Rules of thumb. PORTION SIZE. You are from here on out no longer allowed to eat a serving of meat that is bigger than your fist. :-) (I'm just kidding) But, that is a good idea. READ the back of the labels to check for calorie and fat content ONLY eat the serving size. Once you start losing weight, and start eating less, your stomach gets smaller and so does your appetite. If you have any questions, feel free to IM me. "ParisianPoodle" Umm. Whatelse. A ps which made me lose 8 pounds...give up red meat. Which includes pork, and cow of any kind.

Well, I don't think you're going to feel better about it either way. Our School did "Our Town" And my friend Kyle had to kiss the stage manager's girlfriend...and they just both ignored it. Neither of them had feelings for each other. A kiss can be just that. The only way you're going to feel better about it, is if you just...tell your boyfriend about it. It'll help your guilty conscience that doesn't really need to be. :-) Hope I helped.

Stand up for him? Dur. Regardless if he's annoying or not, most of the time, really annoying people are only like that, because they don't know how else to defend themselves. The don't realize if they'd only be themselves that people like them, therefore, they figure they might as well make everyone else miserable in the process of you making him miserable. Trust me, it makes sense. I went through it last year, I was such a bitch to these senior guys because they loved harrassing me about my views on liberalism. So eventually, I got so annoying without realizing it. This kid needs a friend. If people can't see that, they need to get a reality check. There are no statuses, it's just people, damn.

No...if he really liked you that much he'd break up with his girlfriend all by himself. Trust me. I have to keep telling myself this everytime I talk to the love of my life that has a girlfriend. :D

Yup! My sister has this odd over sweatage problem. She buys this deoterant called "CertainDri" It closes up her pores under her arms, so she doesn't sweat NEARLY as much. And then she just puts on a regular deoderant.

A nice pink would do you justice. If your eyes are blue, a pale blue dress would do you nice, however, it is winter, so something dark. Black looks nice on everyone, so that would work. Red will look nice on pale girls too. I'm extremely pale, but my hair's aulburn. So...red or black.

Those...are called headshots. As far as I know, you can get them done at any professional photo place. About the agencies? There are modeling agencies around you, just look in the phone book, and keep your ears open, because where I live, a "model agencey/acting/dancing" thing comes around to a ritzy hotel looking for new faces about once every three months.

Ummm...does she seem unhappy with her boyfriend? If your answer is no, then back the hell off of her. Because you and your friends don't have to do anything with him, or talk to him or kiss him or anything. It's not your choice, it's hers. Maybe she sees something different that you don't. Sorry to be blunt...but just because ya'll don't like him doesn't mean she can't.

My first "make out" thing I stressed and stressed, and everytime my boyfriend tried I just backed out, and one time he was just too quick for me. TRUUUUUST me. I know this sounds dumb, but it'll go alot better if you don't STRESS. Because as many times as people tell you, it DOES COME NATURALLY, IF YOU DON'T BACK OUT OF IT. And once it does happen, just have fun with it, and picture those movie stars you see making out, you'll be fine, I promise. PS. Just because your boyfriend has made out with anyone before doesn't make him any better. I know a guy I kissed a guy that has made out with about 30 girls, and he sucks really bad.

I'm personally not to big on the wiccan religion...or any religion actually. I've been looking into buddhism though...I'm liking that HOWEVER...

Wiccans...have a lot of goddesses...that's all I know about it. And their symbol is a star inside a circle, and I hear it's very sadistically gorgeous. BUT READ ON...

You need to ask yourself a few questions...

1. What made you give up your former religion to begin with.

2.What don't you like about it.

3.Why are you suddenly interested in finding a new religion.

I'm not saying religion is a bad thing, but I sometimes think people go into religions hoping to belong with people, and find something to ease their bordem, and curve their imagination.

My advice to you is think about what YOU believe in before you jump into a religion..because they can be decieving. Just figure out what you want in life, and what you truly think is going on, then find a religion that corresponds with that. Because most just go into a religion, and over time, their minds are warped, and they now believe to whatever "book" is holy. You're your universe. Click with the people who believe what you believe in. THEN find yourself a religion.

I have two maniac depressive friends. And guess what? They both aren't on drugs, and now after years of self evaluation, and self fixing, they are much better now, and are enjoying who they are without drugs in their diet period. Depression isn't cured by drugs, that is prolonguing the problem. I'm not saying you get a choice if you are depressed or not, but you have the opportunity to fix it. I can't tell you how, because according to them it's something you have to fix all by yourself. Good luck.

It couldn't hurt to tell him. But...hmm...especially if he's dating someone now, I wouldn't go all out with your feelings. However, with his words, I already predict the outcome of your spillage. To him...this is over, he likes you as just a friend. If you telling him you love him or like him or whatever, and he all up and changes his mind about you...that's not good...remember that.

I hate gaining really bad ratings for these questions...but I believe it's worth it. Um. I"M 5'6 and 128 pounds, and I'm not fat. And do you realize how many "am I fat" questions we get on this site a day? They're pointless. If you feel your fat, exercise and eat healthy. Don't eat nothing. Because then you'll look disgusting and pasty, and the whole point of you doing it will become pointless, cuz you'll look uglier than before.

It probably does mean he likes you. But here's the catch, he's your best friend's ex boyfriend. First of all, you need to find out who's feelings you are willing to hurt, his or hers. When I was about to go out with my best friend's ex boyfriend she started crying...I couldn't do it. And I loved him alot, but...hmmm....it's all in what you feel that should be done. As I can see now with the evidence of him being young and not having a calling card...and the distance and such...it's not going to be a great relationship, since you two can't see each other. Not even once a month...and the fact that he doesn't always have minutes...Yeah...you might want to wait this out a bit.

No. About...5th-6th guys hit that weird pre-pubescent sex making out stage. It's mostly all guys. They can't help it. It's part of their developing.

"I dunno, never thought about it..." Read that line over and over until you understand what he's after. Doesn't take a rocket scientist.

I honestly wish I had a great answer for you, to make myself seem great for overcoming one of the hardest situations in relationships...but I can't. I can tell you what's happend to me, and I'm going to try to make it as quick as possible, because I know how much people hate to hear other people's stories...when all you really want is your own fixed. This has actually happend to me...3 times. As I sit here and say this, I know none of this is going to help you. But, don't screw up his relationship. It's not worth it. Because then you're destroying someone's happiness to gain your own. As much as it hurts, just let it take it's course. Yeah, don't deny your feelings, but also don't try and shove your tongue down his mouth. If it is meant to work out...then it eventually will, until then, you have to suffer with the ache that is in your heart. Sometimes, though, it wasn't meant to work out. And that's just life. And tommorow, it's still gonna be roate.

What are you confused about? The height difference? You don't seem to be taller then him.

signed,
also confused

I would assuming that would mean the breaking of the hymen? aka in cheesy teenage terms..popping of the cherry?

If you like that whole..."half hearted" relationship. I mean...she's commited to someone, correct? If you want that open relationship feeling. And if she doesn't feel bad...it's completely horrible, and against MY morals, but I guess everyone is different.

All you need to know.

1. I'm very good at giving advice.
2. Asking for advice is just reassurance for yourself.
3. Period.

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