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i really like this boy and he knows i like him but im afraid to ask him wat he thinks of me,but i dont want to get rejected wat should i do.

get one of your friends to ask him for yew like one yew trust but not your bestfriend because then yew might as well ask him because then he would defidently know you sent her/him dont try to look too avalible but show that your interested & if he doesnt like yew thats his problem dont cry ova it hes not worth those tears babe :) good luck x3

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Me and my friend Jay have been very close friends since the 8th grade. We are Juniors in highschool now, and in the beginning of last year he became very attractive. I developed a crush on him, and recently it's become really intense. We've expressed some intress in one another, he used to like me at one point this year, and vice versa, but neither of us told eachother. (i found out from my friend). I've been itching to tell him how i feel, because we hang out almost every day and i just feel it necessary. But last week he told me, unexpectedly that he likes my best friend, lindsay. They never hang out, and if they ever do, it's with me. She already has two guys that she's with and it would bad of me to say this, but she really is in some way a slut. I don't know what to do. I've built up all of these emotions for Jay, and now i really cannot tell him about it. When he told me about his crush on Linds, i acted a bit weirded out and he caught on a bit. Since then we havent hung out or talked. What should i do?

well if you truely feel that then you should just come out and say how you feel & maybe he will focus his attention on you for a while & just dont worry about your friend because if he feels the same way about you ( which he probably does )he wont worry since it sounds like she has her men i hope every thing turns out peachy for yew ;)
good luck x3

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okay so whenever i wake up in the morning i always feel so nausious that i cant eat anything but it usually goes away by about 10...excpet sometimes it gets worse and i either throw up or are about to throw up...and its not because im hungry because i usually have like big midnight snacks and stuff so whats wrong wtih me

well i really dont know but maybe you should slow up on the stuff at midnight because then your just going to sleep on it , like your not working it off its just sitting there & sometimes like eating b4 you go 2 sleep could give you night mares sooooo it would be wayyyy better if you ate in the morning good luck x3

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JaDa*

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I'm thinking about making a cd with all the songs that make me think of the guy I like (much too weak a word, believe me) and then giving it too him, but I'm not sure what message that would send. We've been best friends for about five years, and while i'm willing to risk a great friendship for what i feel would be a better relationship, I don't want him to think i have a secret shrine to him in my closet (i don't, btw). any advice on how this might make him feel or the possible consequences to my following up on it?

15/f

well my thoughts are that you should make the cd & give it to him & say something like " Hey i know that we're really good friends but i want you to listen to this & tell me what you think of " or something like that then maybe if hes got a little bit of sense he would find the connection between him & the songs good luck x3

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JaDa*

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My question is:

I have a sports bike, a crotchrocket, and am wondering if I wear a jacket that says "chopper" would I look weird wearing it? Is it clashy? I know that if I wore a Harley helmet that says"Harley Davidson" than it would look weird. So I'm thinking the same anology aplies here, since a crotchrocket is definitely is not a chopper. Does any one know if I can wear a jacket like that? Money is not an issue, I just want to look put together on my bike. By the way, I'm a female.
Thanks!

i think your right you should probably not wear the jacket but you'll eventually find something that looks good with it good luck x3

hope i helped ya out

JaDa*

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How Come every body ask you questions about religon are you like a nun?

Signed Crazzzzzy 4 him

no im not a nun i really dont know but i g2 answer them & it usually works crazzzzzy 4 him


JaDa*

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what is the difference between being christian and catholic?

well christians & catholics have verrrry diff. beliefs like true christians belief that jesus was born of a virgin , died on the cross ,& rose again but i really wasnt payin attention in social studies so i kinda 4 got what catholics belief is but i know its like the total opposite of being a christian

hope i helped ya out

JaDa*

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Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."

I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.

Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.

Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.

Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.

I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway?

(A)well i guess you could just try 2 move on & get another bf because you dont wanna be with any one who will make you unconfortable or make you do sumthing you dont want 2 soooo just try to move on but still be friends (B) you could tell him how you feel & see what happens (C) just pretend you dont like him anymore & cry in private , & become a lonely old lady with 20 something cats OPTION C WAS A JOKE !!!!
but i really dont know what else 2 say good luck x3

hope i helped ya out

JaDa*

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I wanna dye my hair pink, but not permanent maybe like a week, or sumthing, but not more than 2 weeks. How can I do it? I mean like where can i find the dye? or can i do in naturally? with like with stuff i hav from my house? i heard coolaide (sp) works or sumthin! I hav dark brown hair, please help?1 thnx

hummmm well i know they have the stuff you could spray on at sallys beauty supply but i really dont know anything in your house you could use i tryed:-/
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JaDa*

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ok well 've never been tanning before like in a booth but i'd like to try it but i dont know what to wear can sombody please tell me?

wear a bikini or nothin bc it all depends what kinda tan you want good luck

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JaDa*

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13/f i like this guy but he's 16!! i don't know what to do!! we haven't really talked that much..but i know alot about him from his friends..i like love him so much!! what do i do?

well his age really doesn't matter but if you truely love him then then you should stay with him

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JaDa*

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Ok, so my hair is really REALLY dark brown and i was wondering -- do yall think if i got like, auburn highlights -- would it look good?

i need suggestions -- because i dont like how dark my hair is now -- its almost black! and i want to change it up a lil bit


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thanks -- & i rate high 4 GOOD answers..

well if your hair is almost black then you prolly don't want to get auburn highlights i would suggest blonde ;)

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JaDa*

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I'm questioning my faith
i'm not sure what it was in the first place really
um... but I think i'm just kind of having a bit of a crisis, not sure where to turn
I come from a semi-Christian background

hummmmmmmmmm well if you really are questioning your faith then you should pray about it & ask God to show a way

hope i helped ya out

JaDa*

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i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?

welp you could pray more, go 2 church as often as you can , read the bible ( reading exodus rite now:] ) & you could get involved in your church by doing things just for the joy of & it will all pay off if you are right in your heart :)

hope i helped ya out

JaDa*

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can anyone give me the sOng title that goes ..
im hanging by a moment here with you
..
anyone know it by any chance?

thank yah =) xoxo

ummmmmmmmmmm well lets think shall we oh yea its Hanging by a Moment

:) lol im not tryin 2 sound all smart about it

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JaDa*

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OK..I ALWAYS go to bed late. If I try to go to bed early, i still don't go to bed until about
3-4AM. I've tried not to stay on the computer and tried to clear my mind and everything and i still cant sleep. After that i have a tendancy to wake up a tiny bit late (10-11 AM)..And i mean a couple times i may get to bed if I'm lucky around 1AM..i dont know what to do and my mom just thinks that i stay up on purpose so she doesnt wanna help me..what do you thinks wrong?? is there anything to prevent this from happening anymore?? thanks!!!

well lets see you could lay down say 11/12/1 & make sure everything is off & lay down in the dark so you cant stay up really late by just
laying there & you can prove to your mom that ts not your faught soooooo

hope i helped ya out
JaDa*





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well i sing in my choir and i was wondering if anyone else was an alto or second soprano. i recently moved up to a higher choral group and was put in alto and i cant get used to it and i feel like less of a singer because im singing harmony instead of the melody. anyone have any experience?

wellllllllllll i have no expirence in this & im kinda confused soooooooo i know im not helping you & i guess .......... ok for real i don't know im sooooooooooooooooooooooo sorry i can't help you :-/

JaDa*

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okay ive known these girls for a very long time but this year we started to be best friends. we always did stuff with each other and had sleepovers every weekend. but lately they both have been getting mad at each other and they both turn to me to either invite over without the other or for advice. i feel uncomfortable because i don't want to get in the middle and i want to keep both for friends. i want to be as close as we used to be. how do i make that happen? help!

hummmm well its kinda complicated you should just sit them down and say " I want to be both of your friends but i don't want to be in the middle of this situation so if you could please work this out " idk if it'll work but you can try :)

hope i helped ya out
JaDa

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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx

ok well lets see i think you should tell both sets of parents , just set them down 2 by 2 or all together & just say something like , " Mom , Dad i really really love this boy & he feels the same way & i reallllly think we would be together along time & i would be really really hurt if we had to break up" ( notice how many times i said really lol ) but i hope it all works so ya'll can stay together :)

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um.. my boyfriend wants a lapdance from me.. im all for it but there's one problem.. i've never given one before so i dont really know how.. What do I do?

hummmmm well lets think , you should just sit him down & say , " Look baby i know you want this from me but i really don't know how & i don't want to look like a fool trying" , he should except your honesty , but if he doesn't you shouldn't get bent out of shape about it thats his problem !

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