Iam a girl with black hair and gray eyes. I like to go to the gym to workout because it relieves stress. I like to help people no problem whatever they ask I won't judge people I'm just a person willing to give you some advice that's all. I think its important to have a good education and a good carrer in life. I want this world to be peaceful which is one of my biggest dreams!I'm back!I apologize to you all for not being able to help you guys in need for help whatever help you ask for just write me in my inbox,I'll answer as soon as possible.
Gender: Female
Location: Brooklyn,New york
Occupation: student
Age: 17
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i have recently gotten really into cooking i want to know some good things i could cook for my family??? i don't need the recipe i just need some ideas.
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Some pasta salad,spaghetti,soup with chickhen,porkchops,rice,seafood like freshly cooked crab, with mashed potatoes anything fancy.
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My best friend really liked this guy, he wasnt technically her boyfriend but they have been on and off for about 2 months now because he liked another girl. My friend finally had the last straw and asked him to pick between her and the other girl, and he didnt know what to do. She left for vacation for a week and we started talking...a lot. We both realized we were perfect for each other and another week went by, and we finally decided to tell her. She hung up the phone on my and told him she never wanted to see either of us again. What do i do?!? I dont want to lose my friend but I never get what i want and we both really feel strongly about each other and we want to be together. (link)
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I know this is very hard for you but you have to choose the guy or your best friend because you can't always have both.Let me tell you why if you apologize to her then you're going to have to lose the guy in order for her to give you another chance but it's a 50% chance because some people never forgive betrayal so it's a big risk or take the guy and lose your bestfriend but perhaps you already did.Think this out carefully and calmly to figure out what your decision will be.
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this may be long, i don't know.
but its important so pleaase help
this kid i know, he told me hes a drug dealer, & told me if i told anyone, he'd be really mad. hes only 15 years old. so im like worried. cuz i didnt see it coming, like hes really poor. so he needs the money, like sometimes they go with days without like electricity, or whatever. nobody knows about it but me, & a few other people. when i started to ask about it, like pretended i wanted to do it.. [sell it] he wouldnt give me any information. so im hoping hes lieing. therefore, i dont think i wanna tell anyone.. cuz he could go to jail & then it will turn out he doesnt even sell it or something. what will happen if they find out? what should i do? i just want to help him. hes my best friend. (link)
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You need to talk to his parents about it because he could be getting into a very serious problem,end up going to jail even if you don't tell on him because eventually he'll get caught one day selling drugs.You don't want the blame that something bad happens because you didn't say anything about it so do it as soon as you can before it's too late.
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sometimes, when my period is really heavy blood comes out and it kind of looks like red jelly. is this normal? or should i be concerned? what is it? (link)
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Some periods act differently every month there may be times you see that the blood is like a different red like light red or dark red but don't freak out it's normal.
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I am a 17 year old female & I work at a candy store. I really like working there, the only trouble is they let us eat whatever we want. I am not big, but I do wind up eating TONS of candy & I want to stop! I try to tell my self I can't (or just to have a little bit) but when I see everyone else I work with eating too, I cave in and wind up over eating most of the time. How can I stop eating so much? How do I get more will power and not eat the candy (or at least cut down on the amount I eat)? any advice (besides quitting my job) would be great! Thank you! (link)
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When they start eating look away,so you don't have the temptation to want to eat,bring yourself something healthy like fruit,remember whenever you're hungry eat fruit.
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ok....well me and this girl has been talkin for maybe 2 weeks and we rly like eachother but another girl ive known for like 2 days walks up to me and asks me to play volleyball and the whole time im playing volleyball ashhlynn thinks im flirting and all that crap and i was playing volleyball haha u know how that goes but she talked to this girl her name is misty i think and she was like i rly like him hes a great guy and hes cute and on and on and on about me and i figure out shes seen me walk through the halls and she just sees me everywhere ha and ive never seen her in my life. well ashlynn feels sorry for misty and shes like ivan we cant be together bc misty would get mad at me and not be my friend anymore.....and yeah i about cried ha (link)
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Ashhlynn needs to know that she should go after her happiness it's not like she is stealing you from her I mean you and misty aren't anything keep insisting. I'm sure one day she'll respond back,let Misty know that you're not interested in her so you get that cleared out ,and I'm sure she'll get over it and let you two be together.
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1)okay so this girl first asks for my email add then my phone number,then one day i waved at her in school and she was absolutely shy and looked down the whole time.Now we are talking on msn.so does she like me?or is she just naturally shy and wants to be just friends?
2)But what i don't get about girls is that you know how some girls are outgoing and super friendly?So she may talk to you a lot and like you or maybe just talk to you cause she is just being friendly to you as she is to the other guys.So is their a way to know?I mean,if a girl talks to a guy a lot,does that mean that she's interested in him?cause it doesn't really make any sense for a girl to talk a lot to a guy since girls mostly mix with girls and vice versa, plus girls mostly talk about girls stuff which guys know nothing of,unless he's gay. (link)
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For the first one yes she does but she's just too afraid to show her feelings towards you.As for the second if a girl askes the guy a lot of questions about his life it's because she is interested in him but if she wasn't then she really won't bother.
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My mother's boyfriend is very inconsiderate to my little sister and I. He seems to think that anything that we have to say can not possibly be more important than what he might be saying, even if we need help with our homework or are cooking dinner and can't find something. He also does not seem to think that the rules of the house apply to him. Another big problem is his phone behavior. He will call while one of us is on the phone with a friend (we have call waiting) and when we tell him that we are on the phone and that we will have our mother call him when we are done, he still calls back about ever five minutes. He has done this when we were on the phone long distance, and we finallly got irate and yelled at him (he had called back six times, we counted) Then when he talked to our mother, he told her that we were rude to him. We have told all of these things to our mother over the last two years, to no avail. How can we get her to break up with this jerk? (link)
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Convince your mom that he's not the one not by just details you will need proof to get him out of the picture.Like get a recorder,but don't let him see it,ask him something like to help you with something,make him say something really mean and for sure she'll have to get rid of a guy that has no respect for her children.
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There is this boy that I like and I don't know if he likes me... He used to live across the street from me for like a year, and we used to play outside a lot but, then he moved and we talk on the computer and we talk on our cell phones a lot. And he had a girlfriend, but then my friend told him that I liked him and the next day he broke up with her. But then when I was talking to him on the computer, he said "so your going out wit 'blah' and then he said wrong IM, so I'm just wondering if he likes me or not? (link)
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Yes of course he does then why would he break up with his girl after he found out you like him.It's pretty obvious so you got nothing to worry about.
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uuugh i think i gained weight since summer started, even though i've been more active. i was trying on jeans the other day and they seem smaller from the end of school. its basically only my lower stomach/sides and my upper thighs. everytime i try to eat healthier and not as often and excercise i can never stick to i t and its soo frustrating because i try on clothes and i feel like nothing looks good. i went running one morning but it felt weird because im only 13 and the only people who run/walk in my neighborhood are like, old. i reallly want to look better for when i go back to school, but idk how. what are some tips that you know work, and pleeease be specific! thank youu :) (link)
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I'll tell you what really works Like eat one small meal,for the rest of the day eat just fruits,vegetables but eat every three hours,drink at least 4 to 6 cups of water.You'll lose for like a pound or two in a week and you'll see that when you weigh yourself on a scale.At first it will be hard but keep forcing yourself by saying that you have to lose weight because you want a beautiful body you see on magazines,that you want the clothes you desire to fit you.Also do at least 45 minutes of cardio or running,your body needs at least a day like workout almost everyday of the week.You could get into a gym so you could run without distractions like gold's gym,Bally total Fitness or other gyms near you and trust me it will make your life much easier!
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So i really liek this kid thats 2 years older than me..and i think he might have an interest in me..but we used to be able to talk for hours and now..when he signs on i get a weird feeling in my stomach..and i can never get him off my mind. and now i dont know how to IM him. I really like him..and his one close friend said he did. But, i dont know if i should get more info out of his friend or not. Please help! (link)
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If you really like him then yes get more info on him,I think that in some cases age does matter but when two people love each other,want to be together then it doesn't because that is a strong bond that not even age can get in the way of that strong love.
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When I talk and flirt with a boy, he usually flirts back. Then I jump on the fact that he likes me just as much as I like him. How do I chill out, and idk, "play that game" where it doesn't seem like I'm desperate to be with him. Sometimes I can scare guys away like that, what should I do? (link)
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Just play it nice, cool you know take things a little slowly,calmly like start off make talking about your interests,his,other things that you find important to know about him.First start off with a nice friendship then let some time pass,that you feel he is the right guy for you then go for it.
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does garnier fruitis acutally make hair grow faster and cut down on the split ends and stuff? because i blowdry and straighten my hair a lot and my hair is getting unhealthy so does any garnier fruitis product make my hair healthier? (link)
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Like I told some other girl it does actually make your hair grow faster,there is a serum for Garnier Fructis which adds shine to your hair, it makes it healthier so try it, and see for yourself.
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My 6 year old daughter recently started saying she wants to meet her real dad (he hasn't seen her since she was two years old except for a brief chance meeting at a friends house a two years ago.) I'm not sure what brought this on, except that I just had another baby with a different man, and he and I share custody, so maybe she's feeling a little jealous that her baby brother's dad is around but hers isn't. I'm no longer involved with my son's father, but we are civil for our child's sake so it isn't like he could be a father to her. But I need to know- do I call my daughter's father and make him have a relationship with his daughter? I don't know what to do, or what to say to her. (link)
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I say that your daughter deserves to spend some time with her father so you should really speak to him about being a part of your daughter's life because then you don't want the poor little girl growing up without the feeling of how it feels to have a father,you may regret it.So do what is best for your daughter.
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i have recently moved into a new town and the whole "community" is teasing me and my family.
someone even vandilised the house.
my whole family cannot even go outside without being beaten up, or teased.
my parents mow fell into depression.
what can i do to cope with this, and to make the "community" stop teasing and abusing us (link)
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Some ideas well that would involve you to go outside but sometimes you would have to take risks like one is try to make an agreement with them or make some homemade food for them to show your nice people or to go on strike.If those ideas don't work then extreme measures would have to be taken like to have the abuses filmed,reported to the police.As for you to cope I say to pray,stay confident,strong because your family will need someone to look up to,it is probably you.Good luck!
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13 Female.
School starts in 10 day's, and I want to come back with a splash. I'm getting braces tomorrow (finally) my hair's grown and taken an adorable shape, and my boob's have gone from being a 34B to a 36C. I've done alot of shopping and my face has cleared up.
Now I want that personality to go with it. You know, friendly, outgoing, confident, cute, and flirty. I'm sick of being too loud, or too obnoxious. How do I tone myself done, to be the calmer, cooler, collected girl I am? Thanks! (link)
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A personality you should have for your huge comeback would be outgoing,funny,friendly,and a generous person.You should have someone to test you on how to be the personality you want to be.Like for example, a person to show he or she is calm like when people are going loud or wild you just show you're not by just watching,another example for showing your cool would be that when someone needs some help from you help them out,you stick up for them,or you could also dress cool to fit the whole cool personality.
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me and my boyfriend were talking about being romantic and he said he would like it i were to be more romantic well ima girl and i dont know who to do that, any ideas? (link)
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Things that are romantic are like love poems that express your true love for your mate,candles,some wine,some firecrackers,and a beautiful view.
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well im overly jealous, like words couldnt explain. and i want to stop it. My boyfriend has tons of girls that are friends, and he talks to them and stuff, and i just dont want to be jealous any ideas on how to make that feeling go away? Because i know guys dont like it when they know a girl is a jealous person. (link)
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You could say to yourself"I have to show I'm mature,that I trust my boyfriend because trust is important to maintain a relationship,that whenever he's talking to them he's only thinking of me,he has me who he kisses,cuddles,and they don't".So you're really the lucky girl and not them just keep saying that whenever you start getting that feeling.
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are there any signs youre going to get your period for the first time? and ifso how long after you get the sign will you get your period? (link)
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You start to get pain in your stomach,you know it's not something bad you ate,your head feels dizzy.That same day when you receive the sign because that's what happened to me when I first got my period.
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im trieng to get my ex boyfriend back and i have no idea what to say i've tried telling him that i love him i've told him that i need him i just dont know what to say someone please give me some advice guys it would be helpful if u gave some advice to (link)
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Try telling him your sorry about whatever you did even though you know you didn't do something bad because for sure that is what he wants to hear,say that you would make it up to him,that if he takes you back it will mean the whole world to you,that you can't stop thinking about him,and that you know that he is the one you want to have children with some day,and be happy forever.
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