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Boyfriend needs anger management before our baby
My boyfriend has super anger issues, i feel unsafe around him sometimes. I'm 7 months pregnant and i dont want the fighting around our baby girl. i'm not saying its only him but if he gets some kind of help it'll cool down the fight a lot. how can i have a calm conversation with him about him get help?
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I'm sure you don't want to hear this but you said it yourself; "i feel unsafe around him sometimes."
If you feel unsafe around him at any time then this is not a good place to raise you daughter or a safe place for either one of you to be unless or until he gets his anger under control.
Unfortunately this is one of those issues that he will not do willingly or be forced into. Even when court ordered into anger management course. Those with anger problems rarely change as this is one of those issues they have to want to do for themselves.
My advice to you is to move out to some place you feel safe. Not only will you and your daughter be safe, depending on how much love he has for you and your daughter this may be just what he needs to motivate him to get help for his anger issues.
Think about what sets him off now. Then think about how having a baby in the picture will be. Will this add to the stress that sets him off? If the answer is yes then you and your daughter are in danger and you need to move out now before the baby arrives.
For additional help I would like you to cal the following hot line. It is the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1−800−799−SAFE (7233). They will help you find a safe place for you and the baby.
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Hmmm... That seems kind of hard because he has really bad anger issues. But it'll be better for your little girl if he gets help. Take him out to dinner or something (Where he can't make too big of a scene) and tell him in the nicest way possible. Tell him stuff like "It'll be better for the baby".
Good luck and take care,
Bella xoxo
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