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i want to have sex with my best friend
i want to have sex with my best friend but he doesn't know
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I agree with AdviceMan.
I don't know your age, but i'm guessing you're both teenagers. Like AdviceMan said, it's probably horomones.
I'm not really going to go into detail, but i'll make it short and sweet: I suggest you don't do it. It'll most likely ruin your friendship.
Good luck,
Bella xoxo
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Do you think that it would ruin your relationship if you guys were to have sex? If you don't think that it will than I don't see why you shouldn't tell him. Do you want something more than just friends from this? If your only looking for him to hook up with than I don't know if that would be a good idea. If you want to start a relationship than I would tell your best friend that.
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Since I do not know your ages it makes answering this question a bit difficult. I will assume for the purpose of my answer you are both young teenagers.
When it comes to sex we all come in to our own, so to speak, at different times. A lot of this has to do with puberty and hormones. More of it has to do with teachings both at home and at Church or Temple.
Then there is the fact that you are best friends. There are to sure ways to ruin a friendship. The first is to loan your best friend money. The second is to have sex with them.
Having sex with someone is a very intimate act. What if the sex is not as you expected. Men/boys always have performance anxieties. He is going to want to make sure he pleases you. If he doesn't how will you feel about him afterward.
Another problem boys have as well as men is the size of their penis. What if his penis is smaller than you expect? Will you laugh at him and run away? What if his penis is so large that you get scared and run away?
With a so called stranger, someone who is not his best friend first and then becomes his lover; these problems are not as important. But when you think about having sex with your best friend they become very important because not only does it make the sex bad or impossible. It makes it possible that you will lose your best friend.
I would not, all though I have desired to do so, have sex with my best friend. I grew up with her. We went through puberty together telling each other everything, something quite unusual for two people of opposite sexes. We dated once it was a disaster. We remained and still are best friends. Giving each other advice and shoulders to cry on.
I would love to have sex with her as she is a beautiful person both inside and out. We learned in trying to date that our relationship worked best if we remained friends and not to take it any further.
Her husband knows of our feelings for each other and is fine with it. He and I have become best friends too. Even though we now live thousands of miles apart we remain close thanks to the phone and the web.
My advice is if you want to remain best friends; keep having sex with him as a fantasy.
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welp, for me personally, i'm mad honest and would probably just let it "slip" one day that i totally wanted to hump the heck out of my best friend bahahaha but that isn't the advice i'd give you, start to pay attention to your friend, to see if they are interested.
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Are y'all intimate at all? Have you kissed or anything? If not that might come as a shock to him!
If you really like him in that way than my advice would be to slowly start being more touchy-feely with him and once he gets the point, (don't be subtle that doesn't work with men!) than maybe he will advance things along and you can get what you want! If you want a more direct approach, tell him you like him that way and maybe he will tell you he feels the same way!
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