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Good friend but wrong times
i have this friend who's really nice and sweet one on one, but whenever my boyfriend and i hang out she always pushes her way into what we are doing and tells me to do things like feel him(in a bad way). i talked to her about it and she said she would stop but she hasn't. also, she always flirts with hims and uses "i had such a bad day, can i have a hug?" as an excuse to get close to him, or she'll talk really softly so he has to lean in close to her. my boyfriend hates her, but shes obsessed with him! whenever my boyfriend and i try to go somewhere that doesn't include her, she always makes her way into the scene and starts flirting again! its like she wants to go out with my boyfriend than she wants to hang out with me. how do i get her to back off?
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Dear Good friend but wrong times,
This is tough because i have never had a boyfriend, but ill try to give you a good answer. Um... What i would do would be speak to my boyfriend. I would say to tell her himself to back off. sure it might hurt her a little but thats what i would do. that way she could stay mad at him and leave you alone. Or if that doesnt work, both of you talk to her and tell her she needs to give you some space. I mean she must like him a lot. the better girl got him first!!! ;) sometimes friends can be like that, they can be jealous that you are spending more time with someone else instead of the person you always spend time with. well thats all i could say, i would be better if i had been in a situation like that, but i havent even gone out with a guy. i hope i helped you. im still new at this advice thing. you are the first one to leave something in my inbox for me. thank you!
if this sux leave me a 1 i dont care. just be truthful. i hope your friend problem gets better i would hate a friend buzzin around while i want to be left alone with my BF. Sorry i couldnt give you more advice.
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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