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i've been going to school with the same people for the past 10 years. I go to a private school and there is only about 30 people in my whole grade. we've all been friends up until this year. it all changed. i don't know what happened but all of a sudden, no one really likes me anymore. i've been nice to them all and tried my hardest to be there friend. i only have 4 really close friends now and it really bugs me because none of the guys like me because i'm not popular. help!!!
go to your friends and just ask them if anything you have done or if something you did in the past offended them...and if so then try to work it out!!!
does it hurt you or feel weird when you take out a tampon?!?!
thanx,
anomonyous
if you get the wrong size it might hurt a little...but usually no it doesnt
i have this one friend who is so annoying and makes weird noises all the time and she gets on everyone's nerves. i've tried talking to her and she said she would stop but she hasn't yet. what should i do?
-Annoyed-
when ever she does it just tell her that this is what your talking about and when she does stuff like that...it makes people dislike her
How do I really know if i'm ready to have sex? My Boyfriend and I have been together for a lil over a month... and I feel conforable around him ... but im not sure if im ready to have sex with him yet... how will i know if im ready?
you will just know....you will be in a situation and the you will feel if going that far feels right to you or not!!!
i was homne alone bored n i want on the computer. i typed in some random webiste and up came porn. it gave me a virus n broke my computer..i dont know what to do and i am afraid my mom will get all mad. i didnt mean to look up porn but if i tell her what i was doing she will go to the site and think i did...help.
just tell her...if you hide it she will think your trying to voer it up...tell her the website you were trying to go to or what you typed in and let her see for herself what came up and that it wasnt your fault
any body have any good ideas on wat to get my bf for his birthday? hes turning 16 n by then we'd be together for 6 months:-) thanks*
well it depends on what he likes....if he is a preppy guy then go to somwhere like Abercrombie and get a gift certiciate and like one of his favortie cd's...if he is a country guy...then a nice new belt buclke is always a good thing!!! if he is a punk guy....then go to Spencers and get him something funny!!! Spencers has soo much cool stuff and its really cheap!!!
Hi. I wanted to know. If my boobs are too small and I wanted to get boob pills! How could I get them if im not 18 and I dont have a credit card?
Sigened.
Flat Chested!
there isnt a pill to make your boobs bigger!!! loland you have reached youf full growth @ 18 so don't start worrying just yet!!! and even if there are pills....im sure they dont work
hey yall
im pretty sure my bf cheated on me so im breaking up with him wen he gets bak from a trip of corse ill ask him bfor i do it but his best friend is my best friend to and even he thinks he did it and it gunna try to find out for me. anyways my problem... i stil like my bf even tho he cheated on me and also u no the best friend? wel iv kinda liked him for awhile and i had a chance awhile ago but i let it go, now he likes my arch-enemy/old best friend hoo is beautiful and "hott" and every single guy likes her even tho shes bitchy and uses ppl alot like her current bf hoo shes using to get a commercial deal anyways she says im a bitch and that i try to be better then her and im not. i think she likes him to but he might not ask her out cus he thinks shes kinda using him to get at me. i dont think that even tho she has done it bfor and i told him that even tho i dont want him to like her. i cannt lie to him. thers also another guy i like hoo probly likes me and is the guy i should b going out with. should b. but im not. idk if i like him jus as a frend or more. but hes one of those guys hoo could never ever hurt u... hes never broken up with sum1 bfor... hes really sweet and innocent and im not so much iv ben 2 second base a couple of times... idk its all so confusing which guy do i like and which guys dont i? i no in this case my advice to myself would b to get over the 2 that i have no chance with... im on my way to getting over the guy hoo cheated on me but the other one i realy realy like. and i dont think he likes me... he could but idk? he used to but i doubt he stil does. o wel like kinda sucks any advice yall?
break it off with the one who is cheating on you...dont go out with your best friend because that could ruin a good friendship and piss your x off lol....and after that just go where your heart takes you!!!!
Hey umm im 15 and im preg. i need to know will i get my period?
you wont get it until after the baby is born
hey yall i jus found out that my bf is probly cheating on me and this stuff happens to me all the time i always get used at and it really sux and wel i jus dont no how to deal with it cus wenever this stuf happens i get really depressed and shit and i think about cutting and stuff but i never actualy do it i jus need sum way to get out of this place or idk i jus idk
well find out for sure if he is or not...and if he is then just forget about him!!! and dont put pain on yourself just because of a dumb boy!!!! its not worth it at all...spend time with your friends or get out and do something to take your mind off of him
what are those faces in the corner suppose 2 signify????
if the question is a good one....an ok one...or a bad one
I like a girl and she says she likes me two........but also she has a boyfriend but i really like her.......What should i do
just keep on going the way you are going....dont try to break them up or anything...just keep being friends until they break up on their own
ne one kno a store where u can buy "punk" type clothes? my mall has all abercrombie etc and im just looking for a place where i can find my type of clothing except for like hot topic and stuff...they r really nice except expenisive and more gothic. so help if u can thanks alot :)
umm Gadzooks....Pacsun......
I'm 14/F n im goin out with what some people call a 'player' everyone is telling me that i should break up with him right away. but i cant! he makes me so happy and i really like how he makes me happy if im upset or anything. i feel i can really talk to him about anything and everything. my friend (who is a guy) is telling me now that my boyfriend has hit his past girlfriends! i dont know if thats true or not. everyone seems to be against my going out with him and i dont know what to do anymore. they're telling me that he is going to ruin my life and im making a huge mistake by staying with him! i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him. but he makes me soo happy and thats why i dont want to break up with him! i just dont know what to do. if anyone has any advice please give it to me, id really really appreciate it. thank you..
if he makes you happy then stay with him and dont listen to your friends....you see a side of him that maybe they can't see!! BUT if he starts pulling that abusive crap on you...it doesnt matter how much you love or a like a person....you leave right away because something like that can only get worse!
Okay so i have this friend that we will call David. He's my best friend, but I think i like him and he might like me, im not sure. I can't get him outta my mind. I'm going crazy. Should I tell him that I like him or just keep it to myself? I mean I tell him everything and he came to my b-day parties and everything. I really don't know what to do. I hope someone can help me soon.
Signed,
Confuzzed
yes you should tell him!! he might like you too and he just might be too scared to say anything...and if neither of you people say anything...then you will never know if yall could have been an item or not!!!
I need help because i dont kno if i should call this guy to tell him i like him or if i should just keep it to my self???
call him!!!!!!!! you guys might hook up
How old are ppl when they have THE kiss? Like what's the most likely age?
no certain age
i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do!
tell him how you feel!!!!
hey i like this guy ALOT and i dont know if he likes me but um he is going into 10th grade and is frickin hot!! i dont know what to do! should i ask him out?! PLEASE HELP ME!
girl go for it!!!! you only live once!!! take chance and have fun!!! the worst he can do is say no right?!
ok i started talkin to this guy named chris about 5 months ago...we wer really good friends and our parents knew eachother so i was allowed to go everywhere with them!! they new we liked eachother 2....well he got grounded about 3 months later n we juss LOST CONTACT 4 S0O0 LONG....well i ben really thinkin bout him bc he treated me s0o well....and i called him up....he wasnt ther but his dad was like sara? ohh hey how r u? r u still in soccer?? blah blah juss totally tlkin to me!! his family loves me!! well ya so he called me last nite but my cell was on silence so i juss saw the missed call!! i was s0o happy!! well i called him today adn he had to go sumwher with his mom so we didnt get to talk and we havent talked for months....shuld i call him back?? wat do i say?? i have NO idea wat to say to him but i really like him n wanna hangout agen!! im really nervous!! plz help idk wat i shuld do!! WAT DO I SAY TO HIM??
yes call him back!!! just starting makin conversation...ask him whats been goin on...what he has been up to lately...how his family has been doing and stuff like that!!! just catch up on old times! before ya know it...things will just coming pouring out to talk about!!! good luck sweetie!!! oh and dont be nervous!!!! just take a deep breath if you feel your getting choked up and just talk slow and be calm!