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everyone hates me
well okay im a 16/f and everywhere i go people from my school that i see like at the mall or on myspace or even at school always make fun of me. its like they hate me. and they'll say stuff like o your soo hairy thats why no one likes u or your anorexic bitch and this has been happening to me since6th grade. none of my other friends get made fun of so why me? i try to ignore people but they keep making fun of me. what should i do?
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I'm the same way, a total pushover. I use to alwayssss let people make fun of me and couldnt get them to stop. Frist I started picking at my flaws trying to "correct" myself just to please them but then I realized, if they have nothing better to do then ot make fun of me I should just let them becasue atleast I have friends to hangou with when all they are doing is sitting there obsessing over my flaws. And once I told them this they realized it too and well stopped. You jsut have to stand up for yourself theres no one in the world prettier then you and why should you let anyone say otherwise. AS for people hating you, you can't hate what you dont know, and if they hated you so mcuh why would they bother. If they are trying to get you down and its absolutly obivious insted of sticking it out like everyone else tell you to let it show get upset cause then they'll feel bad. Hope I helped don't do anything stupid like start belieing them I'm usre you're perfect.
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Bullies Why do they do it?
♥ If these bullies are boys some of them may have a crush on you and they hide their true feelings by being mean to you
♥ Some bullies think it will give them respect but when their not in earshot there being frowned upon
♥ Some bullies get pleasure out of making their peers scarred of them. They feel secure and safe knowing that they can control people
♥ They may be a underlining problem at home that is frustrating them and they don’t know how to release their feelings in a positive way
♥ If you act shy and quiet around school or when other people see you don’t standing up for yourself the first time you get bullied. People feed off that and form the type of person you are and if you have a very vulnerable image you are a target for other bullies
♥ If you get heated and you lose it your classmates will laugh at you and think it’s a joke and in the end you won’t win the respect of your peers. Then people will feed into that and start to bully you more
Bullies How to handle the situation?
☻ Go to a teacher and explain the situation. Tell who is involved and what happened and they will set things straight
☻ If problem persists then go to the assistant principal and explain the situation and maybe once they get a visit for the assistant principal they will stop picking on you
☻ It’s a good idea to ignore them totally. Don’t give them any information that they can twist and turn against you
☻ When someone is bullying you sometimes you may want to let the situation go and just move to another area where they are not around
☻ Ignoring the bullies and not saying anything back to them will make them give up and move on to another prey
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