about

You may call me Brittany.

But, do not call me Britney, Britany, Brittney, or any other form of my name.

Just Brittany, is fine.




I don't like my middle name so don't ask.




I'm 16. and i guess that's pretty sweet, huh?

Yea, I thought so too!







I reside in Decatur Illinois.

it's not the most interesting place.

BUT, we make the best of it!







I love helping people!

I'm a PROUD LIFESAVER AT MY HS!

St. Teresa! =]








I'm always late.

And, I don't like school.

It's pretty much a waste of time.

But, we all have to be there.. so minus well get over it.









I like to be myself.

And I like who I am when I'm with my friends.

I L0VE MY FRiENDS!

They are the best.








I like to sing in the shower, eat french fries, and dance in the rain.

I also like hockey games, chewing on straws, painting my nails, & talking to my sister.

We have a tendancy to be best friends sometimes.







I also have a tendency to enjoy doing jumping jacks and laughing.

yea, i like to laugh.. alot.

do you like to laugh?

I like to laugh!

And I fall for people easily.

Drinking Hot Chocolate is nice too.


I like to say and do random things, it's pretty sweet.

I enjoy talking to my friends on the phone for excess amounts of time.

Oh & staying up all night talking about stupid things.


I hate people who think they're better than you.

They're not.

No matter what they think, they're not.

You're just as amazing as the next person! =]






Hmm... I like rainy days, dancing in my underwear, scary movies, the color pink, and hugs.

I like my doggie, too.


I do NOT like Fried chicken, typically my x-boyfriends, stuck up girls, and overly judgemental people.








okay. that's about it cuties!

advice

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im trying to get it all fancy and stuff but its gunna take time ! lol

heres the link well the url

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and join if you want to if not ok

have a good night !!!!

sweet!! =D

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This might be a stupid question but here it goes...

I got a little sore/cut thing in my mouth a couple of days ago (I'm pretty sure it's from eating chips, because a little while after I ate them I felt the cut). It's healing pretty well, and it's almost gone. My question is though- do you think it would be ok to make out with my bf tomorrow? because I am going to be seeing him tomorrow (we haven't seen eachother in 2 weeks, because he went on vacation). I'm not sick or anything, but do you think it would be ok to make out with him?
Thanks I'll rate ya if you want me to.

hey babe, i think itd be fine to make out with your boyfriend. i mean, as long as its healing okay, i dont see why not! i say go for it darling! if it gets any worse afterwards, you should maybe try like coldsore medicine or something. but im sure its fun! have fun!

PLeAsE RAtE iF yOu WaNt! ♥

feel free to ask me anything else if you need my help ill be more than happy to help ya!

♥ Brittany

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okay, so me and my friend ryan met like a year ago i guess.
recently we were talking about relationships and stuff and he told me that he liked me, and i was like i like you to. and we talk and hang out with friends and stuff but he hasnt made a move or anything
does this mean he doesnt like me anymore?
THANKS FOR THE ADVICE

Maybe he's nervous, scared of rejection, shy, or doesnt wanna ruin what you two have as friends. OR maybe... he doenst want to put a move on you around all your friends. so maybe you should try to put a move on him. then if he acts like he doenst like it, then he might not like you, or maybe try to hang out just the 2 of you..then again you could always just as him about it.

hope i helped Love. if ya need anything else, feel free to ask ill be more than glad to help you out!

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Okey, my friend told me to ask this question. She has been shaving her mustach for about a year now..and it looks really bad!! what can she do? she cant wax because she gets rashes and for some reason it doesnt even work..and she cant tweez because there's too much hair. And she cant colour cuz it still shows..any suggestions?

okey first off.. anyone who says "my friend" is totally talking about themselves. so no i dont know what YOU could do. that pretty much sux big hairy mustachy looking balls for you. tehehe.

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Hey well i am like having all these problems with my mom and i love her very much but she just yells at me sometimes for like nothing and im really freaked out because she gets me mad and depressed i feel like killing myself or like cutting myself!

signed
Depressed little gurl

well first off you really should tell your mom that she's making you feel inferior and insecure. and that she makes you feel like she doesn't need you. your mom loves you. and i`m sure she wants only the best for you!! so just tell her you need to talk to her about it, without her getting mad and have her just listen. don't come off offensive, or mad. just tell her calmly and patiently EXACTLY what she's saying and doing that makes you feel mad and depressed and that sort of thing. and babydoll, try to think of better things to take your emotions out on! like listening to music, crying, excersing, eating.. i dont know. anything is better than cutting or thoughts of suicide. you can always talk to your friends about it too. just be safe!

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yesterday was the talent show at our school, and me, and my xbestfriend were both in it, but not together. she went before me, and i was right after her. when i got up on stage i saw her hug the boy i like. i almost choked on a high note. he's not my boyfriend but im still REALLY jealous and REALLY worried he's gonna start liking her. is this normal and what should i do?

hmm.. yea. i understand why your jealous. because a person you don't like is using a person you do like to make you feel that way. if that guy likes you and has respect for you, then maybe you should sit him down and tell him that it bugs you to see him hug her. she's obviously doing it to make you jealous. so don't let it show, or it'll make her feel better and then she'll do more things to aggitate you. x*bestfriends can be wayyyy bogus, sometimes. but shake it off! everything happens for a reason!!

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Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
i rate high!

hmm.. yea. i've totally wondered about that before. i mean, honestly. the media displays guys as more powerful and important people than woman and when their getting ass it makes them look good, but by us giving it out it degrades us. i don't get that. personally, i blame it on the media in the news, magazines, tv...everywhere. look around, our world is so sexist and everything else. for example, i was flipping through a magazine the other day and 2-5 of the ads displayed guys as being superior. one of them, had a guy with his hands on a womans face or whatever, and the woman looked helpless while he looked powerful. so who really knows?!

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tomorrow is my birthday but im not having a party cuz my parents r strict like that. family is coming over n stuff but see i havent talked to my best friend alice since the day before yesterday. i mean she knows its my b day tomorrow but idk if shes gonna come. should i invite her ne way? but i mean what would we do? its gonna be really gay ..please help. i rate even for effort. and i haven't even called her today, i dont know how to bring it up. ok thanks in advance! =)

hey hunny * happy early birthday! i think you should invite your friend! i`m sure she`d appreciate it. just call her tonight, and ask her what she's doin tomarrow, and then ask her if she'd like to come over for your birthday!

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theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!!

hey hunny * well, do you know why he's lying to you? Anyways, just tell him that you know he's lying. i know you dont want to confront him, but it's the best thing to do. Or catch him in one of his lies, and confuse him, then he might feel like you know exactly what's going on, and then he might tell you why or what he's lying about. or you could just ask him why he's lying to you and tell him you know. then again, you could also have one of his friends figure it out and ask them to tell you. but my biggest bit of advice for you is :: Guys that lie deserve a big good*bye! well hope i helped ask me nething else u might need!

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How do you get over a hangover?

hey hunny * you don't. only time can make it better. i learned that thru experience. but if i was you, try taking like advil or sumthin if ur head hurts.. or just go to sleep. that alwayz helps me. Happy New Year!*

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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?

hey hunny * well i don't know exactly what that means, i would say that your young, your naive, and your confused! not lesbian or that you like each other. maybe since you guys 'experimented' you feel like you should do it more often because of the thrill or excitement you got from it. but then again, if you don't think about guys any more and all you think about is her, maybe you do like her. you could also be bi! i guess, you should just keep doing the same thing you've been doing and see where your heart leads you. hope things work out.

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ok well like one of my friends is goin out wit the boy ive liked for 2 years n i went out wit him once in 4th grade n he was in love wit me n 5th n asked me out a couple times but like when i was about to answer like things would happen but i really wanna go out wit him soo bad so do u have ne ideas of what i should do or how to break them up?

thanks
*single but crushin big time*

hey hunny * well, yea its a crush! and i know how it feels. it hurts especially because your own friend, had the nerve to go out with the guy you liked! and i know ur probably feeling disgusted and just plain mad! but you got to try and deal with it. i mean, obviously he isn't to great if he didn't want you and decided to date YOUR friend! so just think of it like that, your better than her and him and you should tell your friend that she is nothing but a backstabber! because i would NEVER do that to my friend. dont worry about breaking them up, if she's your friend she will notice she made a mistake and then maybe just break up with him on her own. and if not, they probably won't go out long anyways, but just try *your* hardest to move on, meet sum1 new and better, and just hang out with your other friends. maybe by giving her the cold shoulder she will see that she really did make a mistake! wow! hope i helped! and i hope the rest of ur friend r better than that!

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In two of Blink 182's songs: Easy Target and All of This (numbers 11 and 12 on their latest album) the lyrics refer to a person called Holly "Holly let me out!" and "Use me holly, come on and use me." WHO is Holly?

hey hunny * yea i noticed that too, i was thinking that it must be one of their x's or maybe just someone who they were close to in the past? who knows. LoL.

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I dont get it, i have friends at school but on friday nights im always home or at a cheering game, my life is so boring and now that its 2005 I want to make it exciting. Everytime im on aim all of my friends away messages are up saying that they are at one anothers house. Should i maybe invite them somewhere so that I can start hanging out too? What if they already have plans, then what do I do? I need to get out more and spend time with teh people I want to spend time with. Im always hanging with guys or talking to them, im not a slut or anything just siometimes they are more fun to talk to.

hey hunny * okay i dont think ur a slut for hanging out with guys! i get along better with boys, than i do girls and so most of the time i would rather hang out with my guy friends than my girls. but i think that you should invite them over to your house, or something, and if they already have plans, then ask them why they don't invite you to go anywhere with them. tell them you don't like being left alone all the time on fridays and any other day of the week or weekend b/c it sux and its boring. i know how it feels, my friends used to do that to me also. but it was just a phase, so maybe your friends are the same way, and they'll get sick of each other and start including you more. and if all else fails, make new friends. from other schools or something then your chances of doing stuff on fridays and what not are higher because you will have more friends!!!! so i hope i helped ask me nething else u might need!

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My cat came to my house as a stray she is was declawed... i put her with my kitten he isnt neuterd she is getting fatter how can i tell she is pregnant?

hey hunny * if i was you i'd tell ur parents, and ask them what they think. tell them that she's been getting fatter and everything and so your thinking that maybe she's pregnant, and then if they think so to, or what have you, then i suggest taking her to the vet and finding out for sure. hope i helped.

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OK.. kind of a complicated situation.. I am currently dating this great guy.. hes 16.. and we just got through a temp. break up.. well.. today.. i found out my ex just moved back to his dads from tennesse.. he was the guy i lost my virginity to..hes now 18.. im 14.. i know im young.. but i love them both.. and i know they both like me.. the 16 year old is in love with me.. i found out the 18 year old was back today when i saw him walking.. i met up with him.. and gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek.. well.. we ended up in a french kiss.. i told him me n my boyfriend were broken up..

i dont feel bad about the kiss.. it was great.. but i feel bad that i lied to the guy i kissed..

i have to choose between these two guys.. who do u think i should choose?

hey hunny * first off, listen to your heart. whoever makes you happier or whoever you think about more than anything they're the one you need to be with. Personally, i think you should find out how the boy from Tennessee feels about you before you put your time and effort into making a relationship with him work out. Boys are boys just because you both engaged in a kiss doesn't mean he still loves you like he did before he was gone. I'm not tryin to sound mean so don't take that the wrong way! im just saying, you don't want to regret something later knowing you could have had a great relationship with your 16 year old who you clearly know cares about you compared to the 18 years old who just walked back in your life. not to mention your only 14 hunny, you have your WHOLE life ahead of you to make really important decisions about boys. But like i said just listen to your heart and do what you feel is best for you! hope i helped

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ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks

hey hunny * yes i think most people have those little white dots or streaks! i do! i have a lot of them actually. my mom told me it was because my body doesn't get enough Calcium! so maybe you should try to up the Calcium intake you get .. then see if that works. hope i helped! ask me anything else if u need too! Happy New Years!

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On new year's eve, I have to go to my grandparents for 3 days. I really don't want to go because they live a long way away from us and all my friends. The only way I will be able to keep in touch with my friends is through text message because they don't let me use their phone and I can't afford to call on mine. They don't even have a computer so their's no msn either. I know it's only three days but I am going to be so bored, what can I do to stay in touch with my friends apart from texting? There isn't any point writing letters because it's only three days.

hey hunny * heres my brilliant idea, maybe my not so brilliant idea! ha take it for whatever. Anyways, so you want to not be bored but still keep in touch with ur friends? well, if i was you i would meet some people your age that live by your grandparents! and hang out with them, that way your not bored, and then maybe they'd invite you over to their house and i'm sure they'd have a computer! so you'd be able to get on theirs to talk to your friends. i mean c'mon sounds pretty good right? new friends AND being able to talk to the ones back home? hope i helped. besta luck. have a GREAT new years. ask me nething if u need too. toodles Love

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Here's what's going on...
My boyfriend came over last night at around 2 and he was really drunk. He kept talking about how he had all this money, and he had this really nice lighter with him and he was really drunk. He told me that he took it from his best friend who had just gotten the money and lighter with his paycheck that he had gotten earlier. Well, my boyfriends friend keeps calling me looking for him, and I've been sworn to secrecy. Is there anything I can do to fix this? I really need help fast.

hey hunny * call your boyfriend. and you tell him that what he's doing is wrong. and he really needs to return whatever he took to his friend because his friend is calling you looking for it. and if he doesn't listen then you need to tell his friend. because your boyfriend it kind of using you as a way to hide himself from his friend. so get a hold of your boyfriend as SOON as you can! and tell him that you don't wanna be a part of what he's doing and you don't appreciate that he drug you into it, because that is exactly what he did! and if his friend calls again then you should tell him to stop calling you or tell him about your boyfriend and what he did. because you don't wanna be in the middle of it! wow. hope i helped. and good luck! feel free to ask me if u need nething * else! have a go0d x*mas darlin

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okay.. my boyfriend and i have been having sex for like two weeks now. and i just got my period. my boyfriend told my older sister that i'm not a virgin anymore. my sister has been telling on me for stupid shit lately. my mom walks into my room and she's like "you know you can get pregnant while on your period, right?" i was like "yeah" and she's like "you don't have sex right?" and im like "no i don't" and shes like "uh-huh" and walks out of my room. what do i do?! i'm scared to shit?!

hey sweetie * well don't lie to your parents..about anything. they are there to support you not be completely against everything you do. and if your close to your mom, then she will listen to what you have to say and understand you a lot better. come to her in a mature manner about it, and tell her that yes u had sex with him, and that you were sorry about not telling her before. then maybe she can take you to put you on birth control or w/e so at least your safe. ;). and about your boyfriend, if i was you, i would tell him to stop telling every one especially your sister about what you two do. because thats your guys' buisness, not your sisters. or your parents. and if he really cares about you and your relationship he won't tell your family what happens between you two! well hope i helped. besta luck! and be safe. and dont hesitate to ask me nething else if ya need to !! merry x*mas darlin!

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