Question Posted Saturday November 13 2004, 10:56 am
Sorry this is long, i rate high though! :)
The guy i used to date over the summer on and off started REALLY hitting on me last night. He practically offered for me to have sex with him (dont worry, i wouldnt have sex, but i could tell he wanted to do something with me) Then he told off this person for me that was pissing me off. And he said i owed him one. And I asked what he wanted from me. And he said he wanted to make out with me. (Keep in mind this was online so we couldnt have made out right then and there) So i said ok, because i still have feelings for him. Then a little later i asked if he liked me, or just wanted to make out with me. And he said "I dunno, never thought about it..." What do you think about all of this? Should i go for it?
NYClilbabigrl answered Saturday November 13 2004, 5:43 pm: u can make out with him but dont do anything stupid cuz u dont even kno if u lyk him or not..nd if u think he have feelings for him then yeaa i think u should go for it..i hope i helped! [ NYClilbabigrl's advice column | Ask NYClilbabigrl A Question ]
BubbleGumFun23 answered Saturday November 13 2004, 2:01 pm: I wouldn't take the big leap to make out with him. Over the summer did he break up with you or you break up w/ him? This could totally change my answer. If you broke up with him, I wouldn't make out with him. If he did with you but was sorry for whatever reason he did and has changed I would make out with him. He wouldn't stick up for you if he didn't like you. [ BubbleGumFun23's advice column | Ask BubbleGumFun23 A Question ]
Ask_me_a_question answered Saturday November 13 2004, 1:56 pm: Hmmmm this is a toughie. It's probably not the best idea, expecially if you want to end up being his girlfriend. Because most relationships that start out as a hook-up type of thing arent that great and dont last very long. But if you know that you're not going to want to go out with him, then I suppose you have nothing to lose right? I just wouldnt get my hopes up, since he "never thought about" liking you. Hope I helped... ;)
xo Ask_Me [ Ask_me_a_question's advice column | Ask Ask_me_a_question A Question ]
lOsT_sOulx3 answered Saturday November 13 2004, 1:33 pm: i think he is the type of guy that cant get any girls so he gos for the grls that still like him and hes lonley and just needs someone but if you do something with him he well prob. go tell everyone and like not talk too you so just iggnor him [ lOsT_sOulx3's advice column | Ask lOsT_sOulx3 A Question ]
lalathepinkbunny answered Saturday November 13 2004, 12:29 pm: If he doesn't know about wehter he just wants some from you or if he likes you then he is probably just tryin to get ur goodies. I wouldn't go for it. He just obviously doesn't really care about you very much. All he wants is what you got. [ lalathepinkbunny's advice column | Ask lalathepinkbunny A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Saturday November 13 2004, 12:23 pm: You dont have to make out with him if you dont want to. If he has to think about if he likes you or not then that might mean that he doesnt like you.
Hope I helped!
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
iLjaG answered Saturday November 13 2004, 12:17 pm: No no no. You shouldn't go for that, can't you see that he is just using you? Don't even think about giving him what he think is "owed" to him. By his answer when you asked if he likes you, you can tell he is just some scumbag who wants some action. Find yourself a guy that won't do that to you, one that respects you and treats you nice. [ iLjaG's advice column | Ask iLjaG A Question ]
loochalo answered Saturday November 13 2004, 11:40 am: well if he really does like you then go for it but if he is just doing that becuz he wants to make out with you then he is not the true one. there are plenty of fish in the pond, find one that will respest you and lke you for you [ loochalo's advice column | Ask loochalo A Question ]
PryNcEzzLiSSa answered Saturday November 13 2004, 11:13 am: im in a situation similar to this...if u wanna know bout mine, drop one in my box, or IM me sumtime...but this isnt bout me here...so anywaez...if u want to...go for it!! as long as u dont have a boy friend right?!...and he doesnt have a girl either?!.. [ PryNcEzzLiSSa's advice column | Ask PryNcEzzLiSSa A Question ]
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