HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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please only girls answer.
what types of clothes/outfits do girls like on guys?? Im not interested in things like emo style or goth, no offense to those that are, i just dont like the style. any help would be appriciated. ..thanx.. (link)
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hey this is a girl dont worry lol i luv guys that dress all gangsta.I like it when they wear baggy low pants and a long baggy shirt on it and a cap.You know what i mean,like the way eminem or 50 cent dress.I hate guys that dress in tight stuff because its disgusting,and goth guys style isnt that cool either in my opinion.
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Is it bad to have confidence and think you are pretty?
This is coming from someone who had low confidence for a large number of years. I would never call myself pretty.
but this is a new year and the past is left behind.
and I'm a lot happier now. It's scaring me I guess. I'm happy when I go out and I smile ...and feel pretty?
Is that bad?
I mean.. confidence in everything.. that you think you are good?
It feels.. really weird/wrong. (link)
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Ofcourse its not wrong to be confident.Its the best thing in the world when you look in the mirror and go"daaaaayum"lool.Having confidence makes you be a stronger person on the inside.Like for example your a little chubby but you think your pretty,if a person comes up to you and calls you fat youll be like "PuLeAsE" and you wont be hurt by what this person says.You have to be confident in order to live happily.But if you think your ugly and a person comes and makes fun of you,youll go home and start crying.Feel like your beautiful which im sure you are and be happy with it!A person only lives once so make the best of it!Even if people come up to you and say your concited,it dont matter,people sometimes act like being confident is a bad thing when its not.Just make sure you dont start getting arrogant so people dont start getting annoyed.Being arrogant is when you look down at others and go"ewww im not talking to her shes ugly,im so much prettier"anyways hope i helped
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Hey everyone. I am looking for new hair. A COMPLETE change around. I thought about dying my hair and maybe perming some loose curls in my hair. But my hair is very thick, very frizzy and it's been chemically relaxed before. Does anyone know if perming will damage my hair or make it even frizzier? If I perm it, could I also dye it? or is that too much damage on my hair at once? I really want a drastic change. I would love to dye my hair but I have no idea what color. and if I cant perm it, I want a different cut. But I have a round face so I'm not sure what would look good on me. Can anyone help me out? Thanks So Much In Advance! (link)
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I think itd be easier if you put your pic up but anyway lol since you said you have a round face and frizzy hair you should perm your hair curly.That would look great on you.About dying your hair,it depends on your skin color,if your white then have your hair blonde,if your just normal peach color have your hair brown with red highlights,if your dark colored then mabey brown hair would look good on you.
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I"m seriously doubting anyone can help me with my problems but here goes anyway. I have a daughter that just turned 18. She is so lost, she has given me problems since she was 11, well now shes 18 and her life consists of black men,crack and sleeping with as many as she can. She was recently disgnosed with a veneral disease and confessed to her oldest sister that she may of slept with a man who was HIV. She is a leading influence on her 13 yr. old sister who is following in her path as hard as she can. I"ve had to get the law to look the 13 yr. old twice this week. She is failing school and I can't reach her. She and her sister are so full of hate towards me, I;ve been called so many foul names, I can't take much more. I'm thinking of sending the 13 yr.old to boot camp. I tried to send my 18 yr. old last year, but they called me to come and get her because she was threating staff. I am a decent person, I dont drink, smoke, I work hard, I feel like its my fault, they are this way. I so depressed, I think it would be better to be dead sometimes, if I didnt have to keep watch on my 82 yr. old father, I saw a therapist once ,but they cost to much. what do I do? (link)
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ALright imma give you the advice as honest as i can....ask yourself the following questions...were you ALWAYS there for your daughter when they were younger?Because your 18 year old daughter wont act like this because you treated her badly for one day....this happened because either your daughter fealt misunderstood by you for years OR you just spoiled her.OK,anyway this can be fixed and dont think all suicidal or that you want to die because you know,think of it...if you die,whatll happen to these girls?If they had a one in a million chance to change,youll ruin that chance by dying.anyway for your younger daughter,you need to have a lonnnng talk with her and be as sweet and understanding with her as possible,advize her and tell her whats right and whats wrong,to do that you have to go down to her age and be like her BUT give her the advice of a woman your age would give.You need to be like her best freind,thats what my mommy always did with me...im 16 and im like a totall mommys girl and my mom knows everything about me....why you ask?Because she taught me to do this ever since i was litle.For your older daughter...what do you mean you cant control her?your her MOTHER you can beat her if you wanted and she cant say a thing,i think the first thing you should do with her is to have the talk with her too,sit her down and tell her all you have to say,ask her what you did that made her this way,if she refuses to sit and listen simply just lock the doors and ban her from going out if she wanted and give her no money.she can cry her ass off if she wants YOU are the one that is in control not her.You know,mabey if you all were closer to god and religion none of this would happen...what about her father?if hes around he needs toknow what his daughter is doing.BE strong and dont give up on your daughters because god will judge you for what they do.
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Where can I get some plain, black pants? Nothing fancy, and not Dickies. Just plain black pants that are like jeans, but not. Anyone have any idea where I could get some? I'd appriciate it a lot. =) Thanks! (link)
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hottopic definetly lol i just ordered plain black pants that arent dickies from there
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i am 15 year old boy and about 2 months ago my friend gave me pot. i had some and since then i cant stop. im addicted to it and i dont want to tell anyone because i would totally be busted. my dad would find out and i would be dead. but i really want to stop because i no its bad for you but now, whenever im not high, i feel like crap. and my girl friend is trying to find out whats wrong and i want to tell her but i dont want her to turn me in. help (link)
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omg...ok look.You have so much people that care about you and love you,isnt that a reason why you should stay alive?It might be hard to stop,because if you dont take pot..youll feel really bad.But everything starts with one step at a time.Just dont take it at all for one day,,,youll feel bad but day after day when you dont take it,youll get used to not taking it.Youre seriously killing yourself with this.Youll get brain damage and might start hallucinating and this might ven end the relationship between you and your girl and all the people that care about you.
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I would just like to know what are traits you personally think make a person a loser? (link)
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In my opinion what makes a loser is if he doesnt care about his or her future,like he fails school knowing hes gonna end up unsuccessfull and still doesnt care.A loser aslo talks alot about his dreams and takes no actions in making them come true.A loser does things before thinking about the consenquences or does things he knows will get him in trouble and doesnt care.A loser is influenced by peers when they offer him drugs or has sex because everyone eles does.A loser does things that he doesnt like JUST to be accepted by others.A loser never stands his ground or defends himself from bullies but picks on the little kids.Most of all a loser is someone that has it in his hands to have a great future but doesnt do anything to build on it!
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My friend always ditches me.
& today she wrote this hugeeee apology.
I don't feel like i should forgive her, if shes always done it & said the same thing before.
What should i do? (link)
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if youve confronted her before about this and she still doesnt change then you shouldnt care about her anymore...you have other freinds dont you?Ditch her out too,give her a taste of her own medicine.No longer confront her about the fact that she ditches you,youre noones spare.
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how much does she weigh? (link)
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i read online that she weighs 110 pounds
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im only 17 a girl and i forget everything i need to smoke pot every day and thats the only thing that keeps my memory working properly before i have a cone i dont no anything and cant sit around nd take notice at whats happening what is wrong with me (link)
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im afraid this is the effects of smoking pot.You really need to stop smoking pot before this gets WORSE with you.This can lead you to hallucinating and even worse effects.Go see a doctor before it gets worse..
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Me and my boyfriend were at my house today and hes already had sex,
well we were fooling around i guess you could say and we got naked except for our underwear and he stuck his penis in me and this only went on for like 10 minutes. is it sex? i ended up bleeding after this. But i'm confused if it was sex or not, and if you would consider me a virgin. Cause like hours after that my boyfriend was like "i want to have sex with you wicked bad" so did we or not? (link)
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yep,you did it.You bled after which means ur cherrry was popped.Your no longer a virgin.Careful and make sure you have protections since this guy did it before.You dont wanna end up having STD's
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is it normal and stuff nowadays for teens to drink and do drugs...
ages starting at 13-14? (link)
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who ever said drugs and drinking was normal?the thing is even if it IS normal it will lead you to becoming abnormal,tell you how....when u take drugs...you get addicted to it and it damages your brain and body system and causes you to hallucinate.Do you call THAT normal?i totally dont!Dont do something your not convinced with just cause your freinds are doing it.You need to have your own personality.
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I had a few (maybe 3) bumps on my pelvic region (not actually on my vagina or in anywhere used for sexual activity)...I had these bumps in these upper area where the triangle of a bathing suit would cover. They were small and red and after itching them, one got extremely painful if touched too hard and appeared to be a whitehead. Then they dissappeared and have not come back...I'm pretty worried, and my boyfriend and then me are getting tested to make sure nothing is wrong (I am sexually active with my boyfriend). Could this be anything serious? (link)
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yes i think this is serious,if you didnt have them before you had sex then its obvious that you got these bumps cuza sex.And theyre painfull too!So i think you should see a doctor or a pharmecist and see whats wrong
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okay so i am 16 years old/female and i have only gotten my period once.. when i was 14. i think this is really wierd because like i have gone through every other part of puberty, like im done growing and my boobs are big and everything. when i did get my period it was a full 6 days and i dont know why i never got it again. it was late to begin with too since i have been the same height and stuff since i last got it. my parents say want to take me to get blood work done and im scared though. what could be the reason for not getting it? i've also never had sex and i also get a normal amount of discharge. help please!!!! (link)
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stress.Stress changes the way your body functions.Dont worry though,it can be a change of horomones.But the best thing to do in a condition like this is see a doctore
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i am 13 female and this guy invited me over to his palce after school. he like really hot so i said yeah. well we got there and he gave me a drink booze. and soon i was like really spining. he start to make out with me and i let him. as he got my skirt up and panties down. some other guys show up and well they all end up have sex with me. I am not sure why i let it happen am i a slut? (link)
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You want the truth right?Yes,what you did was very bad for a 13 year old.You can end up pregnant and not know who the father is.Theyre all gonna end up using you for sex now.A woman or female should be modest and not give herself away that easily.Im not trying to make you feel like crap im just telling you the honest truth.Anywayz whats past is past and now you have to thinik about the future.You can get STD's...do you know what that is?Before you do anything in life you should always ALWAYS think about the consenquences.Always look before you leap.
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Ok. I shave my "girlie parts" and I guess I am really sensitive down there because I keep getting bumps. I have been shaving down there for about 6 months now and the problem dosen't occur every single time, just sometimes. I always have a good razor, I always make sure to go really slow, and always use soap before and after every stroke of my razor. Any suggestions on how to prevent this? (link)
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razors always make it bumpy and weird down there,you should wax it.Wax makes your skin smooth and the hair dont come out for a while.But make sure your hair isnt too long or the waxll get stuck!you can use a razor to shave a lil bit and wax the rest
You get a wax kit from the pharmecy:)
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13/f.
Ok. About a year ago, I was masterbating and I started to bleed. It was almost time to start my period, but I didn't start until about a week after. I know I popped my cherry. But is it possible to have my cherry popped again? I don't want to go through the humilitation of telling my husband [or boyfriend if I feel I am ready] that I popped my own cherry. Please help ASAP. (link)
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There are surgerys you can get to have your virginity back but you can get that when your older,nothings wrong with telling your future guy that you popped it,so what?Its alot less humiliating then telling him that your cherry was popped cuza a guy!
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how do i stop liking a guy and move on? (link)
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Stop thinking about him and making imaginary convos between you and him in your head and do something to keep the thought of him from your mind
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Okay so tomorrow im hangin out with this kid and he obviously wants to have sex because hes really horny all the time and hes like open about it.
he says i love you to me but i highly doubt it. he told me he gets made fun of cause hes a virgin but i think thats the only thing he wants from me. how do i tell if he really does love me? he says he doesnt want to rush anything and hell wait until im ready but i dont know. should i trust him? (link)
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no way.no WAY.If hes been getting teased alot nowadays about being a virgin,its these days hes telling you that he loves you.Ask yourself these questions...has he ever noticed you before???If he hasnt then obviously he just wants your virginity.If he wants to lose his then it shouldnt be on you,youll start liking him and might end up pregnant from a guy that dont even love you.Hell go around and brag and tell his freinds that he got laid to...YOU!!
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16/female. I'm a junior in high school and my student teacher is extremely hot! He's 21 and he is totally in to me. We have sex at school, in the parking lot in his car. it's not regular sex but kinky crazy sex with toys and everything. Well he always tells me he loves me and if I ever left him he would freak out and come to my house and take me away. But I love this other guy at my school and I had sex with him...if the teacher finds out I'm screwed! He is always following me at school and making sure I don't flirt with guys. He even took me to his office once because I was "flirting" with guys and he kissed me really hard and said that he wouldn't ever share me. I need to get out of this relationship but I'm really scared for my life sometimes. The sex is getting way too crazy for me, he likes sticking things inside of me like sticks and everything. He's hot too, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Help? (link)
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Dude,a teacher doing it with you is considered RAPE.I think you shouldnt worry about this teacher and go for a guy your age.The teacher cant do anything about it,if he gets mad and tells anyone that you had sex with him hed get in some deep shit here....you should never have sex with a teacher man,he can be using you for sex!Dont you see what happens on the news?!You can end up dead one day if you refuse screwing this teacher....take care of yourself and...leave your teacher alone...itll only get you into trouble.
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