hola! :) well i'm Taylor and i'm 14 ( in the 9th grade )im a pretty understanding person and i get along with just about everyone and i love to make people laugh! nothing is better than smiling and laughing! :) my friends say im really crazy and funny so i guess that means im gud at makin ppl laugh haha! im alwayz willing to help anyone bout anything and im the one my friends alwayz come to with problems so i figured id get an advice column! im also a pretty honest person so i tell it like it is most of the time! i hope i can help all of yall! love yall all and have a splendid day! :)
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AIM: Babyxtx09
Member Since: June 30, 2004
Answers: 60
Last Update: July 20, 2004
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u seem like ur a saint!!! lol, have u ever been mean 2 anyone ever?! (link)
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yea who are you asking that too..?
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? (link)
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well it cud possibly be that he really didnt want to ruin the relationship.. maybe you just need to give him time and there might be something between yall! and yea there is a chance that he is thinkin bout u in a good way! even if he is just flirting he must like you in some way because of wut he did! but dont juz jump rite into it all.. give him some time and see where things go! i hope everything works out between yall! :)
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-*Tay
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* i've been going to the same school and i have alot of friends.. but im moving and going to a complete diff. school for high school~ so i dont know anybody there! and most of the people that are going to be a freshman at the high school im going to have gone from a middle school to the high school so they like know everybody.. I dont know how should i approach people i know when school starts up... and i deffinatly wana have friends to hang out with for lunch or something but i deffinatly want to get into the right group- im a preppy kinda grl~ not geeky * * sorry if that affends ne one.. so please help me on this~ thanks! (link)
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actually it mite be gud that ur coming in during bein a freshman.. cause even tho they all know each other everyone kind of splits up during freshman year since you meet SO many new ppl! so dont even worry bout bein scared cuz im sure the ppl who have been with those ppl there whole life are still even nervous bout goin into high school and not knowing anyone in their classes.. i mean im bout to be a freshman and im nervous but at the same time im excited to meet new ppl! so just put urself out there and dont be afraid to talk to new ppl and get to know them! im sure in no time youll have new friends! good luck!! :)
-*Tay
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mi best friend just told me that hes gay... and that is rally weird fir me.. i mean.. i should have known.. he is always the one who picks out mi clothes when where at the mall.. but i dont know how to deal with it.. im the only person hes told.. and i know he likes one of his friends.. should i tell his friend? should i act the same around him? (link)
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dont tell his friend.. if he wants him to know than thats his decision not yours.. but dont start acting diff around him either! i mean nothing has changed bout him besides now you know for a fact something you already suspected.. hes still the same guy whos been your best friend and itd prob hurt him a lot if you started treating him differently! im sure itll be hard to adjust at first to the fact of knowing hes gay but in time itll be normal to you and youll be glad you still have him as a best friend! hope i helped ya out!
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-*Tay
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Hi my names Jenipher and I really do need ur help, Im 15 and i just got back from Camp . I dated this one boy named Jack and i really do like him , but he broke up with me . And every time I see him with another gurl I go to my dorm and Cry, and I told him but he dosnt care, how do I get over him , Even my Best friend likes him too. How can I find the right guy ??? Plz help me!!!! asap!!!! Thanks WRITE BACK
Jenipher (link)
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aw im sorry gurl! it sounds like ur in a tough position! wut i suggest you do to help get over him is going out n meetin new ppl! and also dont concentrate on him as in thinkin bout him all the time and how hes hurt you! all that will do is make it worse! instead try doin somin like a hobby that you enjoy and itll take ur mind off of him! and there isnt an exact way to find Mr. Right! you juz gotta go out there and look for him! sometimes destiny brings him to ur doorstep and other times your the one to find him! who knows wutll happen? but good luck and i hope i helped ya!!
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-*Tay
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Hey My question is how do I get ppl to like mE? I knwo I'm supposed to "be myself" but what if I dont know who "myself" is? I mean I used to be friends with a lottttta people. but then high school comes along and suddenly I'm left at the bottom. Is there any way I can get back up?
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What do I do with these people that are nice when you guys are alone and ignore you when theyre with their friends?! (link)
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hmm well i guess it would be hard to be yourself if you didnt know who yourself is.. lol but thats the first thing.. figuring out who you are and what you want in a friend.. and there isnt ne right or wrong way to become friends! a lot of times it helps when u make ppl laugh.. then they want to be around you more cuz ur funny! so try makin other ppl laugh and seeing where that gets you! and ppl who are nice only when yall are alone but ignore you when yall around other ppl isnt the type of person you shud hang out with! you deserve someone that wants to talk to you and be around you alone and around other ppl! so if u have friends liek that try tellin them that u dont like it when they ignore you and see if they change.. if they dont then maybe you juz shudnt be friends with them nemore! well i hope i helped ya! :) good luck!
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one of my friends (a boy) asked me if he can sleep over my house sometime. He said he knows he has to meet my mom and that his parents would say yes. We havent hung out alot, but we are good friends. he said he can stay in toen longer than. I dont think he is the kind of boy into all "that". I trust him and everything and im really happy he wants to hang out with me and it would be hard for me to tell him no. I already told him he probably could. My mom said my other friend(boy) could once. i dont no if he really wants to hang out or if he just wants to so he can stay in town or for other reasons.....How should i aproach this situation and what should i tell him? How should i aproach my mom with the idea? (link)
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well if you feel comfortable bout him bein there and yall are gud friends then go ahead and let him come over.. ask your mom by just tellin her u have a guy friend that wants to stay over one night but u trust him and that you understand if she says no.. good luck!
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-*Tay
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my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
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try telling them that ur gud friends with both of them and u dont like bein the middle person in their fight.. make them get together and work it out.. im sure everything will turn out alright! good luck!
-*Tay
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I work with mostly guys, and they're all really nice, but I'm a girl so I'm not sure how much they want to know about all my issues. Like today, one of them said I looked kind of down. I lied and told him I was fine, even though really I'm on my period and had cramps and my boobs were hurting and I had one tampon left that I had to hope lasted the rest of the day. Is that the sort of stuff that I should always just keep to myself, or you think I could just let it out and see what happens? (link)
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well i wudnt go into all that with em.. that stuff usually grosses out guys and scares em away but its alright to juz say u arent feelin so gud that day! i mean guys are humans too.. its not like u cant talk to them bout normal stuff.. but just make sure u dont go too deep into gurl stuff and freak them out!
-*Tay
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i really liked this guy..n we were flirting at thiz carnival thing..he slapped my butt like 2-3 timez..n i thought it waz flirting..but he waz flirting with almost EVERY girl there..n then we started talking alot more..but then..we suddenly stopped becuz sumone waz in between me n him from hooking up..but now itz all kool between me n that person..but now me n the guy dont even talk any more!! i feel dumb..i went to one of hiz gamez..n he waz really surprised to see me..but..i think we dont have a "connection" anymore..wat shood i do? (link)
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try talking to him and gettin to know each other again! if yall had a thing for each other once b4 then im sure it can come back! good luck!
-*Tay
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I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.
Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.
Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation. (link)
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just trying tellin her that u like talking to her and stuff but at the same time ur a guy urself and u dont really like hearing bout others guys 24/7.. let her know its not that you dont like her as a friend but u juz want yall to talk bout other stuff rather than guys she likes.. im sure shell understand cause i bet she wudnt like it if you talked bout other gurls all the time.. good luck!
-*Tay
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My Situation is that I am different. I have a small webbing on my left foot. Its not like an ugly one or anything it's just different. And that is one of the things that I dont like... being different. I'm someone who wants to be perfect. I wish every day that i didnt have it. But wishing wont do anything. I've gone to a surgery place to see what they could do about it but they said that a standard proceedure like that will cost $5,000 and I dont have that much money. At school I cover it up by taping band-aids around it. Then when people ask what happened I tell them that its none of their business. But this gets very old. Am I stupid for feeling this way? (link)
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everyone has things bout them they dont like! so just learn to accept it and love it! its only a small thing compared to all the other beautiful things about you so anybody who wud judge you on something that small has something wrong with them! so be proud and keep smiling!
-*Tay
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Me and this guy we have a great connection between us we were goin out but then last night when the topic arose we started talking about how he'll be 18 soon and it'd be illegal for us to do anything (im 15). So pretty much we held out the offer of (keeping everything between me and him) friends with benifits. I care so much for him that i wouldn't let him go, so i said ok (hasitation but thats pretty much it) Only think is i'm not all for friends with benifits i'd rather be dating because benifits confuse me...i don't know what to do...please help? (link)
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yall might as well just be together cause itll be illegal for yall to be friends with benefits too cuz thats still doing stuff.. so just stay together and be happy with each other
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-*Tay
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Ok, here's my situation, I really care for this guy who is turning 18 in July and im 15. Me and him both really care So0o much for each other and know this only my parents don't liek the fact that hes turning 18 soon and that hes black...we don't want to stop doing what we're doing with the worry of my parents putting a Restaining order on him or have him sent to jail. What do I do? Is it legall to date him with out parental consultance at 16? (link)
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i really dont know bout if its legal or not so i cant help you on that one.. but i use to date a black guy and my parents didnt approve and it was extremely hard on the both of us.. finally we decided that it was juz best we left my parents out of it.. i mean they knew about us but basically i just didnt tell them nething bout my life and kept it at that.. so if yall truly care for each other then try to keep yalls relationship going.. i mean dont lie to ur parents but at the same time dont go around talkin bout him all the time cause that wud be disrespectful to ur parents.. i hope it works out for yall and yall are able to over come this and work it out!
-*Tay
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OK i'm not blonde but it's just an expression. I think this is how people see me... just a dumb brunette. A lot of people say that I remind them of Jessica Simpson. In some ways I'm flattered (shes pretty, nice, funny, has an amazing husband) but also she acts ditzy. I know I do a lot of the time too but it isnt on purpose. I say things being serious and others think I'm joking... when really I dont know. Also whenever I'm hanging out with people I am ALWAYS the person who gets made fun of. I try not to let it bother me and I know I dont show it that often. what do I do with this?? (link)
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yes im considered ditzy by my friends too.. and i was the one who alwayz got made fun of but finally i got fed up and i made them sit down n listen to me.. i told em that if they were really my friends then they wudnt keep making fun of me.. everyone can be ditzy at times and im really not its juz i say stuff at the moment as i see it.. i cant help it its juz the way i am.. so i told them it hurt me and they apoligized and they dont do it nemore.. i mean sure they still make fun of me but not more than i make fun of them.. so juz try talkin to ur friends and lettin them know how you feel! hopefully theyll listen and everything will work out in the end!
-*Tay
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Ok i need some help. I'm 15, 5'2, kinda pretty I guess?? not the prettiest and not the ugliest girl in the school. The problem is that I'm shy. I know people tell me this all the time. I'm not shy around my friends at all, but when it comes to meeting new people I just dont know what to talk about! Nothing comes to mind when I'm around new people. and i dont want to say something stupid like "wow the weather is nice" or whatever. Help me! What should I say?? How do I become more outgoing with people? I think If i were more outgoing I might meet new people and meet new friends. am i right or wrong? (link)
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okay i can relate cuz i use to be the same exact way.. im alwayz atleast a lil shy when u first meet me but ive gotten better.. wut helped me was hanging out with outgoing ppl.. all my best friends are far from shy and outgoing so its made me be the same way.. whenever i talk to someone new i say the most random things.. like i dont know.. just whatever may pop into my head at the moment.. no matter how stupid it is lol.. sometimes it helps if its random and stupid cuz then it makes them laugh and that helps break the ice and make it a lot easier to talk! try telling a story bout somin funny that happened to you that day or last week or WHENEVER! as long as it makes ppl then ur set to go! lol i hope i helped ya!
-*Tay
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well my friend really annoys me should i tell her that or what (link)
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well just kinda tell her gentley that there are things bout her that get on ur nerves.. i mean dont be hateful bout it but juz let her know that there are some things that maybe she should work on changing
-*Tay
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OK i have a major problem!!! I'm a big flirt and I just love guys. The problem is that whenever they end up falling for me back I end up stop liking them! Whats wrong with me?! I mean I DID like them a lot!! but then suddenly it stops... i dont know what to do. I have a feeling that it has something to do with like this other guy and he's never liked me enough to go out with me (but he told me that he has liked me a lot). I dont know what to do... please help (link)
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my friend is the same way.. maybe its just that u want a challenge.. like its just a game to you.. you have fun flirting with the guy but then once he falls for u the challenge has dissapeared and so has the fun.. u want a guy who entertains you and keeps you interested.. thats prob why you like that guy so much cause you havent managed to get him to go out with you yet and so you keep on trying cause he entertains you.. but since he seems to be the only one who can hold you for that long then u shud focus on tryin to go out with him cause he seems like the type that can keep you interested.. my friend (( the one whos the same way )) helped me with this so since she knows wut shes talkin bout hopefully it helped u! good luck! :)
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OK, my guy friend for many years has a friend. I hung out with them the other day and I think I'm falling for his friend. He is totally hott, nice, funny, and i feel like i could talk to him forever!! I barely know him so I'm probly getting ahead of myself but I'm crazy about him. I dont know what to do!! He goes to another school also. I have his sn but I've never talked to him before. We werent really flirting that night we hung out so I have no idea how he feels. I also know that he used to go out with this other girl at MY school so I know he dates outside of his own school... but then again he broke up with her so maybe the distance between schools is too hard for him?? I dont know I need advise desperately!!!!!
x0x0 --- Head*over*heals (link)
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whoa slow down lol its great that you found a guy u like so much but dont go totally crazy over him just yet! start talkin to him online and find out his phone number and try calling him! once yall start talking more you can try asking him what he feels for you! and just cause he broke up with his other g/f that went to ur school doesnt mean it was just teh distance.. there a million other reasons that they cud of broke up cuz of so dont jump to conclusions! who knows? maybe yall cud be a really gud couple! but u wont know till u talk to him more and ask him if he wud ever want more between yall! good luck and i hope i helped!
-*Tay
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hey i know this is kinda low but i like this boy but i really dont like his looks i know i shouldnt even care about that but when i see him in person i run or dont look at him i mean he is so sweet and would probly be a great boyfriend to me but i just couldnt really see me going out places with him plus my boyfriend now hates him i mean they almost got into a fight but i mean i talk to him online and everything but in person its a whole different story and i mean i dont know how to deal with this and i mean my friends dont like him they all think hes just a hard ass that is all talk i really need some advice what do you think i should do? .. katie :( (link)
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thats alwayz a hard one.. cause they can have the best personality in the world but no matter wut ppl say looks do matter atleast a little so dont feel bad cuz it bothers you that he isnt the best looking guy in the world.. but first decide if you like him or ur boyfriend more.. if you like ur b/f that you have rite now more than it doesnt matter bout the other guy cuz u already got a guy of ur own! but if u like the other guy more than maybe u really shud try lookin past the looks.. ppl alwayz are more beautiful once u get to know them! cause thats wut really matters is the personality.. looks may fade but who they are remains the same! and who cares wut ur friends say? if u do care bout him enuf then ull tell ur friends to juz try n be happy for u that u found a guy u like and cares bout u! good luck!
-*Tay
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