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this guy and i have broken up and gotten back together so many times i lost count but im the one who keeps breaking up with him. . . he loves me and i thought i loved him but i like him more when we aren't going out and then when we get back together little by little i stop liking him we cant even last a week do u think i should break up with him for good or just wait a while longer to c if i change my mind (link)
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Your only falling in love with him again each time because you lonely without him. You may not know it but it's because you can't have him that you want him. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. If only you could get rid of the fence. Try dating other guys to see if it feels more natural with the other guys. Good Luck! ;-)
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i love him but i still havent had my first kiss and am really scared to kiss him i cant even hug him with out blushing or laughing (link)
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It's not about you when you think about it. I know you love him but does he love you? Enough for him to deserve the kiss?
When you are 100% certain that you can answer yes to these questions then you shouldn't be scared. Just know that you love him and kiss him!!!
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my mom always talks to her boyfriend and not to me (link)
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Ditto. The hardest thing to do is explain to your mom that you want her to talk to you more. So, I won't suggest it.
You should definately try to get to talk to you more by offering to do something together like maybe plan to go bowling, roller skating, eating out together. That can often get you alone time and can be a blast!!! XD
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Hi! 19/f
Me and my boyfriend have been living together for about a year now, and I'm getting kind of bored with the way that our room looks. We've made a few changes (took off our closet doors, added some furniture) but I'm still not satisfied. The walls are a dull white, and the carpet is brown. I really want to paint our room, but it's hard choosing a color we can both agree on, or a design. I'm more girly and he's more neutral and calm. I suggest ideas, and he thinks that they're too girly so I really need some ideas that could work for our room since it's the both of us.
If you need an idea of what we're like, well, we're very similar. We're both heavily into music, movies & media. I really like fashion, reading and art. I really want something that could incorporate those but that could really be equal and not too overpowering. I don't want our room to be too feminine or too masculine.
If you guys have any ideas, could you please contribute them? I'm so bored of the way our room looks and we're looking to change it. Thanks in advance! (link)
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It would be a bonding expierence for both of you to paint a mural on the walls of your lives together. (I know your probably not the artsy type but it will still be fun and a good expierence splatter paint!lol)The good parts, even the bad parts, so that if you guys ever argue you can look around and think of all you have accomplished together. Good luck!!!
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so this summer I'm turning 17, and every year I've had a party. I can't spend much money so I'm hoping to keep the party at my house -- I have a trampoline and a pool, but I'm starting to think that parties like this during the day are getting too.. old.
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If it's nice out offering to sleep on the trampoline will be friend but yeah, kinda old. Just invite a few close friends kind of like a private sleep over.
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Okay, I stopped attending my church because my favorite pastor was let go, he now runs a church out of his home on Sunday nights, what they call an "organic church." I love it. Now, there are a lot of people there that are older than me and more experienced in their walks with Christ. They are so on fire for Jesus and bringing up incredible topics and stories from the bible and all of the teenagers there hardly ever speak because we are so inexperienced. I want to be on fire like the rest of the group, I don't want to be it for them, I want to be on fire for Christ for me. It will help me to better understand the discussions, it will help me to interact more with the people in the group and if I know what to say and what to talk about, I won't feel so stupid to be speaking. My question is, how do I go about being this? Should I get a devotions book or memorize random verses or just read the bible in general? I know I'm a good person and I love Jesus with all my heart but I want to be the one next week to be speaking and raising my voice over the talk of everyone else because I have something incredible to add. Any help is appreciated. Thanks so much, God Bless (link)
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One thing that is fun to do is really connect yourself with one of the more wisdomed people in that group. Express the idea of making a small group youd feel comfortble around it to some sort of study group. Ask lots of questions and enlighten yourself in the joys of Christ!! God Bless You!
Find Peace in a disaster, and Happiness where it seems not. -Mae Little
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i want to become a Christian but i don't no how someone help? please? (link)
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One of the first steps would be reading the bible and going to a Christian church and seeing what kind of teachings they do. If you still feel ready to convert, then talk to a priest about how you feel. It should take a few weeks for you to get comfortable before you get baptizied. You should ask yourself why you want to become a Christian. Is it because you really believe in God and want to follow His rules? Or is it because you wanna seem cool? If you said the first question then good luck on your choices!!!!!!
Why worry about tomorrow? All I want is some tea. -Mae Little
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okay so i went to an after-school program and i had a black nothface with a hood (like alot of people). Just like any other kid i bring my nothface to my afterschool program and then i left it on the chair and this girl,which hppens to have a black northface too but WITHOUT THE HOOD(lets call her teacher's pet!) is called for dissmisal before me and she also has a black nothface. And 10 min. after i get called and i can't find my nothface it like disappered!I first looked every were under the table under the sink the cabnit and downstairs EVERYWERE!and then i went back to the classroom (were i left my now missing northface) and i found a black northface without the hood.i went to the office and told the secretary to dial up the girls number that i want to talk to her no. and they gave me her number and i dial, next thing you now she answers with a hello and she hears my voice with anger *i already hated that girl so there was her motive* and she puts her mom on the phone so that way her mom can defend her! *my dad heard the whole thing and LOVES the way i stood up for my self in front of that bitch* so the mom of the teacher's pet starts yelling at me and i immediatly start yelling right back saying oh yea bitch you're gonna yell at me like that without me even knowing you i am not giving you respect to you or your filthy daughter! and then the teacher (he's like 50) hung up on me he disconnected the phone lines so i could not talk to her anymore. then he started yelling at me saying you give respect to your eleders young lady do you under stand? (pointing his finger at me) and i smack the finger away ( the other 40 kids who go there were all watching including my dad) and said you your self say "you give respect to get respect" and well that woman was not giving me respect so why should i?! then next day i put on make-up looking all feirce and better than teacher's pet girl i walk in that place with my head up high. I have a best friend that goes there she supported my my every single move, everything i did. The teacher's pet girl was like "hey did you find your northface?" i looked her right in the eye and gave her a bad look and went into the other room my other friends who were with me left that table and came with me into the other room. Then later that day the 50 year old man came in and gave a speech to all of us including me and teacher's pet and took teacher's pet side and mad ME look bad! i left the afterschol program without my jacket and my head help high.
But wait, the 50 year old man is BEGGING me to come back!! what should i do? (link)
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What kind of afterschool thing is this? If it was a lot of fun and you miss going then explain what happened to him and why you think its 'teachers pets' fault. Of course if you really want your jacket back you should be nice (I mean, hello?, Northface's are like $70!) then ask teachers pet very nicely why her jacket now has a hood when it didn't earlier.
If they refuse to give the jacket and you get angry then tell the 50 year old his progam is stupid, the speech was stupid, teachers pet is stupid, AND he is stupid and walk out with your head high.
Hope I helped!!!!
Why waste life on tomorrow? I just want some tea. -Mae Little
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Hi. just looking for some comments on this subject. Can anyone tell me why it is okay, to kill an unborn CHILD. But it is NOT okay to kill ANY other human being. there was a question talking about a doctor giving a young lady pills to "slow" the BABY's HEART rate down. then do the abortion. if a doctor was to give these pills to lets say, a 60 year old. or whoever that would be considered MURDER. I simply do not understand this. You know the bible says, that there will become a time when wrong will become right and right will become wrong. ladies and gentlemen I have found that we are in that time. With little kids for Gods sake having sex making babys when they are just babies theirselfs then saying I dont want this child then KILLING the child! My God have we went away from the word of God and God himself. But my question for you all is simply this. Why is it okay to kill an unborn child but not any other human being? (link)
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b/c some people have problems that others dont. The baby may be having some problem with it's heart but I dont kno. And the whole 'it is considerd murder' thing is wrong b/c people get abortions all the time. People have DEFINATELY strayed from His word. As long as you stick to the word of God then His children will be rewarded. :D
Hope I helped!!
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17/f
I'm not pregnant, but I've always wondered about this. Where do people even get abortions?? At the nearby clinic? Anywhere? Hospital? Because when I think about it, I feel like clinic isn't the best way to go because I think of them as... Just general doctors, not doctors that give you abortion pills. (link)
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There's this organization called planned parenthood and 3% of what they do is abortions. Other than that, doctors can schedule meetings with other surgeons.
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I have to quit junk food tomorrow cold turkey. I can no longer eat it. Any tips on how to go about doing this? (link)
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If your having trouble quitting junk food chew 0 calorie gums that have low sugar. One of my favorite gums is the Extra Dessert Delights gum because it's delicous and only 5 calories. The best one is Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream! Tea is a really good choice to, though it is high in caffeine so only if your prepared to stay awake, and I mean like more caffiene than coffee. Good Luck!!!!
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heyy
well to start of im sorry if it is a lengthy question
i am 15/f and i have made a huge mistake. nothing sexual or anything but a mistake between this guy i have a crush on.
anyway a couple of days ago i had the worst possible day of my life,so many things went wrong.
well afterschool i was taking the bus home and having a nice conversation with my neighbour (one of the only things that was going right that day) when my crush came up (he's the bad boy type you could say)
now dont get me wrong but i really like him but that day was so bad and then he legitly stuck his head between us annd then i told him to go away but then he asked why and without thinking i said "because i dont like you"
and now i feel horribe and guilty. i think that i may have hurt his feelings but my best friends say that i probably didnt and if i did he would have brushed it off by now
anyway i feel like an asshole and a jerk and i see him everyday and i want to apologize because its killing me but i just cant talk to him now.
we werent good friends but we could talk to each other and now we cant even do that.
but dont get me wrong i am very nice not to be cocky but everyone says i am the nicest person they know.
i just feel like a jerk and i have to make it up to him for one i cant sleep or eat because of it and two he is my neighbour and my crush
what should i do?
please help asap
thanks
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this is one thing your gonna hate hearing honey but, your only human. The best thing to do would be to go up to him and say 'I'm sorry for being such a jerk that day but so many things had gone wrong and I just feel so bad now.'
You'll be proud you had the courage to stand up & say something. It will open chances for something bigger (like a relationship). Good luck babe! :D
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Who do you think I should pick???? I am stuck and I think I have fallen for three guys. I need help on whom to chose. I have chemistry with em all and we get along well.
Guy 1- He is drop dead gorgeous, he can sing, write poetry, hes athletic, and hes a christian
Guy 2- Hes cute, funny, sensitive, loving, and smart
Guy 3- Hes intelligent, not so good looking, sweet, caring, funny, and can play instruments.
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i kno that youll hate this answer but it all depends on wat kind of girl (or guy, not judging) u r. Me being the vain person I am would go after Guy 1 or 2 for the looks.I'd probably end up with guy 2 because he's funny and akward moments are always a bummer. :s
Totally ur choice though!
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I have worn my hair down and in a middle part for many years, but recently started parting it on my right or wearing it a ponytail frequently.
However, now I want to change my hairstyle so its a part on my lift side, but I also want it to be sort of a middle part.
This is an image of exactly the kind of hairstyle I would like on Karen, but I have brown hair.
http://tinypic.com/r/2uep2xx/7
How can I get my hair like this (while not dying it blonde of course!), but how from the part to the way it is styled?
Thanks (link)
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It's easier to complete a part like this if you straighten it first so buy some kind of straightner (theyre not to expensive). Make a invisible line a little above ear and push all the hair to the other side. Ta-da! Good luck I hope it looks super cute! XD
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