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Well im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both gonna be senior's this year. I know its weird cause im only 16 but i skipped a grade. We are both very popular. He is the best football play and im the captain of the cheerleading squad and the whole nine yards. Well we had sex for the second time a week or two ago. I was suppose to start my period two days ago and I took a test and im pregnant. I am so scared. I dont know how to tell him or my parents and i dont know if i want to keep it. Someon please help (link)
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First of all, make sure your parents are in a good mood. Get them both together and have them sit down. Maybe you could try saying this, "Mom, dad, you know I love you and respect your decisions for my life, and I know you are there for me every step of the way. Well right now is a time when I am really going to need you there every step of the way." Then explain to them that you are pregnant. The good thing about that speech is that 1) you acknowledge that you respect and love them, and 2) you make it clear that you need their help. Your parents may not be happy with you-they may be furious. But they will cool down. You could perhaps ask them to take a "week cooling period". Suggest that during this week they think about what they are going to do-and what you should do. My suggestion on what to do, however, is to not abort the baby. The baby is a human being whether inside of you or out. You will be destroying a precious human life. You may hate the thought of having a baby now, but as you grow and mature, this child will mean more to you than you could ever imagine. Good luck with this! Leave any more questions you may have in my inbox! I am always happy to help!
-Amy
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i feel like i'm going into depression! my life seems like its getting worse everydaY!! i will NEVER cut tho! just the thought makes me feel ick! but i dont no wut to do! i lost my b/f recently and i dont no.. i feel like nothing good is happening! what should i do? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. I'm guessing your at LEAST a teenager, and with that comes the hard facts of life-disappointment, heartbreak, failure-things that we all face. Remember, do not dwell on the past. As much as you want to go back in time and change everything and bring the good times back, you CANNOT take back time...but you do have control over your future. Also, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent (Eleanor Roosevelt said this). I recently went through a situation where I was abused by my now ex bf who I loved very much. I am out of that situation now, but as a result I became extremely depressed and my grades dropped, and I started losing friends because I was always depressed and no fun to be with. It was a horrible 6 months to get through, but I stuck it out, and now I am happy. Sure, I have bad days, days where I come home and just want to sob. But I also have great days where I just want to dance and run around in circles screaming with joy!!! Keep your head up high, do things that you like to do-the little things can make you feel better, whether its going for a walk in the rain, eating ice cream, or dancing to your favorite song. Remember good things WILL happen...you just have to stick it out.
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how do i know if i need a bra? (link)
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If you are in 6th-7th grade, and if you like alligators.
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me and my bestfriend seat with our friends at lunch but we found out they r the most boring people! what can we do to get away form them w/o hurting there feelings? (link)
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They are your friends, right? Then how come they are suddenly boring? I suggest doing something crazy first, or asking interesting questions-strike up some interesting conversation (but don't get too touchy with your questions)---if that doesn't work, why don't you move to another table with other people there---and if you are worried about hurting their feelings, invite them to come with you---at least you will have other people there to make things fun!
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ok well i have this one friend well she's more like my best friend but anyways there was some bad shit going on in my family and i didn't know how to handle it and well so i cut. and i meen now she's soooo mad at me for doing that when i told her i would neevr do it again like 50 times. but it just helps you feel better! what should i do i really don't want to loose my friend anymore then i alreayd have! (link)
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Well, if you are seriously not going to cut yourself anymore, then tell her that! But if you are, do not lie to her. I am not going to tell you what to do, but my advice is to not cut. I did that shit, and it only leads to more inward pain.
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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me! (link)
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dump his ass
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how can i get the guts up to ask my mom for tampons? (link)
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Just...ask...she KNOWS your a girl.
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how do you give a hickey? (link)
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well, you basically suck with your lips and i guess a little of your teeth until you bruise the skin...ya oww sistah!
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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else? (link)
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Go out with him. Go out with him. Must I repeat it...GO OUT WITH HIM!!! NERDS ARE AWESOME. They are into stuff the "mainstream" guys aren't. Drawing, eccentric movies, underground bands. Go for him, must I repeat it!!! If you like him, it shouldn't matter what others think.
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my room is soo boring! i have a dresser, a big desk for homework and all this other stuff, plus 2 twin beds and a small closet! the walls are white and the landlord wont let me paint them, how can i make my room look better? dont say whatever you want, say real stuff!!! thanks a bunch! (link)
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Well a simple way to spice up your room is to add POSTERS!!! You can get special kind of putty so that you won't put holes in your walls so your landlord won't be mad. Umm...try adding funky carpets, lamps, etc. You can find cute things at Target!
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uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ? (link)
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Well, the first reaction would be to tear that...*****...apart...but don't. Ok first, make sure you're right about it..if she was just trying to hug him, its probably nothing. But if it was a full out lip smacking fiasco, then you need to TALK to your friend. Tell her how it makes you feel, and tell her to BACK off.
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My mom always complains about me never being home. She says that she thinks that i dont love her and only want to talk to her when i want something. (im sure everyone is gonna say that their mom is like that too), but are there any ways that i can 'hang out' or spend time with my mom with still being able to be as social and hang out with my friends as much as i do? please give me some ideas to have fun with my mom (i know that sounds lame) but i know it would help me to be able to do more stuff. (link)
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Hey, I had this problem to!!! Well, some good ideas to hang out with your mom would be:
1) Go to the movies
2) Go see a play with her
3) Go to the mall
4) Go to a restaurant
5) Take a walk together
6) Take a drive together
Just do things that you know she likes also, because that would mean alot to her!! And you can still have social time. Another idea would be to set aside, say, every Thursday and have that be "Mom and me" time (sounds lame and corny but hey it works!) Hope I helped!
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my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean?? (link)
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People get that sometimes..its just a muscle spasm i think..i wouldnt worry about it unless 1) its hurting you or 2) its really bothering you or 3) its happening alot...if its any of these,I would suggest seeing a doctor:) Hope I helped!
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