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WHats wrong with me?!?!?!
OK i have a major problem!!! I'm a big flirt and I just love guys. The problem is that whenever they end up falling for me back I end up stop liking them! Whats wrong with me?! I mean I DID like them a lot!! but then suddenly it stops... i dont know what to do. I have a feeling that it has something to do with like this other guy and he's never liked me enough to go out with me (but he told me that he has liked me a lot). I dont know what to do... please help
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You like flirting and making the guy like you or want you. It's an ol saying...."We always want what we can't have." You want thesse guys to like you and once they do you don't care for them anymore. As for the other guy....talk to him cuz yall mihgt have sumthings incommon ~KiSsEs~
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OMG. You sound SO much like I was in 9th grade!
You probably like the chase, and not the actual relationship. You've gotta find a guy that you like that likes you back, that you can date while still feeling like you have a crush on him, and are not just kind of...with him. It worked for me. I've been in my current relationship for almost 8 months and I still feel like I have a "crush" on my boyfriend. Like I still get butterflies when I hear his voice on the other end of the phone line...
You've gotta find a guy like that, and you'll be all set. Good luck!
-Siren =)
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I think that you just like the thrill of the chase. You like flirting and making the guy like you or want you. Personally i dont mind doing that either. But if you like this other guy then i suggest to be with him and just figure out whats going on with you 2.
-MIZZ_C
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I've been in your situation before, I mysefl am a BIG flirt. But flirting doesnt mean that you really liked them, its just a simple crush that doesnt last long and doesn't really effect your love life. Flirting is is just attention we all need and when things get too personal things between the 2(+) people change and the "flirt" just moves on. Nothing is wrong with you, it happens to everyone at some point mostly more than just once. Simple tell the guy(s) that start to like you back that you don't like them like that, your just friends that flirt and hang out. Hope that helps!
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my friend is the same way.. maybe its just that u want a challenge.. like its just a game to you.. you have fun flirting with the guy but then once he falls for u the challenge has dissapeared and so has the fun.. u want a guy who entertains you and keeps you interested.. thats prob why you like that guy so much cause you havent managed to get him to go out with you yet and so you keep on trying cause he entertains you.. but since he seems to be the only one who can hold you for that long then u shud focus on tryin to go out with him cause he seems like the type that can keep you interested.. my friend (( the one whos the same way )) helped me with this so since she knows wut shes talkin bout hopefully it helped u! good luck! :)
-*Tay
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Maybe you crave attention from guys, and when you get it, your satisfied, so you give up. Either that or u just had "lust" that happened to go away when they fall for you because your challenge is gone
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