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Taking it too far?
When I talk and flirt with a boy, he usually flirts back. Then I jump on the fact that he likes me just as much as I like him. How do I chill out, and idk, "play that game" where it doesn't seem like I'm desperate to be with him. Sometimes I can scare guys away like that, what should I do?
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hard-to-get, you mean?
You just kind of act like you don't really care.
talk to other people but him
don't focus all of your attention on him.
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Just play it nice, cool you know take things a little slowly,calmly like start off make talking about your interests,his,other things that you find important to know about him.First start off with a nice friendship then let some time pass,that you feel he is the right guy for you then go for it.
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Hey!
You need to relax. Take it SLOW. Relationships take time. They don't grow overnight. You have to work at them.
Flirt a little but if he flirts back, don't assume all these things like he wants to marry you or anything. lol.
You just need to chill out.
It does scare guys away and... that's not good so you just need to ((like you said)) play that game.
Flirt with him and stuff but don't get too deep. I mean, you're just STARTING. Take it a lil slower. :-]]
Be FLIRTATIOUS but don't like, be cocky about yourself and KNOW you're gonna get the guy because then, you end up screwing everything up and it doesn't work. Be yourself. I know you hear that a lot but it works on a lot of guys, unless they're worthless, clueless pigs!
Just relax and let it work on it's own. If there's a chemistry, It'll happen. If not, maybe he's not good for you. Maybe you deserve better than him. You never know until you find out so experiment and flirt to see what happens!
Nature will take it's course. :-]]
If you need any more advice, you can certainly message me or whatever and I will try my best to answer every question you have. :-]]
♥ Kayla
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Hey,
Alot of guys out there play tough, and flirt with girls just for the fun of it. so thats why,you have to play too. And when a guy comes forward, put in your mind that he's just there to play around with you, and go with the game.
Give him good comebacks and play really hard and tough. And then if you do, HE may actually like you, and find you really cool and tough and all.
Its simple, because not every guy we stand and talk to, hang around with and flirt with, is someone we really like .There are friends, best freinds, good friends, and the people we have fun with. And these guys who come to flirt with you are a prime example of the people looking for fun. So don't scare them away, but just play the game nice and tough.
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Ah ! I know what you mean, but these days guys flirt and have NO IDEA they are flirting and giving an impression and dont take it as seriously us girls do. The key here is control, know your limits such as only talk to him when he talks to you first , then get into the juicy detail stuff. And go on group outtings with him and do some flirting but dont make yourself seem desperate. Good luck!
_kendra
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Guys like it when you fluff their style. Tell him that he looks good, smile and walk away or change the subject. Flirt lightly, but don't come on too strong. Don't touch them too much or act too available. Be available, but not desperate.. do you get what I'm saying? Well if you don't what I mean is, show him that you are interested but if he doesn't like you back, act like you don't care. HOPE I HELPED <3
sincerely, Abby =]
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