, and P fancies me a lot more.

G, however, has a girlfriend (lets call her L). On their myspace profiles, they both say they're in love with each other, but no matter how in love they are, I can still feel that me and G have a connection.

Before G started dating L, I thought he fancied me, and he says I'm hot, and everyone else has quite recently said he thinks I'm hot.

G and L's relationship is long distance, so is very hard for them and might not last that long.

The other day, me, G and P were all at a party. Me and G were in a room alone, sitting next to each other, when he poked my leg. I poked his leg, he looked shocked for a moment and then looked into my eyes. I gave him a flirty look. Then we just sat there looking at each other and he smiled. Then suddenly P walked in and G quickly walked away.

I really feel something there between me and G. I'm worried that if he and L did split up, and G did like me, he still wouldn't go out with me because P's one of his best friends and he knows how much P likes me.

What should I do?

I know G and L might not split up and G might not even like me, but I'm saying if that did happen, and what should I do right now?

I know you don't want to hear this, but you kind of have to wait it out. but have fun I mean maybe you could even talk to P and say that you dont really have a things for guys, who like other guys... and maybe you can talk to G about what people are saying almost in a joking way just to see what he really thinks. And keep flirting I mean who knows whats going to happen but no matter what its for the better. Just keep an open eye for signs that hes intrested and signs that P isnt. Maybe you can even attempt to get close to L and mess with that a little. I am NOTT telling you to be a mean girl, jsut how to get what you want. ;) hopee I helped GOOOD LUCKK

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ok so im a 16/f and i've never gotten TSS well its because i just recently started using tampons so i was kinda of scared. but im just wondering what are some symptons of TSS?

THE FLU.
if you go to a doctor and you recently had your period and were using tampons and have flu like symtoms ask them to test you for TSS. This is because TSS is bacially the flu but deadly. Good luck with that. Im sure you wont get it most pople have to leave it in for like 2 weeks and yeah thats grimy but people forget.

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well okay im a 16/f and everywhere i go people from my school that i see like at the mall or on myspace or even at school always make fun of me. its like they hate me. and they'll say stuff like o your soo hairy thats why no one likes u or your anorexic bitch and this has been happening to me since6th grade. none of my other friends get made fun of so why me? i try to ignore people but they keep making fun of me. what should i do?

I'm the same way, a total pushover. I use to alwayssss let people make fun of me and couldnt get them to stop. Frist I started picking at my flaws trying to "correct" myself just to please them but then I realized, if they have nothing better to do then ot make fun of me I should just let them becasue atleast I have friends to hangou with when all they are doing is sitting there obsessing over my flaws. And once I told them this they realized it too and well stopped. You jsut have to stand up for yourself theres no one in the world prettier then you and why should you let anyone say otherwise. AS for people hating you, you can't hate what you dont know, and if they hated you so mcuh why would they bother. If they are trying to get you down and its absolutly obivious insted of sticking it out like everyone else tell you to let it show get upset cause then they'll feel bad. Hope I helped don't do anything stupid like start belieing them I'm usre you're perfect.

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okay so my best friend moved about 3 years ago but were still THE BEST of friends maybe even closer. Normally i call her everyday after school. Then when finals came up i didn't have much time to call her, and she got pretty mad about it And now that its summer i'm always out so i call her sometimes but most of the time she doesn't answer. Then about a week ago i dropped my phone in the pool and it doesn't work and she got a new number that i don't have memorized. So i left her a message on myspace telling her what happened (cause that the only way i could get a hold of her) then today she flipped out cause she hasn't talk to me in a week. It just makes me really mad that she gets mad at me for that. It wasn't like she was picking up the phone calling me, she never does. what should i do?

Well In all seriousness you might want to tell her you arent dating. I mean c'mon she should understand how hard it is to keep home life under control let alone keep in touch with friends 57356 miles away. Tell her she can't expect you to live for her becasue you have other friends and things. And not in a harsh way becasue you are sure she does too. But tell her you're trying your hardest and if that isnt good enough what would be? Because she can't expect you to skip out on your life jsut to please her.

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I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. It was great at first. We agrue all the time now and he gets on nerves all the time. Every little thing he does gets on my nerves. I love him and i want to be with him but i am not sure what is going on, He says that its just me, and he thinks that nothing is wrong with our relationship. Please help me.

sorry babe, but you're hurting him more by staying with him then just letting it go. Maybe after time it will work out but for know thats what you have to do. just make sure you tell him it was fun wihile it lasted and maybe in time to prevent a messy break. Good luck.

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my condum broke when i was haveing sex with my girlfriend, her period ended today the condum had spermicide on it and it broke, i did not cum in her....but can she still get pergant, shes really scared and so am i, please help!!!!!

TELL HER TO TAKE THE FUCKING MORNING AFTER PILL NOW, she should be fine. JUSt be really careful. It should take liek a day to get. Good luck that happened to my best friend the 1st time she had sex. Scarriest shit of my life.

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I'm a girl and i'm in love with my best friend. (guy).

Literally, head over heals in love. I dream about him every night, seriously.

What can I do to show him that i'm interested, but not be too direct? Like what can I do that won't be too obvious? I don't wanna like grab his hand or something just incase he isn't into me.

Thanks.

Alright babe, do you know how to imply thing?
Its like dropping little hints. Like say you guys are talking and he calls a different girl hott, if you say something bold like "hotter than me?" or something a little out of character he will pick it up. And say he doesnt a few times will do the trick.. And cuddle and flirt guys love that shit. I understnd hes your best friends and you're scared, but hes got to love something about you or why would he always be there?

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so ive been dating a guy for a couple months and he just recently said something really mean to my friend while she was working causing her to run of work bawling. i dont want a guy that talks shit to my friends. is it wrong to break up with him for it? please answer..

notat all chicks before dicks. If he has a problem with your friend then its a problem with you. If you want to break up with him for doing something like that go ahead theres nothing unreasonable about that at all.

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I need a creative idea. How do I ask the girl of my dreams out on a date. But first of all, what things should I say to her, just a few tips that will melt her heart? I know that there is'nt that much you can do to melt her heart, but can you honestly think of a way of using body language to attract her to me. What the hell do I do? I rate 5's
Im 15/m and nearly 16.

awh frekaing adorable. What one of my friends did was really sweet. We were ridding in the bumper cars at the annual town fair and we had come with a bunch of people and he drives next to me and goes "So you wanna go out" I thought it was so sweet. Another was that I think is cute is when guys ask alot of questions like heyy did you take the math test?" girl responds. The he goes "Are you going to the game friday?"girl responds. The he says something like "Wanna maybe go out with me?" its cute.Hope I helped good luck.

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In my sophomore year in high school, I've become friends with a senior and known him for only a year. As soon as he graduated and school ended, I have thought about no one else but him. It was then that I realized that I liked him a lot, and I missed him a lot. We still talk over the phone and e-mail and instant message, but I want to open up to him and tell him how much I like him personally before he moves on to college. I know there is no easier way to do this, but are there a couple of things to say before I open up, just to ease up the conversation?

invite him out with you and your friends and when you're ready to talk to him lagg behind. You might even want to start the converstation with one of him past relationship and show that you have all of those qualities she was missing just to show him you're an option. Hope I helped good luck;

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My friend has always dated someone younger than herself. And she is again. And liking it. And she is a freshman in highschool and is dating this 8th grader. And just today she told me that she might be pregnant. But shes really not sure: they did it once two weeks ago and they were protected and all, but the numbers say that condoms dont work all the time and she hasn't gotten her peroid.
Could having sex just mess up the time it comes? Or is it more likely shes pregnant?
Thanks.

Sex at that age is unhealthy, but besides that she needs a test. Don't freak out I mean she's probably jsut running late but you can never be too careful. In the case that she is pregnent have her talk to her parents about it. If she is not willing to do that she should definatly call a counsler and try to schederal an abortion. If shes not she needs to be put on the pill asap and not have sex until shes on it and safe. Hope i helped good luck,

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is it true drinking a lot of milk will help your boobs grow?

im not sure; somebody started spreading a rumor about it in my school, thats all.

I wish, at the rate I drink milk I would have C's. haha boob size is kind of one of those comes with the package things. Hate to ruin you fun.

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well, I lost my virginity to someone that I knew I wasn't going to have a relationship with yet we were friends and I care about him. Yet he's older than me and doesn't think its a big deal... Anyway to cope with the hurt?

btw.. I'm 15---the guy is 18.

Thats such a shame guys are such assholes. But maybe talking to him might put your mood up not even about it just talking. But if you want to stay away from him then find an escape. Maybe read books or listen to music to get those feelings away from you. Try to find another guy that you like to distract yourself from reality. I hope one of these works for you good luck. Gosh guys are dicks.

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alright,
well i have a boyfriend that i really do like. But before we were going out i liked this other guy but he already has a gf. but he still liked me a little bit. well then i started going out with a guy but i still have feelings for the other guy. and i talked to him on aim and he wants me to break up with my boyfriend so we can go out once hes single. i really like him but i dont want to hurt my boyfriend plus i really like him too! i dont kno what to do, help if you can,

XconfusedX

Awh cute. Okay I know I should be telling you to do the right thing, but if you wanted to do the right thing you wouldn't have asked what to do. There are only two reasons people ask for advice on this specific situation and they are: to justify what they want to do from what they should do, or to figure out what is the right move and what is wrong. Obviously you know staying with your boyfriend is right but obviously you dont want to do that. From my opinion you should go for that other guy because he woldn't tell you to do that to your boyfriend unless he really liked you or he was a god awful person. And im assuming hes nice. What you need to consider is who you wuold be happier with and who will always be there for you. Becasue in the end you're going to want to be with that guy that makes you smile when you dont want to. Hope I helped Good luck xoxo.

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okay so i started taking antibiotics last saturday and finished taking them yesterday. i know that you're not supposed to drink alcohol when taking antibiotics but do you think it's safe to drink tonight? remember: i finished taking them yesterday.

and i'm of legal drinking age so don't lecture me about that.

No worries you're clear as long as you wait until the interval is over. Just in case you dont get what I'm saying I mean the time span between each pill. Have funn :]

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I know getting a make-over for a guy is doing it for the wrong reasons!! But it's not like that, I'm not doing this so he'll want me. I'm doing it as a "thank you" for wanting me when I was ugly. He ALWAYS liked me for me. Never cared when people said "you're so hott, why date an ugly chick?" And I love him for it. But now, prom is almost here, in 4 weeks, and I want to blow his mind. I want to be drop dead GORGOUS, show off in front of his friends, make him proud, make people jelous of him, give him the attention he deserves and so on..
So how do I do this? How do I lose weight, get white teeth, get a tan,learn how to wear/put on make-up, be confident/sexy, and so on..in just 1 month?

Any advice would help! On any step of the make-over!! Have you ever had one? How'd it go? What did you do? Annnyyttthiing people :D

Thank you folks ;)

That is by far the sweetest thing I have ever heard. So here are some things that might be able to help. Lossing weight is a little hard to do just watch what you eat carefully and you can loose alot of weight quickly. You can also get a dress that will make you look slimmer becasue of your body type. As for whiter teeth whitening strips are amazing i hear but i have never used them myself. And makeup :] well go to sephora and ask one of the people to help you figure out what looks good and what not becasue they are amazing at it. (I know that from experience) but anyway good luck have fun and im sure you'll look amazing.

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i really like this guy and i already went out with him once, we were going away for summer and so we decided to end it. He liked me again after summer but i didn't really like him so i didn't go out with him then, now i really like him and i dont think that he likes me. I have thrity days to "get him to like me" (dont ask, lol) and i dont know what to do lol.

Please Help!!!!

i rate 5's for REAL answers!!!!

~cOnFuSeD

Okay well it really depends on how close you an him are but you need to invite him places and try to hang out with him as much as posible in these thirty days. Guys also like to feel important so telling him stuff might gain his trust respect and friendship. And FLIRT like crazy. Have fun good luck.Xxly.

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hi im 13/f. i was wondering if anyone knew a good deodorant or antiperspirent. i sweat under my arms all the time even when its cold and its embarrasing in school can someone give me tips on what to do about it? ill rate high thanks in advance

Well I use dove radiant silk and I don't feel a thing and dont smell bad. Its really good I swear.xX hope i helped.

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