Member Since: July 14, 2004 Answers: 51 Last Update: September 3, 2004 Visitors: 3505
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i was talking to this guy i like (he likes me too)about personal stuff, and he said that he was more submissive. and it was really random...do you think he was trying to tell me something, like getting me to make the first move? or was he just saying that. (link)
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Hmmm... sounds kind of confusing ! but i've been in your place before!
Did you knwo that about 80% of guys would prefer that the girl made the first move? i didnt until i recived some email online. but its true i asked soem of my guy frineds and they woudl totally prefer not having the pressure of makin the first move! I think he's trying to tell you that he wants you to move in maybe get a little closer...
You say he likes you so why not jsut go for it and ask him out? if you are too scared to do that ((like most people are)) why dont u jsut ask him to hang out somewhere or go see a movie ya know, just the two of you... if he asks u "u mean like a date" jsut say "if thats what u wanna call it then yea, a date." its really delicate n cute n hell like it a lot! lol
Hope i've helped n good luck he sounds like a winner! need anyhting else jsut ask!
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I like this guy, I don't know him that well but he is really cute and is in my honors class so he is smart too. From what i hear, some other girls like him too. We haven't really had a conversation since i've only been in school now for 1 week. I don't know if i should tell him that i think he is hott like some of the other girls, or just look for a guy that isn't in everyones mind.
If i do tell him, how should i say it or bring it up in a conversation. (link)
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HA! you have the same problem i ahve a lot of times! i always seem to go for the guy who everyone else likes!
Wel i wouldnt tlel him straight off tha tu think he is hott considering that you said you havent really had a full conversation wiht him. Go up to him and start a conversation. jsut say hi im______. whats ging on? just tlak liek you would wiht any other person. for all you knwo this kid could be a total jerk!
After a conversation if u still think you like him then flirt wiht him a little. ya know, let him catch u lookin at him in class, smile at him when u see him in teh halls. ask for his screen name, email whatever... find out what hes into adn talk about that when u talk to him.
If after a while it seems ot be workin then let him knwo what u think! maybe he will think the same!
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**....my mom and dad love my boyfriend AJ (his 18) but sometimes they porblems w/ him....my curfew is 11 and he brings me home at 11 and we jst hang out down stairs for a lil bit before he goes home..well last nite he was over and my dad came down stairs and told him he had to leave and if he ever stayed late past my curfew at the house he would call the cops on him...what should i do when my parents don't like the things that me and my boyfriend do or the things that he does?
**we have been dateing for 6 months** (link)
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It sounds to me like your parnets jsut wnat to keep you safe. I woudl talk to your parents and ask them why he cant stay a little while as long as you are home by cerfew? tell tehm that its not liek you are out adn tehy dont knwo where you are. you are at home safe. Then talk to your b.f maybe you could tell him to drop you off a few minutes early that way you guys can have a longer goodbye. Whatever you do don't throw a hissy fit and act like a baby becuase that will jsut maek your parents think that you guys arent mature enough.
Good Luck adn if you need anyhting else jsut ask!!
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i just got a tokay gecko from my friend and shes grumpy. i realize thats a species characteristic but i was wondering if anybody has domesticated one to the point that you could safely handle it, and if so, how? (link)
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Just go too google.com and do a search on tokay geckos... sorry btu thats the best advice i can give!
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I want to know some good pick up lines to use on people. Thanks~! (link)
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my advice... dont use pick up lines! they are immature and nearly never work... the best thing to do is to introduce yourself and tell them a little about yourself. then become ((or just act)) really interested in what they have to say. PIck up lines suck and i knwo girls ((and guys)) find them really annoying!
Hope i helped! if you need anyhting else jsut ask!!
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i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do? (link)
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wlel in my opinion you shoudl wait until marriage to ahve sex.
IF you feel youa re ready thent hat is your desicion. however you need ot talk to your doctor, get birth comtrol pills, ABSOLUTELY use a condom, and make sure you get checked regularly for STD's adn AIDs
Liek i said it is my opinion that you should wait until marriage for sex but if you feel you are ready make sure you take nescessary precautions
I hope this helped and if you need anyhting else then please just ask!
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What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?.. (link)
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That is not what i call a good friend! and whya re oyu back wiht him?!?! didnt u learn teh first time.. u deserve better
Sit down wiht your friend and tlak to her. Ask ehr why she did it and why she lied abotu it. Try to get it from ehr point of view but also explain to ehr how hurt you are why you are upset. What she did was absolutely disgusting and i knwo if one of my friends did that to em we woudl definalty not be on speaking terms for a while.
But sit ehr down talk to her and then maek a desicion from there as to whether or not you want this peson as a friend.
Good Luck Hope I helped!! if you need anyhtign else then just let me know!
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here i go:
okay my best friend...."Nancy"....well we have been friends for about 3 years and well we have a lot of fights about stuff!! we just recently had a fight and she said "we have 2 many fights" and she hasn't been talkin 2 me a lot usually she is the one approachs me and says "hi" but now i'm sayin "hi" only she won't talk 2 me!! i said 2 her okay u wanna b like that fine so i haven't talked 2 her!!! what should i do?? she is gettin on my nerves and she is actin like a child, i am 2 mature for this kind of childish behavior!!! Lemme Kno!! :)
xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*. (link)
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I think "Nancy" is being a little immature! i have friends who will do that to me.. but i ask who si the one who usually starts the fights? and is it about stupid things that you are just not seeing the same point of view on? they say that opposites attract but in some cases people are jsut to opposite to have a friendship or relationship. I would sit ehr down and talk to ehr adn ask her why she thinks you have so many fights adn also why she hasn't been speaking with you lately. Make your decision from there!
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What does it mean to have muscle tone in ur cheeks and is it a good or bad thing? I work out this summer so would that help and how can I improve it if it's a bad thing? I don't care what ppl think of me it jus would make my self-confidence higher. Thanks! (link)
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If you have muscle tone in your cheeks then its just like as if they were talkin about anywhere else in your body! it means you ahve muscle and having muscle is always a good thign! Usually if its muscle tone in your cheeks then it means you ahve a good face sttructure! take it as a compliment!!
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What does this mean...
"Denial is the first stage?"
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If you are talkin about liking someone then that can mean it is the first stage into realizing you liek someone. There are stages you go through wiht everything and denial is usually one of them. When you like someone a lot of times you wont want to admit it adn you will deny it ((hence the denial)).
Hope that Helps and if you need anyhtign else jsut let me know!
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Is it good or bad to be sensitive? (link)
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There is nothgin wrong wiht being sensitive but being overly sensitive cna get odl FAST! you want to be sensitive enough to care what toher poeple think but you dont want to be so sensitive that you burst out in tears at even slightly sad movies or things of that sort! If you jsut act like yourself i'm sure you will be fine! Just be respectful and caring and you will eb ok!!
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do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all (link)
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A little bit of both!
Girls like a guy who is going to be sensitive and respectful... but not so sensitive that hes going to cry his eyes out during a sappy movie or anyhting liek that. If you jsut act like yourself and are respectful towards her, her friends, adn he family, then you will be fine!
Hope i helped!!!
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now almost 5 months but lately we've been fighting alot and i dont like it..like everyday something new to fight about comes up..we hang out like everyday so people say its because we need to hang out less..he brought up taking a "break" or time apart..im scared..=(..what should i do..and does it seem like its gonna work out in the end?
xO ManDiiE =) (link)
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I'm really sorry btu this doesnt seen liek ti is going to work uot for you two.
The same thing ahppened to ym friend. SHe fought about somethign new wiht her boyfriend after a long relationship. ((it was towards the end that they started fighting)) eventually she broke it off and althoguhg she still cared about him she realized that it was for teh best. and she is also a lot happier now
I think that you should should break it off now before he really hurts you ((emotionall or physically!))
Sorry adn i hope ti works out int eh end! Rate me
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im the jelous type and my bf and i got mad at this one girl for the same reasons and we both used to be best friends with her, but now hes not really mad at her. he says hes just happy to ignore her. but i have a feeling that they're going to be friends again because they go to the same school and i dont. i trust him...but also i think im going to lose him. he told me he checks out other girls and all and then he wonders why i think im going to lose him. i love him so much and i just cant help being jelous, but i dont know if i should talk to him about it or not. (link)
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If he is telling you taht he has checked out other girls then its time to let him go!
You can't be in a relationship wiht someone tha toyu dont trust and you obviosuly dont trust him. The sooner you break it off the easier ti will eb to get over him. I knwo you may think you like him a lot but look at what you jsust said. 1. he checks out otehr girls. 2. you are extremely jealous. and 3. you dont trust him.
I think that although u like him it will be better fro the both of you if you just let him go...
I'm sorry and i hope you feel ebtter pelase rate me!
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hey, im gunna be startin high skool on august 9th
can sum ppl tell me sum do's and don'ts
i kno that ill have friends goin to my high skool,and im pretty outgoin, so i know that ill make new friends too, but i was woderin wut r sum good ways to make friends, and wut r Do's and Don'ts when it comes to high skool and peer pressure
I RATE!!!(i don't like to rate unless answers are terrible or great, but sumtimes thats the only way to get people to answer..see how deperate i am¿?!)
o by the was 14/f/nc (link)
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just be yourself! i started high school last year and althoguh it seems like a scary thign at frist it really isnt! once you finally get down where your classes are you are good to go! dont worry about doing somethign wrong. just be yourslef and im sure you will eb fine. if you relaly wants some do''s and dont's tho her you go
do- be outgoing, tis the best way to make new friends. join in sports, clubs and things of that sort.. hte more involved you are the better off you'll be. wiht guys, dont do anyhting you dont want to do. if a guy asks you out adn u dont want to go out with him say no. NEVER worry abotu your reputation
dont's- dont be the shy chick in teh corner. don't get distracted too easily in clases. high school is a lot tougher than grammar school (trust me!=) ) dont start rumors or thigns like that and remember that gossip is NEVER a good thing. dont elt wat people say get to you cuz there are always going to be poeple who dont like you.. jsut ignore em!!!
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What does Imao mean? I know what idk means but what does this mean? I try to answer questions but these abrevations get in the way of me understanding sometimes. Could someone tell me? Thanks in advance!
advice~gurl (link)
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that means laugh my ass of. i use abbreviations all the time and most of them confuse my friends too. lol if you need to knwo what any other abbreviations mean then jsut drop a question in ym inbox and ill answer asap. Hope I Helped! PLease Rate
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My boyfriend is a punk and i am like a cheerleader and im like a prep and stuff i dont know if i shold break up with him because later on in life i mean we might not work because he is a punk and he told me to choose him or cheerleading i am half hawaiian so like i have been doing hceerleading since i was 5 and surfing since i was 2
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im a prep and all ym best friends are punks so i disagree wiht whoever said tha tpunks dont usually talk to preps cuz that bullshyt... however.... if he is makign you choose then its him that needs to go because he can't tell you that its him or nothing... he isnt that great if he is making you choose anywyas... i wouldnt choose just yet but if he brings it up again let him knwo that if he makes you choose then eh will eb the oen to go...
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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him! (link)
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You need ot tell soemone right away! this is called abuse and it is illegal! tell your parents or a loved one immediatly because he needs to eb stopped before he causes you permanent damage...
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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks! (link)
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Ther eis nothign wrong with using an eyelash curler. Your eyelashes will remain perfectly intact and fine. occasionaly and eylast wiht fall out but hey,everyone;'s do.. they are supposed to! i woudlnt worry abotu it!
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hey i have this friend and i dont really like her and she annoys me. well she considers me her best friend and all and always wants to come over. i always make up some excuse so she doesnt. my mom doesnt like her either and doesnt want me to hang out with her. i mean that would be fine and all but we dont only go to school together we also have dance together which is EVERY day of the week. so i cant really get away from her. i dont want to hurt her feelings or make her mad at me (or her mom mad at me) cause than at dance it could be a problem. wat should i do ??? (link)
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Just put up wiht ehr. It can;t hurt to go over there once in a while. Maybe you could tlak to her and tell her some of the things she does tho annoy you and ask ehr to stop. Either way you are going to hafta see her all teh time. My opinion would be suck it up.
I ahve a friend jsut liek this too. My mom did not liek her at all and did not enoy em hanging out wiht ehr. To eb truthful i dont liek ehr eihter. every once in a while i would go over there for an hour or two so that i didnt hurt her feelings. This way i didnt ahve to dela wiht her a lot and then everyone (including my mom) was happy. Try working soemthign out!!
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