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i made a huge mistake.........now i regret it :(
heyy
well to start of im sorry if it is a lengthy question
i am 15/f and i have made a huge mistake. nothing sexual or anything but a mistake between this guy i have a crush on.
anyway a couple of days ago i had the worst possible day of my life,so many things went wrong.
well afterschool i was taking the bus home and having a nice conversation with my neighbour (one of the only things that was going right that day) when my crush came up (he's the bad boy type you could say)
now dont get me wrong but i really like him but that day was so bad and then he legitly stuck his head between us annd then i told him to go away but then he asked why and without thinking i said "because i dont like you"
and now i feel horribe and guilty. i think that i may have hurt his feelings but my best friends say that i probably didnt and if i did he would have brushed it off by now
anyway i feel like an asshole and a jerk and i see him everyday and i want to apologize because its killing me but i just cant talk to him now.
we werent good friends but we could talk to each other and now we cant even do that.
but dont get me wrong i am very nice not to be cocky but everyone says i am the nicest person they know.
i just feel like a jerk and i have to make it up to him for one i cant sleep or eat because of it and two he is my neighbour and my crush
what should i do?
please help asap
thanks
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this is one thing your gonna hate hearing honey but, your only human. The best thing to do would be to go up to him and say 'I'm sorry for being such a jerk that day but so many things had gone wrong and I just feel so bad now.'
You'll be proud you had the courage to stand up & say something. It will open chances for something bigger (like a relationship). Good luck babe! :D
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I agree with the answers you have received. Everyone has bad days, and being polite and apologize is the right thing to do.
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He probably didn't take what you said too seriously, but you can fix it.
Next time you see him walk up to him and make conversation. You can even say "Sorry I was rude to you on the bus, I was having a really bad day."
As long as he sees you still want to talk to him, things will be back to normal. You can even be flirty and say "When I said I didn't like you, I was lying."
Play it cool and observe his attitude. I'm sure he wasn't too upset.
Good luck,
-Abby
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You're overreacting.
The next time you see him just say 'Hey, sorry I was rude to you last week, I was having a really bad day.'
I'm sure he'll be understanding and accept your apology.
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