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Q: My parents keep on telling me that i could lose a few pounds! I'm not fat or anything either and it stresses me out cause my life is already hectick enough! Help please! what should i do about that?
Thanks,
Stressed Out
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i dont know if this will help but i would tell my parents, that i will loose pounds if i want. if u want just go for it. dont get stressed... stressing over stuff like that will just make it worse. just go with your heart if you agree with your parents go for it just do what u want to do!
hope i was helpful!
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: look i all my friends say i have like no style, i kinda agree. i dont wear bad ugly stuff but just sorta plain jane stuff. but they keep telling my all this stuff about i have no style, is it them or me? please help!
from
styleless and confuzed...
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sry ur askin the wrong person... im not a fashion person i just wear comfortable things. sometimes they look good together.
sry i couldnt help u!
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Q: my parents fight over EVERYTHING! one day i moved the toaster in the kitchen and my dad thought my mom did it so he yelled at her. my mom calmly said that it was me, and it wasnt anything to be upset about, but he called her a lying tramp. i was scared b/c a lot of my friend's parents are divorced, and my parents always told me about what a strong family we are. i cry a lot about it, and then my parents find out and start fighting over who's fault it was. how can i get it to stop?
-Caught in Chaos
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dear caught in chaos,
i cant really help you. but all i can do is say its not your fault. You cant really help what your parents are fighting over. Sometimes you cant stop it. it just like a storm. in your case maybe a hurricane. just let it blow through. and if it doesnt blow through in a while ask for help from a neighbor or family member or even teacher if you are desperate. i know this advice sux. i wish i could help you more than i did. hope i helped a little.
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: ok i told some of my friends that i had a boy friend and it is a total lie. should i keep this to myself or should i tell them that i know what i did was bad and aopligize? If i apoligize then im afraid that it will ruin our friendship, but if i dont then they might find out and that will be bad to. IM JUST SOO CONFUSED!
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DEAR CONFUSED,
if it were me i would tell my friends that i lied. if they are true friends the will forgive you. because if you keep the lie to yourself and they find out that ill definately make it worse. i hope i helped you problem.
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: I'm going to high school next year and all my friends are going to a different school. I won't know anybody. I don't want to be the classs loser loser all through high school because I don't have any friends.What do I do?
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ya some of my friends are going to a different high school too. i would just say try to make new friends. i just moved to Katy this summer so i didnt know anyone and i just made new friends. hope i helped. if you cant make new friends, whatever you dont make imaginary friends! :) lol!
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: i have this friend who's really nice and sweet one on one, but whenever my boyfriend and i hang out she always pushes her way into what we are doing and tells me to do things like feel him(in a bad way). i talked to her about it and she said she would stop but she hasn't. also, she always flirts with hims and uses "i had such a bad day, can i have a hug?" as an excuse to get close to him, or she'll talk really softly so he has to lean in close to her. my boyfriend hates her, but shes obsessed with him! whenever my boyfriend and i try to go somewhere that doesn't include her, she always makes her way into the scene and starts flirting again! its like she wants to go out with my boyfriend than she wants to hang out with me. how do i get her to back off?
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Dear Good friend but wrong times,
This is tough because i have never had a boyfriend, but ill try to give you a good answer. Um... What i would do would be speak to my boyfriend. I would say to tell her himself to back off. sure it might hurt her a little but thats what i would do. that way she could stay mad at him and leave you alone. Or if that doesnt work, both of you talk to her and tell her she needs to give you some space. I mean she must like him a lot. the better girl got him first!!! ;) sometimes friends can be like that, they can be jealous that you are spending more time with someone else instead of the person you always spend time with. well thats all i could say, i would be better if i had been in a situation like that, but i havent even gone out with a guy. i hope i helped you. im still new at this advice thing. you are the first one to leave something in my inbox for me. thank you!
if this sux leave me a 1 i dont care. just be truthful. i hope your friend problem gets better i would hate a friend buzzin around while i want to be left alone with my BF. Sorry i couldnt give you more advice.
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: Is there a way on dead aim that you can talk while still being away?
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do u have 5.9 becaus on aim 5.9 if you press the eye it makes you look like you signed off on everyones list but you can still talk! if you dont have it and you really want to do this upgrade it!
hope i helped you with your problem!
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: hey im 15 and never had a boyfriend, and not even kissed someone, and all my friends have! i dont hang around with any guys, so how can i meet a guy?
thanxz for the help
♥
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sometimes you meet a guy when u least expect it. like in the halls, in a mall or just walking down the street. my advice would be go with friends to a lot of places, places where you would meet guys maybe from your school. that way you would see them everyday, and you would get a chance to talk. im 14 and like you havent kissed any guy and i dont have any guy friends.
so you're not the only one. i would just start with saying hi. that will go a long way, most of the time!
hope i helped you!
BWLNG FR SP FAN!
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Q: every time i run the mile for P.E. i get these painful cramps while running and even if i stretch before running i still get cramps. what type of stretches should i use to prevent the cramps?
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sometimes i get cramps too! all i do is drink water, stretch a little, drink after the mile then stretch some more so i dont pull something. thats what i do to prevent cramps.
hope it helped!
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: my family owes the bank alot of money and i wanna help them. i'm only 13 so what can i do to help them get money? please help, this is important
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this probably wont help but ill try to make it help! what i would do is go to the neighbors and like cut lawns and clean windows and stuff. sure its a lot of work but it will at least give you some money. i seriously hope it helped. im not having good luck with this advice giving thing. hope your situation gets better!
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: Me and my brother both bought Betta Splendens. (Better known as-Siamese Fighting Fish) We wanted to know how much to feed them we bought tiny pellets that they have at the pet store. We both have males so they cannot be together. How much do we feed them a day? How much do we change their water and any other basics? Thanks.
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i hope i can answer this good enough to help. i had a chinese fighting fish for a year, well it seemed like it. anyway, enough about my crap about me! i usually fed mine 3 pellets a day and cleaned his bowl every week! You HAVE to clean it once every week or it wont be able to breathe. that how i accidently killed mine. oops. well hope i helped. im knew at this advice thing.
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: i'm trying to name my new kitten that i got a few days ago.
She's a simease mix, does anyone have a good name to name her? ( It's a girl! )
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well i have 2 dogs. so i dont think i can come up with a cat name, but i was playing the sims one day and i bought a siamese cat for them. so a great name for that cat was SUSHI! i just think thats a good name for siamese cats! well i gotta run! hope my advice was helpful!
~BWLNG FR SP FAN~
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Q: every time i try to burn my music onto a blank cd-r cd using windows media player, when i click copy it says "insert blank cd-r" and i DID insert a BLANK CD-R, and it IS in the right drive, but it still doesnt recognize it. why, and what can i do?
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i tried to burn cd's but it never worked. it did burn though. read what kind of disc your computer burns. there are a lot of different kinds. once you do that just go buy like ten of that kind of cd and then try. thats all i can tell you because thats all i know. sry. hope i helped more than i thought i did!
~BWLNG FR SP FAN~
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Q: hey guys i didnt know what to put this under but, i want to get a tan this spring break since im not going anywhere. the thing is m, my mom doesnt want me to go in a tanning bed. what are some ways i can convince her to let me go? thanks anyone that replies!
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well you dont have to go to a tanning bed. because that can cause cancer. when i need to tan i just put LOTS AND LOTS of sunscreen on and lay in the sun with my dogs. it takes longer but it wont cause cancer as fast. hope you got the right answer you needed!
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: i cannot stand my life anymore. i am 13 and NEVER had a boyfriend. my friend is 12 and has had 7 boyfriends and hooked up with 2. i feel like if i stay so lonely then i will seriously die of a broken heart. i watch my friend hook up with her boyfriend and wonder why wont anyone do that to me? why? im pretty, im sweet, im nice, im flirty. why the fuck am i single and prude? i tried to get my so called 'friend' to find me a boyfriend. she told me 'find your own goddamn boyfriend' i cant stand this. she wants a guy, she gets him, why cant she help a poor innocent girl who will die of loneliness find a boyfriend to love and who loves her? please help what can i do to get a boyfriend and not be so lonely and depressed? thanks sooooo much
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I AM WITH YOU! I AM 14 AND HAVE NEVER KISSED A GUY! and then some of my 7th and even 6th grade friends have had more than 5 boyfriends! what is up with this world? everyone is like "omg he's my boyfriend" "oh im going out with him" its a mad house! i can't even get a guy to be a good friend. i sometimes feel alone also! but one day i said please let me meet a guy that is nice likes the same stuff i do and just would like me for the way i am, and in that week i met a guy that is just that. we aren't together or anything, but i think next year will be good!
my advice would just to wait. everyone will get their guy or girl at a different time. you just have to wait until its your time. you'll know when it happens.
hope this helped!
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Q: I play se;ect soccer. I get really really nervous before games and i don't know how not to be. I won't eat anything and i won't talk and i need a way to make my stomaach not hurt before a game and to be less nervous and calm!! Please help thanSS!!
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Now what kind of soccer is this? se;ect? or is that just a typo? anyway, I play soccer. It's a fun sport. I love it! If I'm ever nervous, I just take deep breaths and say it's just a game, nothing is going to happen. That's all I do and I'm calm. Then I kick butt!
:)
Hope it helped,
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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Member Since: March 19, 2005 Answers: 36 Last Update: August 24, 2005 Visitors: 3521
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