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my mom says no...
hey i have this friend and i dont really like her and she annoys me. well she considers me her best friend and all and always wants to come over. i always make up some excuse so she doesnt. my mom doesnt like her either and doesnt want me to hang out with her. i mean that would be fine and all but we dont only go to school together we also have dance together which is EVERY day of the week. so i cant really get away from her. i dont want to hurt her feelings or make her mad at me (or her mom mad at me) cause than at dance it could be a problem. wat should i do ???
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Just try to avoid her and act like something is wrong and tell her you need sometime alone-trix
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Hey , i think you should just tell her, in a nice eay u think u should be friends with her.
hopefully she understands.
-kat
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This girl obviously looks up to you, you should be flattered. I know that sometimes those tag-a-long friends can get REALLY ANNOYING, but the best thing to do is say that you don't really want to hang out outside of dance class because you have too much homework, you're grounded, etc. Eventually she'll get the hint. I don't usually tell people to lie, but if you talk to her about this, you're going to really hurt her feelings & embarress her. How would you feel if someone you really like told you to f*ck off or go away? Put yourself in her shoes, and handle the situation delicately.
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i'd just tell her how you feel.. but in a nice way.. i had that problem once with one of my friends and i just told her that i thought that she was cool and all but she should just try hanging out with other people and stuff but u still want to be her friend.. either that or try to introduce her to someone else someone who you think she'll like and maybe she'll back off more!
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just tell her that you guys just both need some space..and sum time apart..im sure that she will understand! if shes nice enuf she will understand! dont b afraid to express ur feelings! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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Be nice to her. Don't be all cheerful around her and everything, and when she wants to hang out with you, give her a semi bad excuse so she gets the point, but not so bad that it's unbearing. (i don't feel well will do just fine) and then there will be no tension, but no friendship
Lizzy
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you should talk to her and tell her how she is annoying and maybe she will understand from where toy are coming from.
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Just put up wiht ehr. It can;t hurt to go over there once in a while. Maybe you could tlak to her and tell her some of the things she does tho annoy you and ask ehr to stop. Either way you are going to hafta see her all teh time. My opinion would be suck it up.
I ahve a friend jsut liek this too. My mom did not liek her at all and did not enoy em hanging out wiht ehr. To eb truthful i dont liek ehr eihter. every once in a while i would go over there for an hour or two so that i didnt hurt her feelings. This way i didnt ahve to dela wiht her a lot and then everyone (including my mom) was happy. Try working soemthign out!!
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