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Hey guys, I'm Maddie. Yes, my advicenators name is ridiculously dorky.ask anything :-)
I'm fifteen and as far as I know, I give pretty good advice, to anyone, about mostly anything.
So ask, and rate, if you don't mind :-D.
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hi i was wondering whats the age that u should be giving gys blow jobs like im 13 so am i ready?
~Jess~
If you're questioning whether you're ready, then you probably aren't. It's sort of a big step, so you must be REALLY sure. Also 13 is quite young but that differs for everyone i suppose.
Whats a good first day of skool outfight exspesicaly if your going to a new skool next year!?
Your question's a little vague, but a cute tank top and jeans works. Really whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident :)
OK, this may seem weird, but it's something that really scares me. Im really scared of being kidnapped. Now that it is summer, i really need to keep my window open, but what if someone cut the screen? If my parents are already in bed, I go around the house, checking to make sure every door is locked. I wanna stop being afraid. Am i being way too paranoid? HELP ME !!! I RATE HIGH
I went through this thing some years ago :)... being kidnapped is a frightening idea, but chances are it won't happen to you. This fright is most likely just a stage, so for now I suggest doing whatever makes you feel safe until the feeling passes... it worked for me :) feel better dear
me nd my bf have broken up at least 5times nd gotten bak 2gether..nd this last time wen i broke up w/ him(which will def. be the last)..it jst seemed like he didnt care at all..nd he was acting suspicious before i broke up w/ him..now hes not talking to me..idk wats goin on..or wat 2 do..wat do u think?
not too sound meanly insensitive, but this guy sounds like a jackass. obviously I don't know either of you, but it sounds like maybe he just lost interest. Sorry, and good luck with this kid.
xxx
Im trying to burn a cd w/ a used cd. It wont let me delete anything that is already on it. The "attributes" says its a read only. I need to know how to change "read only" to something else so i can delete the songs i dont want. I give 5s to anything that works! thank you so much!
Sorry, no way to do that :( in order to be able to erase and rewrite, you need to use a CD-RW rather than a CD-R. RW is for rewritable, which means you can delete and add anything you want. You can buy them pretty much anywhere where you buy blanks, but they are a little more expensive. Good luck!
xo Maddie
Okaywhen im in bed at night my cat will lie down next to me and start feeling my hair with her paws and purring.. squeezing her paws together and apart.. then when she's done she'll lie at the end of my bad.. but there's all this cat drool in my hair! What is my cat doing, and why the heck is she doing it?
haha, its just LOVING YOU, that's all. most do. hehe
xo Maddie
i know i have dreams.. i just cant remember any of them! they are nightmares and they wake me up.. i think about them for awhile.. then i go back to sleep but when i wake up again i dont remember them anymore i just know i had a dream because i remmeber waking up.. is this weird?
write them down, silly : ) and if you dont have paper and pen, what I do is just say everything you remember out loud before you go back to sleep, because its always easier to remember things you said rather than things you thought. hope i helped :)
xo Maddie
I really like this guy but I cant tell if he likes me. Can a guy or someone tell me how to know if some one likes you!PLZ. hes always flirting with me and stuff but i cant tell!!!!
As a general rule, "always flirting"=crush of some description
=)
xo Me
ok i havent gotten my period yet this month but it seems like i never have a regular period cycle..and my boyfriend and me were like messing around at his house but i was just giving him a handjob but he cumed but not on me....and i dont think it was any whree near me...and i was expecting my period around the 13 or 14 or around there and me and my boyfriend just recently did this stuff like a few days before the 13...is it possible to be pregnant? but i didnt get morning sickness or anything..
As long as nothing got near you (meaning inside you) it's impossible to be pregnant.
There's this boy I like and we've been through a lot together and he's acted SO much like he likes me but now he's telling me that he only likes me as a friend. He even said he thinks of me as a sister and his best friend. But he acts so much like he likes me but then, people constantly tell him that he needs/should go out with me/ask me out/etc. He cares about what people think and he's tired of everyone pressuring him to go out with me and it contradicts how he acts around me. We talk a lot and he initiates it a lot and we flirt at times(not nearly as much as before, we used to flirt 24/7) but sometimes he's also kind of mean to me. And when I confront him about being mean to me, he's always really sorry and feels bad about it genuinely. But I'm tired of all these mixed messages and signals and the changes in behavior. I just don't know what to do. If anyone could give me some advice about my situation, I'd be really thankful and also, if anyone could tell me any and all signs that a guy likes you, I'd be doubly thankful. Thanks so much.
Mixed signals, but it sounds, just from that short description, that he likes you but is nervous and tired of other people telling him what to do. So drop hints... or just ask him out, if you are a little daring. Good luck.
xO Maddie
Ok so I love my boyfriend very much ..like alot..I mean really I do..but my friend who is a girl adn is seriously attracted to me and I like her kinda really wants to make out with me and I kinda wanna make out with her to..but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend..what should I do..and I already talked to him and he goes "I love you and I trust you and it takes alot to hurt me" sooo im sooooo lost..please help me!
I think the fact that you're bisexual (just fine) just makes the situation look more complicated than it really is. Think, if you only liked guys, would you just go off and make out with some other guy? Just putting the situation in perspective... I personally wouldn't cause technically this is 'cheating', but if all of you are truly okay with it, than it's all you. (Also, your boyfriend may be hurt but not be showing it, so be careful.)
good luck
xo Maddie
Well, I'm a little unsure if I should be upset or not.
Okay. Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now and I found out a few months ago that I was not his "first" (talking about making out.) He was mine without a doubt. But it's not just that i'm not his first that upsets me, it's with who. It's this girl from another school named elena. She's a slut and she knows it. My boyfriend "didn't even like her" he claims. But, what concerns me is that if he didn't like her, what if he made out with me and he "doesn't even like me." Am I upset over a stupid thing? Because if I am I want to not ruin our relationship over something so stupid.
Once again,
Retro_Romance
This is a common problem... it's pretty normal to be worrying about this, even though it doesn't matter much. You've heard this a zillion times, don't think about who he's kissed before, he's kissing you now. As for 'not really liking you' its unlikely, darling, althought I don't know the situation in its entirety. So do your best to put the past behind you, and enjoy what you have now.
xo Maddie
My roommate has been in the hospital for almost a week now. It started out as a tooth ache, and turned into a ballooned up face. It's something that's usually pretty routine, and fixed by a week or so of penicillin and a root canal, but the penicillin din't work and it only got worse very quickly.
She feels really ugly because of her face, and has been worrying because of her tooth. Instead of just a root canal, they may have to pull the entire tooth, and it's a tooth near the front of her mouth.
I've been to see her off and on, her family has been coming, even as far as a few states over, and her boyfriend has been at the hospital pretty much non-stop so that she isn't alone there.
I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of things that I could do for her to make her feel better.
Just be incredibly nice to her... do all the little cute things that will make her feel better. Balloons, music, gifts, flowers, and CHOCOLATE : )
You know the drill.
Good luck!
xo Maddie
Is it neccesary, in Witchcraft,or Wicca, To cast a cirlce even while doing a simple spell??Please answer, i need help.
Here, I've done a little of this a few years ago, and what I know is that any spell will work if you have good intentions. There is not usually a definite method for any certain spell, but casting a circle is a spiritual opening that gets you into the right mood and supposedly summons the correct spirits, etc.
So in a shorter form, nothing is 'necessary' in doing a spell, but casting a circle is just something normally done and a tradition of sorts.
So have some fun : )
xo Maddie
Ok, my head hurts really bad. Its not a headache ( I know when I have a headache) and Its kind of a weird feeling, like my head is a melon and everytime I lay down or bend over, my head feels like its goign to fall off. My nose is all stuffy and I have no idea if I am getting sick or what. What do you think this is, the flu? What should I take (over the counter) to help me get better? Thanks
I think you may just have a head cold. Take cold medications, and see what goes on later. If it gets bad, see a doctor if you can.
Get better!
xo Me
hey how'd you get your rainbow colors on your site?i don't want the rainbow, but do they have any different patterns?
Hmm... I cant remember exactly where I got mine, but 2 places you can get them is 1.)In the toolbar on advicenators, near the bottom, click 'page backgrounds'
also, Heathersanimations.com has cute graphics and backgrounds...
good luck :-*
xo Me
Well i'm a 16 year old girl, whose pretty,fun,and popular and I have alot of friends.But there is a problem that most people don't really see as a problem;i'm italian.Not everyone at my school, but a group of people constantly make jokes to me about my heritage.It all started on the first week on school when we had to write a paper about ourselfs (favorites,ethnic background,religion,ect.) so people could get to know us.well i put in there I was italian,and right after the class these girls came up to me and asked if my dad was in the mafia!what the hell is that about?no body has any respect now adays,and i guess it has to do with shows like the gottis and the sopranos(even tho i love them!) who give people the impression ALL italian-americans are like that,and that all italian-americans have dads like tony soprano.what should I do to get rid of this stigma and situation?thanks alot and I'll rate u a 5 if u don't act all bitchy about it!=)
Wow, these people sound EXTREMELY ignorant. They are waaaaaaaaaaaay below you, a LOT. Flip them off, or just walk away. They're not worth your time.
i used to live in florida but then my dad got transfered to pennsylvania.i had tons of friends at my old school but i dont fit in at my new school.i sit with the popular people and i thought they were my friends but then i found out they have been going to the movies and stuff.they just dont call me to hang out they call everyone but me!what the hell?they treat me like a friend at school so why not include me?for valentines day they all wore these really cute pink shirts that are matching. and im the only one at their table who didnt hav the matching shirt.then they were talking about stuff that happened at the mall. i just sat there like how can you be so mean when im sitting right here.
what should i do?????????
should i talk to them about?
should i sit with a different group at lunch??
please help i rate high just for answering!
This sounds like a very cliquey situation, so it's tough. You have two options: try really hard to be part of the group, or just find new friends. Option two is most likely the best, because trying too hard is kind of a lose-lose situation; either they think you're trying too hard or they ignore you.... so probably find some new friends who will accept you.
Thanks love
xo ask me
heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall!
Well you can "go out" because there's nothing legally or physically binding about that... but he can't have sex with you because that is statutory rape.
So have fun i guess..
xo ask_me
i really liked this guy and he asked me out again last night, but i'm not as happy as i thought i would be. does that mean i dont like him?
Sorry this answer is so late... I haven't been advicing in a while...
Meh. This sort of happened to me. A first impression, or in this case reaction, does not always tell all. Maybe you are'nt really all that interested, but you could just have been in a bad mood that day, or something like that.
Well, of course I'm sure this problem is over with, so sorry...
xo Ask_ME