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Okay so basically, I admitted to my friend that I thought I was confused about her, she said that she felt the same way. We used to talk all the time on the phone and stuff and once I told her I wanted her.. She said she wanted me too.. After that we met up and we had a lot of "moments" (looking into each others eyes, touching each others faces) then I asked her out and she said yes, we met up again and we kissed.. Three times.. I had never even dreamed of kissing a girl before yet, I liked it..but then I began to think it was wrong and broke up with her, but two days later, we met up again and had loads of "moments" :s my granny saw us hugging and lectured us about how it was wrong and made me feel so bad:(. Then after this we kissed again, then I kissed her:s then nothing happened for like a month but then we were at youthclub and we were hugging and she kissed me again, then I kissed her, then she kissed me:s we flirt quite a lot but we also fight quite alot too and don't speak to each other:s I am really confused now, she says that she is confused about me again and now I'm confused too.. I really don't know how I feel, sometimes I feel like it's wrong and stuff, but then sometimes I think about kissing her and stuff:s, my family would die if they knew:s even my mum read our messages once and she said that she thought that my friend like me more than a friend:s she was going to commit suicide and she kept telling me she loved me more than I would ever know..I talked her out of suicide and told her mum and stuff but she still says all the time "You hate me" and stuff, but I am really mean to her and I don't know why, I tell her I hate her and stuff, but I'm joking, I do realise that sometimes I can take a joke too far and when I think about what I say sometimes, I am horrible :s sorry for writing so much but I just need advice from people who don't know me and aren't like my friends, just fresh minds looking at my situation..:s we're both 13 and both girls:s (link)
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Well what sexuality are you? Bisexual? Lesbian? Including that would've been easier for me..
But anyways, I think you should just stay with her. It seems like she likes you very much and that you like her very much.. So why break up now? Sure you have fights, but you'll get through them. Every time you guys have a fight, try to stop it by saying something like "Can we please not fight?" or something else that you think might help.
Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo
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Okay, well I liked this guy in one of my classes, so I decided to talk to him first. I eventually gave him my cell phone number, which he actually texted me back, I was shocked. Things were going pretty great, we would text for hours at a time. Every day after class he would wait for me, we would walk to our next class together, he walked close to me, the body language was good (I know body language pretty well). We worked together in class, he would wave, and act shy and dorky around me even. A girl in our class would nudge him, grin, and joke about us when we would talk to each other, he even turned red. I was pretty sure he liked me, but then again I really don't have any good traits, I'm not pretty either, so I figured he probably didn't like me. My friend told him I liked him, he started acting weird, I asked if he was okay, he said he didn't feel good. For the first time he walked right past me, we have ALWAYS walked to class together. Plus he doesn't even really talk to anyone else in the school except me and a few others. I caught up with him, and asked if one of my friends told him anything today, he lied and said no, then I told him that I knew one did. Then he lied again, and said they just asked him if he knew me. He said he didn't mean to be rude, he just didn't feel well. Then he hugged me, which I didn't even hug back because to be honest I was pissed off (the lies) and depressed (....... obvious.......). Everyone around us said it seemed like he liked me, and stupid me I really thought he did. I used my friend's phone to tell him the I liked him, but I didn't want it to hurt our friendship. Later he wrote back, "It won't, but I only see you as a friend, sorry..."
We had alot in common, and I really liked him....... I'm absolutely heartbroken to say the least. I can't stop crying, and I didn't go to school today because I didn't want to burst out crying in class seeing him. I know it was bad, but to be honest I only stayed in that class because I actually thought he liked me, and that was the only time I ever see him in the school. Now I have to see him everyday. My mom thinks he might like me, but is scared because I don't think he has ever dated.
My self esteem was horrible before, now I just feel horrible....... why doesn't anyone like me except these people who absolutely disgust me or creep me out? Am I really that awful?
Please help, any advice, anything will help. :'[ (link)
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I know how bad you must feel after being told that the guy you like doesn't like you back. And since he said that, you have bad self esteem right?
That's normal. It's similar to being traumatized. You're just scared that everyone sees you as a horrible, ugly person right? Well there's no need to feel that way. You ARE beautiful. You ARE nice. Everything's fine; it's just that you're being paranoid. That's normal to.
All you need is time. You know what I usually do? I usually ignore that person for AWHILE. He'll confront you soon. It helps!
Good luck and take care :)
Bella xoxo
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How do I get a girl with me I have been rejected like three times and I'm 11 (link)
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You're still a kid. You're trying to grow up too fast!! Stop worrying about dating and worry about who's going to take the last cupcake.
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I'm 13 about a month ago I saw little red dots in my underwear and now I see them again I don't want to tell my mom unless it's my period?? Help?????
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Hi!
Well, mothers know everything about this sort of stuff - Besides, they are older! :)
Don't be afraid to ask her. It's nothing serious or severe, so you don't have to worry. If it was serious or severe, we'd all be freaking out right now!! :)
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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what is the best way to commit suicide of dying peacefully in your sleep in bed without any pain or side effects but will guarantee death. (link)
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Nobody here is going to tell you how to commit suicide. We're all going to tell you the same thing. Now, i'm going to tell you what an old friend told me (Well not THAT old.. I'm only 15):
You were brought onto this Earth for a reason. You're mean to learn, to care, to LOVE. You weren't brought onto this Earth to be full of sadness and hatred.
If you're in a crisis, you need to figure it out. If you don't like your life, you need some medication (Such as depression pills). Now I doubt you'll believe this, but it's true: There are people out there who love you SO much. You just don't pay attention to them.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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15 female
So I became best friends with my one friend, Katie, this year and we became as close as sisters. But she has a little brother, John, who is only a year younger but I think he's really cute and I kinda like him... The other day he messaged me on twitter and we talked and he gave me his number and stuff. I have talked to him in person a couple times but now we text all the time and we're kinda "talking". We decided to keep this a secret and I have not told anyone yet but I don't know if I should go for it or not because Katie's other friend became more than friends with John and Katie got mad. What do you think I should do? (link)
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I agree with Xenolen. Katie can't tell you who to date and who to not date. If I were you, i'd tell her that I like him. If she gets mad, ask her why she's mad. If she's mad at you, she'll get over it eventually. She can't stay mad forever.
Like Xenolen said, don't have a relationship with John behind Katie's back. That would be wrong. Plus, she'll eventually find out and won't ever be friends with you D:
So, to the conclusion: Tell Katie you like John.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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i want to have sex with my best friend but he doesn't know (link)
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I agree with AdviceMan.
I don't know your age, but i'm guessing you're both teenagers. Like AdviceMan said, it's probably horomones.
I'm not really going to go into detail, but i'll make it short and sweet: I suggest you don't do it. It'll most likely ruin your friendship.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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I have never experienced winter before, because I'm from Singapore (where it's summer all year round). So I'd like to know, what kind of boots should I get for winter while I'm holidaying in Europe somewhere late in december? It will get to -5 coldest.
I'd like to know if it is okay for me to get converse leather shoes for winter, but I'll be wearing wollen socks with it. Is that enough for winter? (link)
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Boots are in the Winter fashion, so i'd suggest boots! :)
But if you really like converse, you can wear those too. However, get it in a Winter color such as baby blue.
Good luck and have fun in Europe! :)
Bella xoxo
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so theres this boy i like named sam and everyone says we look like 'so' alike. oh and he has a gf. there is a rumor that they are gonna break up though. we always hangout and once things were crazy and we made out but he made me swear to not tell his gf. i really like him so should i ask him out?oh i am a girl and 14 (link)
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Imagine if he kissed another girl behind your back. Would you like that? I didn't think so. He's a cheater, so don't fall for him.
Honestly, I don't think he likes you. He would've broken up with his girlfriend.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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12 turning 13 / Female
Ok, so I'm in seventh grade and so is this other guy. Here's the story, he's from another school but we still see eachother everyday because our schools do 7thand 8th grade sports together so we go to waterpolo practice everyday. he's really funny and everry single guy is friends with him. Plus, its not like I'd ever feel awkward around him because I'm surpirisingly used to seeing guys in speedos everyday (im on a lot of swim teams) :) anyway so yeah just to give you an idea of him- great body, blonde, blue eyes, and his name is that of a sad taylor swift song about a little boy. He's reaally nice the only bad thing is this- my friends think he's weird. in the, always kinda hyper wierd. -his nickname's little creeper.- :) haha well anyway it's just that my friend is always saying how he's aalways staring at me and at our last game he smiled at me and then his friend asked me for my name and when I asked why he said oh, {his name} just wants to know. and at picture day he was standing next to me and my friends and then one of his friends said, 'wait which one?' and he was like, 'ssh! and he pulled them aside and when I 'casually' looked over they were looking at me. :) and then later at practice I accidentally hit him in the head with a ball and he yelled, 'ow who did that!' but when I said 'oh sorry that was me' he smiled and said it was ok. and then later when he wasjust fooling around throwing the ball on the roof and catching it when it came backdown I was underther roof of the canopy and he was looking at me the whole time and when I looked at him I blushed and looked away and I think he smiled. (link)
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I don't really know what your question is.. Is it that you don't know what to do because your friend doesn't like him? Well she should be happy for you. If she isn't, then you should be hanging out with someone else.
If your question is that you don't know if he likes you or not, well he does. Trust me! :) Ask him out while you can. I guarantee you he'll say yes!!
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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Hi I'm 19/F. Haven't gone out for halloween in five years but this year my friends and I from college residence are going to go trick-or-treating!!!!
Nothing sexy. I want things that will hopefully keep me warm. Affordable. I'd look good as a hot cop but that will not get me candy at people's door.
Costumes are about 90 bucks in stores and websites. The only thing I could think of is paper bag princess. Any ideas? (link)
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Ask your friends what they're doing. If you don't like their idea, talk to them about dressing up as a costume that will match! Like the Three Blind Mice.
Just ask around. That'll give you ideas for your costume! :)
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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So i went over my friends laura house, and we went to with these boys on their mopeds. Even though we wearnt supposed to. While we were on the mopeds we had stopped at this car wash. One of the cars that were getting washed had their car door open, the boy i was with had told me to hang out to the break, but i had already told him i dont know how to drive a moped but he didnt listen and he let me take control and that's when i recked the car door.
They called the police, and since im a miner they told me my parents will have to pay for it. Im not as worried about the money as i am about my dads dissapointment in me. I want to tell him i just dont know how, and how i should take it.. im 13 years old. (link)
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Just tell him. If he REALLY loves you, he'll understand. If he's disappointed in you, tell him it wasn't your fault and you don't know how to drive.
He can't be disappointed in you forever, you know. He'll eventually get over it.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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My boyfriend has super anger issues, i feel unsafe around him sometimes. I'm 7 months pregnant and i dont want the fighting around our baby girl. i'm not saying its only him but if he gets some kind of help it'll cool down the fight a lot. how can i have a calm conversation with him about him get help? (link)
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Hmmm... That seems kind of hard because he has really bad anger issues. But it'll be better for your little girl if he gets help. Take him out to dinner or something (Where he can't make too big of a scene) and tell him in the nicest way possible. Tell him stuff like "It'll be better for the baby".
Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo
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Hi, 24/f.
So, my boyfriend and I have been together about a year, and we live an hour or so apart. Because of the distance, and our insane work schedules, we don't see each other a whole lot. So when I have a three-day weekend, I pack up my kitty, and the two of us stay with him for awhile. We plan to move in together eventually.
He has a two-year-old German shepherd who outweighs me by about 15 pounds, so he's a big guy. I'm kinda falling in love with him and his sweet brown eyes, which is huge for me, as someone who's been afraid of dogs most of her life.
My cat is about five. She's my baby - as in, when something scares her, she runs to me instead of hiding, and she sleeps with me every night. Needless to say, I'd love our pets to get along.
My cat is afraid of EVERYTHING. She runs away from any open door, and is very easily startled. Right now, we're at my boyfriend's house watching the dogs, and my cat is in the basement. I hate it. I want her curled up on the couch next to me. I don't want to have to isolate her for fear that the big guy will rip her to shreds. I've seen him try to chase cats outside. He's very... determined.
How can we introduce them in a safe way so they can learn to get along and my boyfriend and I can live together without having to give up one of our fur-babies? :( (link)
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First, take them both out together. Your boyfriend's dog won't eat her, so don't worry.
If they don't get along, put your kitty in another room for a second to have a chat with your boyfriend. Talk to him about trying to see if your boyfriend's dog can go in another room at times, and your kitty has to too. It'll be hard, but it'll be good for your relationship.
You can also teach your kitty and his dog to get along somewhat. When they're getting into a fight, go up to his dog and say "No!" and point your finger at him. He should eventually stop. That's when you say "Good boy" and give him a treat! :)
Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo
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Ok, so I am 13 years old and I liked this guy, so my friend asked what he thought of me and he said he might go out with me. It turns out he was lying. He did it for the fun of it. He then said that I would never have a chance with him. He also said I would never find love or a boyfriend ever. Then what shocked me. He said that I come of very slutty and am a slut. I have NEVER had sex or even had a boyfriend. I was raised by good parents and always wear clothes that don't show too much cleavage or shorts that are too short. I don't wear that much makeup either. Recently I was called a slut again by my friends sister. I am always really nice to people and I don't understand why they all seem to hate me.. Am I a slut?? I am starting to believe it since a lot of people are saying it. (link)
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Hmmm... Lets see.
-Never had a boyfriend
-Raised by good parents
-Wears appropriate clothes
-Doesn't wear too much makeup
-Always nice
No. They are just being mean to you, and you friend's sister is just jealous.
Bella xoxo
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Alright, here is the deal, I am 17 going on 18. I am a single, female senior in High School. I decided to have sex when I was 16, I was peer pressured into it, and after that I told myself I would never do it again. Well, teenage hormones started pumping, so I called a friend, we hooked up twice. Then I ended up getting a boyfriend not to long afterwards, and about 3ish weeks into our relationship, I slept with him, well My Aunt and Uncle found out about this encounter, and I never told them, I didn't want to tell them, anyway, my uncle disowned me and every chance he gets he calls me a slut, and told me I don't deserve to live anymore. He doesn't want me around his children anymore because I am a "stupid cunt" IDK what to do ): I need help.... He won't let me move out until I am 18 and that's in 7 months, I don't think I can handle this verbal abuse... (link)
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That's not right for your own uncle to call you that. Yeah it's not nice, but it's not RIGHT. Once he calls you that again, just tell him to shut up. It seems mean, but he should get the vibe that you don't want to be called that again. If he has the right to call you a .... then you have a right to tell him to shut up.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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He had me pinned down on the couch. Holding my wrist with his firm grip, holding it with just enough pressure to hold me prisoner. The feeling was oddly comforting.
I felt my rushing pulse next to his steady slow one. I saw the look in his eyes and I knew. I knew what was about to happen and I knew after that one moment nothing would ever be the same for me.
I never fully processed what was happening until later that night and even then it didn’t feel real. The way I waited a lifetime of a few seconds as his head dropped, eyes never leaving mine, plunging into an unfamiliar world together. His warm breath spreading over my lips was the only thing I felt. The way the smell of his crisp after shave drafted to my nose. It made me shiver.
I felt frozen as he pressed his lips against mine. Feeding an unknown hunger and taking away my breath in an entirely different way. I felt his smile against my lips as I finally began to react. He knew all too well the reaction only he could emanate. He knew no other man could make me feel like this. He felt possession the way a man would knowing that I couldn’t control myself with him the way I do with the others. I'm sure it was probably another dick move of his but, in this moment that was the last thing on my mind, 'cause I didn’t even care. It felt good and I didn’t want him to stop. All too soon he released me. He started to move away but I didn't want it to end. I wrapped my arms around his neck and pulled him back to my impatient lips. He gripped my hips teasing the sensitive skin there. His feather like skims across my skin tingled wherever his gifted fingers made contact, searing. His touch, his smell, his confidence, or smugness I didn’t honestly care to find which it was he felt. I just felt him, all of him. Then he rested his head in the crook of my neck and whispered, "Later." (link)
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I'm a writer too, and I found this interesting. I would definately buy it if you published it. It seems a lot like one of those teen romance books :)
Good luck with your book!
Bella xoxo
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I met this really great guy who adores me. He is a genuinely good guy. We've been talking/dating for about 3 months now. I don't know if I want to be with him or not. He treats me with the utmost respect, and wants to meet my two year old daughter. He's great with kids, in school, never been in trouble, and working...but theres one problem. His pants are always practically at his ankles and I hate it. I've brought it up to him jokingly, but I don't know if he gets the hint. This really bothers me but is it worth giving up a good thing?
20/f (link)
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I'd just go up to him, pull his pants up, and say "There" then laugh. If you laugh, he won't take it as an offense.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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I don't know if im pregnant.But it looks like I am.when I breath in there is like an outline of a circle on my stomach.and it is hard.am I ? (link)
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Did you do IT? If so, you are. If not, you aren't.
But if you take a pregnancy test, you'll know.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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Im only 13 but so is he. The first time i saw him i thought he was really cute!! i talked to him and found out he is super nice and funny. He is really sweet but i want to know if he likes me. How can i get him to flirt back?? And i REALLY like him. Please respond!!! (link)
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Hi! Thanks for messaging me :)
I've been through the same crisis when I was your age (I'm almost 15) and I couldn't flirt at all! I wanted him to flirt back with me.
I decided to keep throwing compliments out there. Doing that will eventually make him flirt sooner or later. Sadly, you can't make him flirt - but you can lead him towards a path where he eventually will. That path is to compliment him a LOT.
Good luck!
Bella xoxo
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