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Sorry, i didn't know what category to put this under. lol, okay my question is, if you dont know how to put a tampon in, and you're NOT on yor period. Can you still practice to stick one in you? Because I'm going to a party soon and I should be getting my period soon. And I'm going to have to swim. And I just need to know how to put a tampon in. So could I practice, while I'm not on my period? What would it do? (link)
You shouldn't... Maybe you could try just one time but doing it while your not on your period then taking it out CAN cause a LOT of pain for a few days.


Hey you guys seem to have really good taste in movies. I was wondering if you'd give me any recomendations. Anything that deals with
psychology, drug use or a movie that makes you think. I've seen Thirteen and Spun so anything else would be great. Thanks alot.
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What About Bob (It doesn't make you think, but it's a funny movie about a psychiatrist and his crazy patient)

Secret window -- a psychological thriller

A Beautiful Mind


What should i get my boyfriend for our 6 month anniversary & for his birthday? (different months)

hes turning 19 in september...our 6 month is in august 21st

i rate 5's no doubt about it (link)
You can get him a gift card to his favorite store, some cologne, DVDs or CDs,if he drives you can buy him something for his car/truck, if he likes games you can get him some kind of video game, or if you really wanna go all out you can buy tickets to go see his favorite band in concert.

Hope this helped....

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You could also burn him a CD of songs that remind you of him.


Hey, you know the neospharen (spelling) stuff people use to prevent scars? Well my acne is actually finally clearing up and i have some scaring (i think) on my cheeks, can I use it after i wash my face and put my medicine on, or will it just make it worse?

Thanks will rate high=D (link)
Neosporin is greasy and could cause you to break out more, but if you only put it on the spots that need it it shouldn't be too much of a problem. Neosporin helps if you put it on open cuts and such to help heal faster and prevent scaring it won't help much if any at all on old scars. You could go to wal mart and try some cream or gel made specifically for reducing scars that are already there...

Hope this helps

Kristin


I really need help!

I can't fall asleep ever, i'm getting in a really bad habbit, a REALLY bad one. School atarts in less then 3 weeks! And I start school around 6 *thats what time it's suggested that you wake up*

And I dont go to sleep un'till about 3:57 AM or atleast 6:24... Between those times. That means I'd have to stay up for almost 2 days straight!

Are sleeping pills healthy? I really have to get out of this habbit. It's going to ruin my whole school year!

And P.S: I sleep atleast untill 2 in the afternoon, Thats what time school ends. I can sleep through school!


So about the pills, what is a really good brand that really works. How long do they take to work and make you fall asleep (kick in)? I have pill-Phobia for large pills, Do they come in a big size? My parents don't want to spend over $50 for them. They want me to have a good education, do they effect your mood in anyway if you take them? How many do you take?

Sorry it was so long, but im trying to get as much information I possibally can.


Maddy

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You should just try this before trying sleeping pills:: Go out and buy an alarm clock, if you don't already have one. Try to go to bed earlier (if you can) or if not, just go to bed and fll asleep whenever you normally do but set your alarm clock for like 10 am and when it goes off at 10am make yourself get out of bed and don't take any naps during the day... You'll be tired that day but you'll want to go to sleep at a better time that night. Keep doing that for a few days and gradually start setting your alarm clock earlier and going to bed earlier. I think you have your days and nights mixed up....

If that doesn't work, go to the doctor for sleeping pills. They're not very healthy but if you need them, you should get them from your doctor. It's easy to become addicted to sleeping pills so don't abuse them.... It is NOT smart to just get some randomsleeping pills fromt he drug store. I know a lot of people think it is, but it's really not.

I hope this helps.



ive been looking everywhere for that nair shaving stuff does anyone know where to get it? (link)
Walmart is probably the cheapest place to buy it... But you might wanna try Veet first. It works just as well as nair but it's easier on your skin. Nair makes a lot of people have rashes and nasty junk like that because they're skin is too sensitive to it. Veet is usually the same price as nair and you can get it in the same section.


does anyone know how to lighten your eyebrows? (link)
If you go to walmart or some place like that, look in the section where they sell the nair and such and they sell facial hair bleaching and lightening kits. They are cheaper ways of doing it, but if you buy the kits it's easier and less risky...

Good luck


AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)
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You should try to get to school a few minutes early so you have time to find your locker and your classes. First just go to your locker and put anyhting you dont need in it and if you see anyone around your locker you could try tlaking to them. Tell them you're new there. If you start talking to some people maybe they can help you with finding you classes and you may be able to make some friends really quick. After you go to your locker go find your first classroom. If you can't find it on your own ask someone if they can point you in the right direction. If you have time, after you find your first class, you should look for your next classes. If you don't have time to, you can ask your first period teacher where your next class is.
Just go in with an open mind and if you need anything just ask someone for help... And don't worry, high school isn't nearly as bad at they like to make it look on tv. Hope you have a great school year.



okay a couple days ago I went to my room and stuck a sticker to my wallet and I pilled it off then it left one of those marks that stickers leave when you pill it off do any of tall have any clue on how to get this stuff off please help I really need some help and saying wash it with hot water is not a option because I have already tried it please help
love brittany
p.s.s I will rate high and that means more 5'z (link)
Use rubbing alcohol! I took a bumper sticker off my car and it left the sticky junk on there and I used rubbing alcohol on it and it took it right off! Don't waste your money of something to specifically take goo off when you can spend like $2 on a bottle of rubbing alcohol. Rubbing alcohol can take anything off, lol...

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Thanks :-)


Is it normal to gain weight during or right before your period? I am 13 years old and I weigh 100 pounds. Is that normal? Now I weigh 103 pounds. (link)
Your weight can actually vary a few pounds from day-to-day so yes, it's normal. Especially during or right before your period because most women tend to retain water during that time.

Hope this helped :-)


im with my boyfriend right now and i want him to kiss me but i dont want him to know i want him to kiss me. help ASAP!! (link)
If he doesn't think you want him to kiss you, he probably won't... Don't just go right out and sa it, but you shouldn't act like you DON'T want him to.


i have suffered with eustachian tube dysfunction for over 10 years now i am sick to death of it. my ears are constantly blocked resulting in me alway having to hold me breath and such my ears in cosing great discomfort and the majority of he time i have to do this over and over again and they are still popped i fear i am going to burst my ear drum one day doing this and the fustratration from this causes me to think that id be better off having my ears taken off completly not to mention how stupid i look when i have to pop my ears back in. every time i do it im pulling muscles in my back also resulting in my back suffering now. ive been with the ENT now for 6 years they basicaaly look at me clean my ears out and whisk me off no one ever takes the time to sit down and explain the condition i have apart from ear wax. it took them 4 years to give me a name to this condition and once i got told there is surgery but its a 50 50 chance that it could make it worse also. i see a different doc all the time there and they all have to be reminded of my condition and all of them have differnt oppinions. ive told my GP i want to see the same doc all the time so we can come to some sort of resolution for this problem but she says thats not possible on the NHS. can you please give me advice on what my options are for getting rid of this bloody curse? (link)
First, you shouldn't try to pop your ears. With ETD air pressure isn't equalized across the ear drum, preventing the middle ear to drain properly. What's making your ears feel plugged-up and like you need to pop them is fluid.

Your doctor could proscribe you some nasal spray to try. This won't always work but it's obviously got less risk than the surgery and if it works for you, does many of the same things the surgery helps to do. You should talk to your doctor about this, he could proscribe you Flonase or something similar.

If that doesn't work... Doctors can put in a drainage tube (a.k.a. myringotomy tube or Eustachian tube) These tubes allow air pressure to equalize across the eardrum. Once air pressure is equalized fluid can drain from the middle ear and your ear will no longer feel plugged-up. You should talk to your doctor about this surgery.

I hope this helps...


my bf && i have pretty much made if a habit to talk everynight past midnight. i have my cell on vibrate (i have free min) & he calls from his house. we hadnt gotten caught after 3 nights of that but today when my dad woke me up, he saw the phone on my bed & asked why so i said it vibrates at night b/c i was still half asleep. i dont know what else to tell him if he asks! ok so we are on a plan that we share and he pays...will the time & number of the call show up on the bill? please help! any info is important!! (link)
Yes, if he looks it will show him. It doesn't show up on the regular bill, but if he gets online he can see every incoming and outgoing call and the time and date of each call. This is how it works for my cell phone anyway. I have Sprint but I'd imagine it'd be the same for most companies.


Hey, does anyone know of any good sites besides Fotki, Photobucket, and Picture Trail, that I can share my pics with? Thanks so much!
x3 Erin (link)
Other people have already said it, but you should go with webshots...

www.webshots.com


ok u kno how u put lemon juice in your hair during the summer? well wut r the steps? HURRY!!! ITS LIKE REALLY IMPORTANT TO GET THIS ANSWER FAST! (link)
Wash your hair, put lemon juice in it and sit out in the sun until it dries... Or you could just buy Sun In... That works better.


Hello - this is Panramos.

Just noticed that you added me as a friend - you have now become eligable for the premium plan, the premium plan is a $14.99 optional member fee which entitles you to absolutely nothing, but allows me to gain $14.99, please pretend to consider for the sake of humor.

It seems odd that a person that gives good advice would add me as a favorite columnist, im just curious as to why you added me (I ask most people that don't announce that they've added me)

Glad to see another person interested in my posts, whether it be to set me up for something cruel which at this point is almost karmatic - or just to appreciate the cruel humor.

-Panramos (link)
Hi there.

Only $14.99? That sounds like a pretty good deal... Do you take checks?

I've added you because the advice you give makes me laugh. I give good advice on here, but when I'm not trying to help people I'm a sarcastic bitch and I also enjoy making fun of stupid people so... I enjoy reading your column.

-Daysgoby


Does anyone know any good sites for preppy, punk, ghetto, things along those lines, journal icons? (link)
lol nice combination... www.imbum.com try that.


I have a friend named Bailey. One day she did a prank phone call to me with a bunch of her friends. And it got me real upset because I thought she was my friend. So the next day she called me and asked if she wanted to hang out with me. And she sounded like nothing happend with the prank phone call. And I said, I thought you were mad at me, and she said never! And I asked her why did you prank me? And she said.. it's only a prank, and she hung up. What should I do?


-x Lauren x- (link)
Well what was the prank phone call about? Me and my friends have prank phone called eachother before, it's not a big deal... We actually all thought it was funny... You shouldn't take it too seriously, she probably was just joking and figured you'd take it as a joke too.


I have a little brother who is 6 years old. His name is Denis. I love him and all, but.. he's a weirdo. He's overweight.. he's only 6 and hes 114 lbs. I dont know how to tell him he's overweight without hurting his feelings. It's kind of cute though.. I call him my little oompa loompa. Hehe. Well, please give me much advice. Thanks much!

-Cynthia (link)
Maybe you don't really HAVE to tell him... You should talk to your parents about it and maybe they can start making sure he eats healthy and you could play with him more. Like take him outside and play basketball or tag or whatever kinda games that involve a lot of activity. I hope this helps.


what are some good hair straighteners that won't really damage your hair alot (link)
Get a ceramic hair straightener! They're the best.. Do NOT get the metal ones, they will just fry your hair. Ceramic straighteners range anywhere from $20-$200+ I say get one that's around $40... If you have a Sally's near you, look there first. But You can get them anywhere beauty supplies are sold.

http://www.folica.com/Ceramic_Fl_214_1.html
^^That site can give you some ideas of what you want^^




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