hey everyone im here to give any advice to anyone. i guess im good at giving advice cuz all my friends tell me i am so yea. im going to be honest but not like mean honest----unless you personally ask me mal questions. im going to really try my best at helping you guyz and hope you consider what i have to say (unless you can figure stuff out on your own) lol jp but please if your having troubles ask away.
love ya
xo0xo0xo Christine13
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I'm not sure why, but latley I haven't been so happy lately. I mean I'm so sick of being me. I don't like my hair, im not as pretty as Miss popular. I dont dress as great as them and I've been alone alot latley cause none of my friends have been invitin me over anymore. I've been on a no sode low sugar diet and I lost my baby fat (im 13 and i weigh 105 lbs) so im noT like fat or anything but I somehow got off my diet and I just feel soo crappy I havent gotten back on. I hate me right now, what should I do? (link)
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try something new! try a new haircut,new diet(actually u skinny thing u shouldnt be on a diet! that could be unhealthy if you get too skinny) anyways be spontaneous! call up old friends (make new ones!) oooo ya know what? listen to music like BOB MARLEY! he rocks my socks! hes so positive and you should be to! if you want to (look) better to make yourself happy...do so. puton make-up,get a tan. shop for new clothes and such. just be happy with yourself ohkay hun?
luv ya xoxo christine13
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I don't think I'm that fat...but I do have a belly that hangs out and I do have large thighs. I was wondering if anyone knew any excersizes for this.... (link)
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do 50 curl ups a night then gradually progress it gets rid or belly fat and give you abs man! also walking gets rid of belly chub and not drinking soda. as for those legs...dance dance dance!! you'll be in shape in no time.
xo0xoxox Christine13
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I just moved in 10 months ago [[beginging of school]] Yeah,i made friends...but now at the end of the year they all turned against me! And its all because if this one girl hates me,they all hate me.I hate being a follower and i love to be original,so simpely,i dont follow her like my friends did. Now shes convincing everyone to hate me! She was once my friend and i never did anything wrong ][[i know this because we werent that good of friends we just sat next to each other in one subject..never called eachother and stuff..]] So she makes everyone hate me for no reason. And im so sad i cry so hard. Im not the same im just miserable. Im trying to get my mom to move back to my old city. Its takeing some effect. I would be over joyed to move back to my city. People like me and i have friends there. But my question is how can i deal with all this pressure and stress on me?
Im becomeing depressed and hateing my life. I dont want to be that kind of person seeing as i always try to look up...even down looks up to me. (link)
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hey sweetie its fine! i was in the exact.. and i mean exact pisition you are in!! i came back form new-york and veeryone turned on me. for no reason! they just decided to be bitches and drop me. yea it hurt like hell at first and i wanted to apologize..even though i did NOTHING WRONG. my mom stopped me and made me realize its them not me. here arte some things that helped me.
1. religeon. god helped me through everything. do you have a religeon? if not maybe you should try one like catholic or christain. if not..just remeber suicide is NEVER the answer. which brings us to #2.
2. why kill yourself? why hurt your loved ones and family...and for what? suicde is the most selfish thing anyone can do. i think..why kill yourself? i want to see what happens in the end..the real end. plus it would be painfull and its never pleasent. its horrifying.
3. music. the one song that helped me get by was "yesterday" by The Beatles. just listen to it. it is exactly your emotions and thoguhts. it helped! try it and try more music.
4. focus on everyting good in your life. be satisfied with yourself. be like "hey i rock and i know it" screw everyone who is sour. yea!!
aww sweets it will get better i promise.
love yoou
xoxo Chirstine
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My friend is Really weird..hes such a good guy..like he so sweet and caring and not to mention very good looking but he when i chill with him with my two other best friends he ignores me like im not even there and he flirts with them all the time, and like a week ago he called both of them to go on a boat but not me and he knows that the three of us are always together..but like the other day we were in the pool and it was the first day he actually payed attention to me and he told me to call him the next day but then he goes and hangs up and says hes gonna chill but doesnt pick up his fone or igonores our cals and everything. Also he goes and talks about one of my friends nd then hes the biggest flirt to her and ti makes no sense..what do u think about this guy? (link)
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wow i know a guy exactly like that! uuh men...such weirdos. listen...you are so much better than he is. if he wants your friends so0o much well he can have them. i bet he has problems and such and you will be too busy with hunks of your own to even realize he wants attention..which he seems to really really want! maybe he is jealous of you or...i hate to break it to you..maybe he just wants your friends. well you dont need him!! he seems like scum. dont get involved belive me..it will be the best thing you can do..why i bet he will come crawling to you when all the other girls get tired of him. dont fall for it. if this happens be like "ohkay call me we'll chill" roll your eyes and walk away. if the moron calls do exactly what he did to you. or if you have a big heart..be nice to him. make freidns of your enemies..but not too close friends.. actually how about you are "aquaintences." you know..."friends" who only tend to wave at eachother in the hall way :)
xoxox Christine
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Ok, well i know i already asked a question kinda like this, but i dont think i expained it well enough. heres the whole story. well there's this one guy who i went out with last year, he was everything you would want in a boyfriend, sweet, sensitive, treated you really good, i mean in school once he had to write a paper on his favorite thing, he wrote it on me! aw, right? well, kinda. Every guy has his down side, his was he wasnt the "hottest" guy, well not even close. but that didnt really matter to me because looks dont really mean THAT much to me. everyone used to say how good i was for him, and how they wanted me to dump him. well we went out twice that year, he asked me out both times. but i ended up breaking up with him both times. i didnt break up with him because of what other people were saying though and not because he wasnt hott. i broke up with him the first time because everything was really messed up and it was the best thing to do, he understood. so we broke up. we go to differenent schools so it didnt work out all that great anyways. but he asked me out again. i said yeah. but i ended up breaking up with him because i guess a lot of his friends were telling him i was a whore and he would never stick up for me..kinda messed up right? well a lot of time has passed..almost a year..and he hates me now..for pretty much no reason. i mean we were ok after we broke up the second time but now..we're not. he HATES me. he calls me a cutter whenever i see him (i used to cut. but it really hurts when he says that.and he knows that. thats why he says it) he even hates anyone who hangs out with me..i think he changed. well my friends agree with me..because hes mean now. not sweet. i tried talking to him..friendly.but it just makes it worce..i wanna be friends with him though..he likes someone else though..i might kidna like him still..i REALLY dont know though. i just found out he may have been smoking pot. im really worried about him..what do i do? (link)
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ive been in your situation..kind of. ya see i hated the guy first and broek it off and then he turned sour..i think because of me..BUT he started taking it over the edge like really mean comments and i wasnt saying anything about him..anyway seeing as he really doesnt want to talk to yooou,i have one question..are you friends with any of hiiiis friends? id so, talk to his friends ands say "hey talk to for me please!" and tell them the situation (unless they already know it) and if fire is still burning between you2, maybe you should break it off for good. you are obviously more mature than he is and if you have tried to put out the fire and has just added to it, well than hunny he can cry about it. let him pout and about your better than that! dont let him pull you down to his low. good luck!
luv, xoxo Christine
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how can i find the right girlfriend, without getting hurt like cheated on? (link)
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first you should get someone who is like a best friend (who happens to be a girl). make sure you have alot in common and see if she is comming on to you. try flirting with her and giving her alot of compliments!! (us girls like that ;) but not too many or ones that are lame. next, try going out with her and a group of friends liek to the mall or movies (make sure u sit by her) and last..if all seems right between you 2, go for it. if she turns you down, so what? plenty of other girls will come your way..she just wasnt the one! i mean look at it this way...for every girl that is an ex..thats one more girl closer to finding your true love (also one more wall knocked down)
luv ya hun i hoped i helped.
xox Christine
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omfg!!! i have the worst cramps ever today!! i took ib profen already and that didnt work!
i need some way to get rid of them or make them not so bad!
ik ppl say working out helps..but there is no way in hell im working out with this bad of cramps!
HELP!!
ill rate 5s! (link)
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o0ohkay this is what i heard helps...eat mints!!! mints mints mints! they help....et big ones you can suck on like the ones that have red and white swirls. also try pinching the sides of your hips and take the medcines neccessary. get well soon hun!
xoxoxo Christine.
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ok i'm 13/f and i'm not sexually active or anything but i am just wondering how effective condoms are. i know that sometimes they have a hole in them or something, but about what percent of the time are they safe? thanks! (link)
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o wow ohkay i asked this question in sex ed. the teacher that they arent effective..really at all!!! i was shocked! i was like "what!" and everyone turned around and started laghing like "o0o christine" i didnt give a shit i laughed too BUT i was freakin tweakin! the absolute best way to avoid stds are..
1. get tested WITH your sex mate.
2. wait until marriage but only AFTER you have been tested.
3. to prevent becoming pregnant use pills or the patch. (patch is easier).
and also use a condom every time...even though they really kind of are useless (as said by my teacher).
be safe! luv ya
xoxoxo Christine.
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Hey everyone. I have started to read a little bit lately, and I was wondering if any of you could list some books that are good. Fiction is the main cateogory that I would like to read. Your help would greatly be appreciated.
Thanks, Caleb (link)
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OMG you have to read the book called "go ask alice". it is possibly the best book i have ever read..you WILL get hooked. its about this girl in the 60's who of course starts drugs. she tells you about her damn right trippy adventures,dangers, and love. read it....you wont be sorry and you wont want to do drugs.
DO ET!! lol
xoxox Christine
p.s its a true story..its the girls diary found by her parents.
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I am going on vacation in a weeks and I was planning on getting a mystic tan before I go but I'm not sure if I should...
I have very sensitive and I can't use some kinds of makeup and some lotions. I did a "patch test" with the lotion you put on before you go and my skin did not react to that. I was just wondering if anyone that has sensitive skin has ever tried ot or knows anyone, or if you think I should try it.
Thanks! (link)
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the best way to get a healthy remarkable tan is at the beach..or if you dont live near the beach go outside.just get in the sun! i have sensitve skin too and many things burn...if you do this you might look like a burnt pizza rather then a sexy swimsuit model. sun is the best way...it also clears up skin! thats right have any pimples on your face? getting a tan on your face clears those basterds right up. just trying to get you the best pointers hun.
have fun on vacay!
xoxox Christine.
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time, and we decided that we are comfortable having sex. well, i really need help! i thot this would be an interesting experience, but he has such an odd sexuality. example: he like practically ripped off my blouse, then like snapped oppen my bra and IT REALLY HURT, then like he takes my panties off and start rubbing them on himself,then when he had enough of that, he got whipped cream and sprayed it on my pussy, then licked it off. now that whippe cream thing may turn some weird girls on, BUT NOT ME!!! i'm like what the heck???? so then i just get dressed and leave because this was ridiculous, but we're really close so we made up. but what can i do so that next time, (its proabably not going to be for awhile tho) he acts NORMAL!!! (link)
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o0ohkay well is he a virgin? maybe he had like a sexual overdrive and got excited..thinking you would too and maybe he thought you would like his actions. have you talked to him? be like ohkay baby im new at this and it should be a compliment im doing it with you..but you have to be gentle with me..im fragile! lets just keep it slow and sensual at first and maybe after a while we can get more eurotic but not for now..kay babe?.....keep it nice and possibly make it a funny/learning experience. OH and be sure to use protection and you should probably try birth contral pills or the patch...just want you 2 to be safe! luv ya thnx for asking
hope all goes well hun'
xoxChristine
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