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Location: Ny
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Age: 14
Member Since: February 22, 2005
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Last Update: October 4, 2005
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Ok my dad lives in Atlanta Georgia and he doesnt send me anything like money and he said he would.I want a flip phone and my mom wont get it for me and i wanna ask my dad can he send me some money so i can get one. Is that being rude??? he needs 2 start sending me it or my mom is really going 2 get mad. So how do i tell him all this????
well thanx
signed,
Dont Know What To Do (link)
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I dont think it is rude to ask your dad for money. I mean you ask your mom right? he is your dad be like dad you said you would give me money and really want this flip phone. Write him a letteror call him. Your not being rude at all. BTW he is suppose to be paying childcare!! they have places out there that can help you can the money you deserve. Just search google. Do this if he does not agree to pay the money!! good luck hoped I helped please rate this advice thanks x0ox
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Ok, Me and this guy just hooked up yesterday. Well today at school I didn't seem him very much and everytime we would talk he was like why arent you talking to me and i was like well i havent seen you and stuff like that. But still everytime he asks me that. what should I do. Please answer soon I need to know what you guys this for tomorrow (link)
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Okay well tell him I never get to see you in school lets have a meeting place between classes where we can talk. If your in the same grade or eat together talk at lunch too, then he wont get mad becasue he will be happy you; tried to think of ways to see each other. Good luck hope I helped pleases rate this advice thanks xox0
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there is this girl i really like in my science class. shes kinda out of my leauge but i cant get her outta my mind! ive asked her out but she said no but i dont know why. what should i do? (link)
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The girl probably is embarassed of what people would think if she went out with you or maybe she just doesnt like you. Its tough becasue she is always on your mind. The best thing you can do is just be yourself, try to be nice do everything you can to get her to like you good luck =) xo0x hope i helped please rate this advice thanks
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there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me? (link)
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He's deff embarassed he is afraid of waht people think. You are like the girl in the movie "A walk to remember" dont let him get away having a secret relationship and if he really loves you then he shouldnt be embarrassed to be with you. Also, ask this question to yourself "did he go out with other people and make it public?" good luck i hope i helped xo0xo
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I got a prom dress for my Senior Promt his year last year when they were on sale. My mom made me get it a size bigger tha I am thinking I would grow into it over the year but I haven't. So I was wondering how much do you think it would cost to get it taken in about a half a inch. thanx for any help (link)
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Hey trust me its not going to cost muuch to get your dress hemmed. If it has alot of beading and very fancy I would say it would be about 15-25 but that would probably be the most. Thats how much my sisters prom dress cost to be hemmed a little bit. But remeber all places are different I hope I helped xo0x
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Hi, Im looking for a good fudge recipe. Does anyone have one? (link)
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Hey well I always made fudge thats pretty good from the recipe on the back of the fluff bottle. Good luck xo0x
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Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female. (link)
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Hey my sister babysits 2 children and she charges $8-10 an hour. I think that is a good amount. Its not to little that you wont be able to afford anything and you are not asking for that much. Good luck =) xo0ox
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well u c theres this one kid who is a good friend of mine that im constantly thinking about all the time, i think im starting to like him a lot, but i dont want to like him, and i dont no what to do, every time i think about him i tell my self not to but i cant help it. i cant concentrate on my classwork. ohh ya and im a f/13
and hes a m/14. i really dont want to like him that way, but now i cant help it. what do i do?!?!?!
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Okay you like him but you dont want to you just want to be friends. Its hard to stop not liking him. But if you really dont just try to think of something else you like.Think of him as like a brother or something so you dont have those kind of feelings. If that doesnt help then its true love. I hope I helped xxo0
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My name is Kayla and I'm 13 years old. I started my period not too long ago. But I have skipped about 3. Is this normal for me? I don't want to be able to not have children or anything? Is it serious? Please help. (link)
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This is normal! You dont have to worry must girls dont begin there monthly cycle after a year or so (from first getting it)your body just skips around becasue they are just getting use to it.
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i have this best friend and she is really cool and ive nown her for awhile. but then this other friend comes and she is really cool to but she makes me feel like a third wheel..i dont no if i should talk to my friend or what. i really really need help! its driving me crazy.thanks. (link)
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Alot of people have been in this type of situation and I know its hard. I would try to hang out with your other friend that came in. Try to get to know her. Heres an example well I was in a friendship of 2 then this new girl came she was nice and all but I didnt feel like myself anymore. I finally talked to the new girl about it and she felt the same way we became closer because of that. Try to hang out with her and just tell her she will understand trustt me! This will help build your friendship too =) good luck xo0x
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ok there's this new kid in my skool , nd he's in everyone of my classes, nd he chose to sit next to me in every one of them. but the thing is i lik him , and he's alwayz flirtin wit me , nd i flirt bak. but when he came here , me nd my b/f juss started goin out,nd som1 tld me tht he liked me bak. and everyone says tht we would mak a good couple. but the other day my best friend saw my b/f kiss his ex-gf , nd he said he didnt,so wut should i do? Should i break up wit my b/f , nd go out wit the new kid? or Should i give my b/f another chance, nd juss be friends wit the new kid? nd im 13/f
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OKay you have alot of tough decisons. I would ask your b/f about the kissing of his ex and if he has a good reason why (which I doubt) then you should give him another chance. If he doesnt then dont because that means he would still have feelings for his ex and you dont want to be in the middle of it. If you really want to stay with your b/f dont break up with him. If you feel you have to go out with the new kid (you really like him) I would go out with him. Its all up to you but thats my advice. Good luck =) x0ox
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Is it normal for girls to have there period for 2 days.
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Yes it is normal people have it for all different lengths of time.
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i just need opinions about things, me and my bf have been together for over a year, and i was at his house looking for paper and i found a letter from another girl. in the past we did have problems and he liked another girl but we were still together. i never knew he had this but since i found it and read it, it kinda made me mad that he kept it over 6 months since the problems. so i took it home and tore it up. i know for a fact he wont know its gone, but if he were to confront me about it, was it a good reason that i took it from him? or should i tell him before anything were to happen? thanx. (link)
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I think it was a good reason to take it. I would because your mad that he still has it around. I dont think he will ask you if you tore it up because then if he asks, and it wasnt you then he`ll feel angry with himself that you know he has this letter still. If he asks just say I was just mad when I saw it and I wanted to get rid of it. He will understand you are his g/f good luck hope I helped xo0xo
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my stepdad... well he 'touched' my sister alot. like every night. my sister ended up moving away to live with mu dad. he has done it to me once when he was drunk. but that was years ago... the thing is, i'm confused cause i find myself defending him. i told one oof my friends and i keep saying that he was drunk, didn't know what he was doing, etc. why am i doing this??? i am fairly close to my stepdad (in a non sexual way) and i hate my sister badmouthing him. i dont know why. Please help me!!! (link)
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OKay this is a tough situation. I know its natural to defend someone you know so well. Even though you dont like what they do you dont want them making fun of them like a sibling; you always have to stick up for them. Tell your friends I dont want to talk about this. Tell them to stop this hasn't happend in so long. Even though it is defending it will help get rid of this topic. If your friend dont stop find a new one. Tell your sister you dont need to badmouth our stepdad. If you dont like him jusyt ignore him!
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im 14 with a 2 year old 1/2 sister. i love her to death but sometimes i get fed up. i only see her every other weekend but if im trying to do my homework shes always trying to play with me. I feel bad to leave her, and i always feel im obligated to stay. my dad and stepmom dont really help no matter how much i stress i need to do my home work (link)
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Okay since you see her every other weekend talk to your dad and stepmom. Say I have alot of homework maybe they can do something with her. Its not going to take that much time. You just need some alone time to do your work. Or you could tell your parents I have to do work now I can play with her for the rest of the weekend. Good luck =) xo0
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Ok, there is this guy in my class. I really really like him, cuz hes a good guy and stuff. But each time I try to talk to him he just looks at me and turns red and acts like he doesnt even know me. Does he like me or does he just hate me? (link)
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I think that guy in your class is embarassed. He probably likes you and doesnt know what to say. Try to approach him cassually. If you can talk online or privately. I doubt he hates you if he does then find someone new.Good luck =) xox
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ok im 13 and i wanna no should i care what people think? theres a guy i really like and he asked me out but he's like a 7! i need answers! (link)
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It doesnt matter what people think. If you take that attitude you will never be yourself. If everyone gets worried about what people think there would be no diversity. Who cares if hes 7 adults that date are sometimes like 20 years apart. If you like him go for it. But if you really dont want to (not b/c of what people say) dont go for it. good luck =) xo0xo
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I can do sprints, I'm fast at that, but I dread the mile because it's hard for me. does anyone know how to get in shape for long distance running? (link)
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OKay I know people that are great athletes that can only do short distant races. Thats okay there are people that cannot do long distance running. It does not mean you are not in shape. Try running in incremennts of quater miles. Run a 1/4 mile for a few days. Then 2/4 for a few days until eventually you are able to run the mile. Dont worry all people have different talents the mile run might not be yours but you can try! good luck =) xo0xo
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ok...over the summer I talked to this guy who was a year older than me like every night for hours. I liked him alot, looking back more that I thought. Anyway, when we started going to school together, it got really weird, and about tow months into the school year he got a girlfriend and would rub it in my face. He told his friends he just wanted me because "you're hot and are gona be really really hot when you're older." Needless to say, we don't talk anymore. Now, one of his REALLY cute best friends is IMing me, and I'm scared. I don't wanna get hurt again, but gosh this guys seems cool. What should I do about both guys? (link)
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First of, get rid of the guy you first met. Think of his friend as a new beginning. Dont just talk to him online and never at school. If he really wants to be your friend you cant ignore eachother at school. Dont let him break your heart. Take it slow and tell him right out are you just doinf this because "i`m hot and i`ll be cute when I get older?"
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my boyfriend hugged me for the first time... and it was awesome!!! the only problem was that we were both hesitant... we just stood there looking at each other... bye the way... we're both VERY shy... he says he is gonna hug me again... but he is going to surprise me... how can i make it so im not hesitant?? thanks ! (link)
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This is hard and it feels very akward. Act like he is a bff that you have not seen in so long. You will want to hug him so bad. Try not to be shy with him. Spend alot of time talking on the phone to grow closer. Good luck =) xo0
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