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hey everyone im maria and i love giving advice. im pretty good, at it i must say. so if you have a question just drop it in my inbox. lots of love ♥

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okay..i sweat alot in my armpits! i use secret platinum gel and it hasnt been working. i dont smell (atleast i dont think) but i get really really soaked in my pits rite when i get to school! its awful! please help! what is the strongest womens deodarant/antipersperant you know of? help me out please!

use mens deoderant. and put toilet paper under your arms when you go to sleep at night.hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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Theres a girl at my school (not my friend but i talk to her) and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. She's heart broken and feels that she isn't good enough. Now she wont eat..shes refusing to eat and its scaring everyone. She is dropping pounds by the second and is always depressed. I really want to help her, but I don't know her family personally enough to tell them. Should I let her suffer? i would feel wrong not telling anyone.

put an anonymus note in theyre mail box saying....
dear blah-blah-blah family,
at school i have noticed that your daughter, (name), has been suffering from anorexia because of a break up and she is really depressed. please please get her help or rehab im really worried about her. im not very good friends with your daughter im just really really worried.
sicerely,
someone who cares

or something like that. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?

ya know what! fuck you! you keep your comments and critisisms about other peoples religions to you self! good for you if you were never attracted to christianity, good for you! you dont need to be mad at it just dont be christian! im not brainwashed! i actually believe in god because i want to, and i want to go to heaven so i will live a happy after life! and for your information jesus is the idol of many people becuase he was a good person, and was nice to everyone! well, since you dont believe that jesus was a good person then you are going straight to hell my friend, straight to hell! have fun there, oh and tell me how santins been doing. FUCK YOU BITCH!

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I havn't worn my retainer for a LONG TIME, about 2 years, and my bottom teeth have moved, just the 4 in the frontish, and well, i was wondering, if i started using my retainer now...and delt with the pain, would my teeth move back into place??

yea theyd be straighter. hope i helped
xoxMARIAxox

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Is coffee fattening? Like just black coffee, nothing added?

not very. maybe 1 gram of fat just dont add sugar or creamer. hope i helped
xoxMARIAxox

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I went to the mvoies and the person i like was there his friend was with him and i think he told the person i like that i like him. The person I like started talking to my friends but not me he would avoid looking at me. He also used to like me, what does this mean?

this means that hes nervous around you and only avoids looking at you because hes scared of you because he likes you.

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Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE!

get a pregnancy test. it doesnt cost that much money, maybe 10 bucks. hope i helped
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13/m
I am going to a school dance on thursday (tomorrow). I don't know what to wear, however. It's a pretty casual thing. I also have no clue how to dance...some one please help! i rate high.

wear super tight low cut hip hugers. and a black cami. that is if your a girl. and you just mover your hips around, shake that ass girl! guys usually like that. if your a guys then i cant help ya out. sry. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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13/f
i can really get a guys attention weather i want to or not. the problum is im a really big flirt and people who like me think i like them, they ask me out, and get really imbarrised. i dont like turning guys down cause it makes me feel bad sence i made them think i like them but i also love love LOVE flirting for some strange reason. some people get jellous 2. it would be really hard 2 stop flirting sence i sometimes find myself flirting without meaning to. can someone help me? thanx

how can you possily hate being noticed by guys weather you like it or not? enjoy it! i dont get any attention, guys just dont like me. deal with it its the best thing that could ever happen to you!

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I can never eat breakfast- one because I'm a bit lazy because I'm tired and two because I'm not a big fan of it, but I know it's unhealthy not to eat it and I know you can gain weight from not eating it because then you pig out at lunch and the rest of the day. Any suggestions [besides fruit] and please note that I'm on a tight scheduale and don't have alot of time to eat or prepare it [no cereal suggestions, please]

theres these breakfast shake and theyre called carnation meal replacement shakes. they take a minute to make you just pour the milk and put the mix in and shake or mix it up. hope i helped
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yeah i am going through confirmation and like i have to look for a cute dress and well it can't be sleeveless. anyone have any places or anything that would have something cute? thanks!

you couls get a sleeveless dress and wear it with a sweater over it. hope i helped.
xoxMARIAxox

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I want to have kind of a spa - afternoon at my house, maybe with 1 friend over. But I was wondering - what should we do?? I have a hot tub ..anyone have any other ideas that we could do to be pampered? Please help!! =) Thank you ..ill rate high and give feedback!

masks-with cucumber on your eyes. and put on soothing music.hope i helped.
xoxMARIAxox

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They come big in random spots- under my hair- in my eyebrow- under my eye. They're huge. They don't go away. It feels like there are lumps inside of them and they stay for months. When they finally do go away they leave a big old hole that you could stick a pin into with a black old cloud underneath. Crap squeezes out of it until it bleeds and scabs over. This whole thing can last for like three months. It's so weird.
What the hell is wrong with me and how do I make them stop??? I eman there's never more than one of them at once but they're ugly and they hurt and they suck.

that always happens to me, pretty soon youll get used to it. and for now you should cover 'em up with make up. then go see a dermetogist. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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my family doesnt pay attention to me at all... its all about my perfect sisters... i used to wear one of my sisters clothes (bc i dont have any) and my mom was gonna buy me some clothes but she gave the money to my sister bc i ruined my sisters clothes and like my parents dont do crap for me im not tryin to be selfish but what should i do?

sorry for the writing I RATE 5'S!

well i suggest give your family the silent treatment, theyll feel bad and start doing tings for you. it allways works! hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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ok i have a boyfriend im 13 and he recently asked me to have sex with him. I really want to but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what should i do?

i think you should wait til way way after this summer. i think you should wait til ur maybe.....18? 19? thats a good age. im sorry to rain on your parade but sex isnt a very good idea until your at least 18, even with protection. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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Well i am 13 and i huffed once. i was with my best friend (not friends anymore) and she decided it would be cool.. i thought it would be fine because i was with a "good friend". well i told my closest frined whom i consider a sister and now she is upset with me. what can i do so she wont be upset with me. (she also knows i USE to cut which upset her too) i dont want to lose my "sister" because we are really close.. what can i do?? help plz i rate

tell her youve stopped cutting, and tell her that your sorry if you worried her. hope i helped.
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all my friends are really pretty. they are all blonde and skinny and rich. im the opposite. im ugly, not good clothes, overweight. everytime i go somewhere like the movies with my friends the guys all want to make out with them and sit with them when they just ignore me. when my friends suggest they makeout with me they pretend to gag and say ewww. it makes me really sad. help! how can i make myself prettier or find a guy who appreciates me? sometimes it feels like i deserve a boy more than the other girls. im a good person and friendly.

you should save all your money, every bit and buy some really cute clothes. i think it sounds like only you think your fat. you should also use the money you save to buy some makeup and wear it every day. and if you feel that uncomfortable with your weight then i suggest that you try to lose weight, diet and exersise are the keys!hope i helped
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Im 21 female. I feel trapped. I love my fiance and all but sometimes I feel the urge to run away. Far away. Away from everything including the only person that's ever loved or cared about me... him. I just want to be free. He says it's a hippie spell. The feeling of wanting to leave never stays away for long. What should I do?

go to a psyciatrist. it seems like you have some sort of depression. tell this to your fiance. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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alright so last month around feb 9th my boyfriend fingered me and i wasnt sure if he had anything on his fingers or not..well i freaked out because my period didnt come till feb 28!! (and im positive it was my period not just spotting) well this month i havent got my period yet and its april tommorow..i havent done ANYTHING whatsoever with my bf at all this month. maybe my period is just late because i didnt end my last period till march 6 or 7th. im not sure. so ive been REALLY freaking out about this. and today i took at pregnancy test and it said i wasnt pregnant. but what if it was lying? could i be pregnant? the test only costed 10$ so it was kind of cheap..

well you should get a more expencive one just to be sure, but your probablynot pregnant, hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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Ok well i'm 16 and cute (lol if i do say so myself :D ) ok well I have pretty thick hair. Its not like obesely thick or whatever but it's thick... and its not like extremely frizzy or crimpy or anything... but it gets a bit frizzy after blow drying it and its naturally wavvy. Do you have any advice for me? I hate that it's as thick as it is. I dont even shower every day BECAUSE that means i would have to do my hair all over again and it takes forever to straighten. When I blowdry it straight it not only takes forever, but it poofs out and i have to sleep on it like 3 nights in order for it to look good. some days I even had to go to school with it greasy just because it sucks when i wash it. ugh its so annoying! any ideas besides chemically straightening it and getting it thinned out (already done the thinning and chemically straighening it isnt an option for me)

get it professionally straightened by your hair dresser. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox

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